What is your Hogwarts house?
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I had to jump in here to just completely agree with a comment you made to your last anon ask, which was that Harry had much more similarities with Sirius than James - YES!!!
I always see Harry as a parallel of Sirius, and I think a large part of this is down to their upbringings, and their relationships with their guardians (I refuse to call the Dursleys Harry’s family). James and Lily were arguably well loved, which was the root of their confidence. James as an only child to elderly parents, and even Lily was more favored by her parents. She experienced discrimination in the Wizarding World, but, in spite of having a troubled relationship with her sister, she was loved. I think Sirius, despite being the Black heir, didn’t experience love in his childhood. After he was sorted to Gryffindor, this is when it deteriorated to outright hate. Tragically, Harry knew nothing but neglect and hate at the Dursley’s so he has none of the confidence or drive his parents has. I see his attitude and aