in passing saw a scene and a half of Young Sheldon like in this day and age can a new series (didn’t it start like idfk. last year. maybe the year before) where clearly a premise is audiences being familiar with your “we all know people who are just Like That right” character archetype it’s like. writers have to be at all aware that so much of that always overlaps with like unknowing caricatures of autistic people, right. and you’ve also made a premise the Young part so like, now the butt of the joke is like 7 or something

anyways from what i immediately gleaned the episode’s bit had to do with 7 or something young sheldon being preoccupied with trying to reconcile inconsistent details of lotr lore. in the first half scene a teacher remarks in front of the whole class that it is bad enough to be around young sheldon for an hour a day. in the next scene some [the comic book store guy who is a hippie and lore nerd] is listening to young sheldon and i’m like oh nice so this will be about how something uninteresting / weird to some is not universal and this guy will act normal to young 7 or something sheldon. the guy does and gives a knowledgable response & then you know, there’s young sheldon basically just clearly expressing the response in an involved / specific way some would find unusual, and then the punchline is comic guy having whatever revelation about getting to be normal now b/c he’s like gosh do i sound like that to other people

and i mean you know, given what we get when it’s like, this character is Textually Autistic. or even when like it’s a reality show and people are autistic and everything’s framed in xyz way. out here where sometimes winston [clearly of that “we all know people who are just Like This” genre] billions is given such verisimilitude / there are certain details at times that make it like, could anyone on the writing side of things be aware that this Could be a “oh, parodied Autistic People here” situation, but how then it’s like well would you even want them to know if the fundamental “punching bag / butt of jokes” status isn’t changed, which hasn’t yet ever changed for winston (though he is also a plot device in others’ character arcs, so he can get material re: that sometimes which lets him Not be currently punched / treated as a joke) so kind of have to presume it won’t. wherein like the highest hopes here even re: “you realize this is an autistic character, inadvertently” does in fact hinge on letting winston’s idiosyncracies simply ever be invoked in material that is at all sympathetic / just treats it seriously or you know, more matter of factly ever. where now it’s like well if winston & tuk being friends continues to be anything rather than a momentary joke to get winston, a third of tmc, out of the other two thirds of tmc’s way for a while, that’ll be the closest to winston being treated normally / sympathetically / matter of factly but probably only b/c tuk Also can be given [punching bag / butt of the joke] material so it’s like, well two wrongs make an amicable interaction....penning an open letter short essay to the writers that just goes “why do you think a character based at all on A Way Actual People Can Be would be universally regarded via a perspective that firmly Others him” like why are we never ever given winston any arcs for his own sake examining his emotions & motivations when this is a series about that, and not bringing up that i think he is autistic b/c then it’s like, well i’d just expect any incorporation to be like, we know winston is textually autistic, while characters & the material are as dismissive to hostile as ever lol, like well especially if the material itself operates the same, that is a bit worse. however if i was talking to will roland or his mother i would be more open about it all. or any other actors perhaps lol. if i had brian koppelman on the line i would ask for david levien but still be skeptical.

Hi! Can I please have a matchup for AOT?

Name- Eiji Age- 18, Height- 5’7” and slim, Gender- demi-boy / non-binary / boy, Pronouns- they / he, Sexuality- the guys, Mbti- INFP

Likes :D

Playing video games (games in general), stickers, dogs/puppies/kittens and other animals, flowers, sweets, long hot showers, cuddling, comfortable silence, feeling protected, sincerity, being wanted/needed, laughing, kisses, hugs (from behind especially omG), listening to music alone (metal/deathcore/pop/punk/alt/rock), giving/receiving gifts, good and smexy pefume/cologne scents, surprises, inside jokes, terms of endearment, pillow forts, assertiveness, sunsets, late night adventures, quiet nights at home, staying up late, good manners, massages, good sense of humour, being competitive, staying inside on rainy days, endless conversations, fun teasing, winning, babysitting/playing with cute kids (it’s my side thing aside from my part-time job haha), decorating and planning for birthdays, making others feel appreciated, amusement/theme/water parks, Halloween, cosplay/costumes, spending time alone.

Dislikes >:O

School/studying (but I do it anyway), deadlines, clinginess, feeling insecure/nervous, being talked over, super crowded places, experiencing gender dysphoria, feeling useless, fake people, awkward silences, arguing, weather that’s too hot, uncleanliness, small talk, being forced to do something I don't wanna do, being forced to spend time with people I don't like, being put under pressure, messes, being around people for too long, getting lost, being late, feeling bored, rejection, spoilers, socks with sandals, swearing too much, having my picture taken, pushovers, toxic masculinity, public speaking, cooking, douchebags, people who are too strict/serious, crying in front of anyone

Other :)

I would say that I’m kind, very empathetic and the type of person that people feel they are able to confide in. You’ll probably see me as quiet before you get to know me, and I am pretty shy to be honest, so it does take a minute for me to open up. But once you get to know me, it's different. Internally, I’m emotional and sensitive but I’m not used to expressing it outwardly, and I think that can cause me to sometimes be mistaken as aloof or unwelcoming from afar. I don’t think I’m very good at hiding my negative feelings around other people– I can be very moody and serious when I’m not mentally well. I just have the most intense and overwhelming emotions EVER, and it’s really difficult, but I just need to feel somewhat understood and given space to deal with the stuff in my head. I tend to have a few close friends, but most of the time I end up sticking with my one fave person. And I don't make friends often, but when I commit to someone, you know it's real and meaningful. You also don't want to get on my bad side. 😀 😑 If I don't like someone, I won't necessarily show It, but I won't exactly make the effort to hide it either. And I don't pretend to like someone if I just don't. Whether I like to get out and do stuff or not depends on the people and everything– but of course I love to have fun! I'm creative and have a lot of ideas for things. Some things I struggle with are: anxiety, feeling insecure, asking for help, perfectionistic tendencies, staying grounded, getting tired/low energy easily, getting side-tracked and getting caught up in my own head. I'm just a silly little ball of intensity and sweetness I guess haha

O and here's a picrew for fun :)

Hi for AOT I match you with Reiner Braun.

Reiner might look super macho and tough but really he’s the biggest softie. When you both meet for the first time, you’re instantly judging him and he’s doing the same to you. It starts off a little rocky but once Reiner starts talking, you start to open up and suddenly the two of you are inseparable. You’re at each other’s beck and call no matter how late it gets. Late night drive? Let’s go. In need of cuddles? Coming right up.

Your first date with Reiner was at an amusement park where Reiner spent a shit ton on one stall because he was determined to win you the giant bear and refused to leave for anything else. Highlight of the night was when you won the round on your first go leaving the giant man stumped and claiming the game was rigged.

Reiner needs someone to lean on occasionally and you need someone to keep you grounded so who more perfect than the simp master. If Reiner ever feels unwell then his first instinct is to call you. He just needs you to come over and be present with him. And when you need Reiner on those bad days, he’s already at your door because he noticed a change in how you text him. He’s very observant like that and it’s what keeps you both grounded together.

- Kiki.

hi, i saw that you were opening match ups on weekends and i do hope that this won't be too much of an annoyance to you, but could i request one for mha, aot + gintama? i'd like to be matched with a male. i'm a pretty introverted, but empathetic girl and often function as a listener and advisor. i'm rather awkward, and don't know how to bring out the the stuff i think into words and often feel like i'm shit at explaining things. people often call me intelligent though and i overthink a lot 1/3 🌸

☰ Matched with Hijikata

Hijikata initiates a friendship with you at first and won’t seem overly interested in you, even though you will pique his interest and curiosity but he won’t come on very strong and it will take some time for him to develop romantic feelings for you. It will be at least a few weeks before he will begin to develop romantic feelings for you but in the mean time he’ll be fine with developing a friendship, but really doesn’t push you to spend time with him because he doesn’t want to come on strong or seem overly interested in you. 

When he does begin to develop feelings for you, he’ll kind of hesitate about actually asking you out, but when he decides to go through with asking you out, he will get you some place more secluded though not necessarily just the two of you. He’s fine with a quiet restaurant, a festival, walking you home etc. 

He can seem slightly nervous or uneasy but it’s really not very noticeable because he will try his best to kind of hide it and at least come across as somewhat more confident. Once the two of you do begin dating, he is very caring, loyal and rather respectful and chivalrous with you, though he will have awkward and stupid moments but does try hard to come across as calm and cool in front of you. 

You can also be rather awkward on occasion and can struggle to say exactly what you want, sometimes feeling as though you are terrible at explaining things well. Which he really isn’t always the best with hints and fulling understanding what you mean or what you are trying to say, but for the most part he can figure it out or at least get the gist of what you are trying to explain, especially the longer the two of you are together. 

You are both more on the introverted side but he can like going different places with you and kind of pushing you at least a little out of your comfort zone, nothing too serious or out there but can be a bit adventurous from time to time. He is very attentive with you and is usually a very good listener as well, paying close attention to details about you and things you like or dislike, you do really hate to feel ignored when you talk but you’ll really never have to worry about that with him because his focus always tends to be on you over others. 

Which means he’ll ignore others before even thinking about ignoring you when you have something to say, but often times will shut others up for you can say what you wanted to say. Though at the same time this can be almost a little embarrassing to you because too much attention can make you uncomfortable, so if he shuts people up for you can say something all the focus of the group can kind of shift to you. 

He doesn’t really care for a lot of affection especially in public but doesn’t really oppose it either and can be open to more subtle things like holding hands or hugs. But when the two of you are alone, he is far more open to being affectionate and can instigate things kind of subtly at first, and tends to hug you from behind often and play with your hair when he’s sitting next to you. 

He isn’t clingy and generally doesn’t really get jealous either, he’s fine with giving you space and alone time, so if you spend time with friends, family, coworkers etc. he doesn’t mind. However, he will defend you and tell people off if he witnesses or hears about someone flirting with you or saying or doing anything inappropriate to you. He’s not against turning things into a physical fight either if it means protecting of defending you but does typically try to talk things out, but he can also have a short temper and won’t waste time if talking isn’t working.

 You’re not really big on body contact or affection at first but do come around and love hugs and support, which he really is quite encouraging, comforting and supportive especially at times when he thinks you need some comfort or encouragement, However, usually he doesn’t shower you with compliments and praise because he doesn’t want to over do it and make it feel like he doesn’t mean the things he says. 

You do try to be positive with others and do tend to be a good listener and a good advisor but you have a habit of overthinking things and can even get lost in thought at times, but you are truly intelligent and want the best for people. 

Over all he is very loving and cares about you a lot though he can have a hard time telling you how he feels about you especially at the start of the relationship but comes around over time, after all he does want you to know how much you mean to him. He is protective and does what he can to help you with anything you may need, he encourages you to follow your dreams and achieve any of your goals. 

He encourages you to speak your mind as well as open up to him but he doesn’t pressure you to do anything, especially if you are shy or uncomfortable, he stands by your side and will help you and be there for you no matter what arises.

☰ Headcanons between the two of you

■ Finds it cute when you instigate affectionate acts whether in private or public even if it’s just holding hands or something simple like this, because he does like to feel like you like being with him and like being affectionate or close to him.

■ He is quick to defend and protect you from others even if it’s just criticism or teasing from others or even friends or family because he won’t let anyone speak ill of you even if they mean it as a joke because he doesn’t find it funny, especially if it hurts your feelings even a little bit.

■ Can occasionally spoil you with presents just because or if he feels like you need some cheering up, like if you’ve had a bad day or a bad week or things have been really stressful for you lately at work or with your studies.

■ He has a tendency to kiss your hand, forehead and the top of your head at times though he will rarely kiss you on the lips in front of others, in fact he doesn’t show much affection towards you in front of others unless it’s been awhile since the two of you have seen each other.

☰ Other Possible Matches

◐ Todoroki

Falls for you faster than he’ll realize but you will become important to him quickly and you’ll be someone he really enjoys talking to and hearing your thoughts and opinions, really trusting your thoughts on different matters. He is loving but also kind of shy especially when it comes to PDA and won’t like being affectionate in front of others at least nothing more than holding hands really. 

He can also have a hard time actually verbally expressing his feelings and won’t like being pressed to open up or for him to tell you how he feels about you. He’ll get there in time but pressuring him will not help, in return he is very supportive, comforting and patient with you and trusts you to open up and talk to him in your own time.

◐ Jean

Cares about you a lot and falls for you relatively quickly but can have a hard time showing it especially at the start of the relationship, he is not very fond of PDA and can find it embarrassing. Therefore, he will be far more kind and loving towards you when the two of you are alone, and really only instigates or responds to affectionate acts when the two of you are alone. 

He can be a bit sarcastic and may even lightly tease you at times though he really does care about you a lot, though he can have a harder time showing it in front of others. He can also get jealous rather easy and he tends to be pretty protective over you, and really isn’t afraid of a physical fight when it comes to protecting or defending you.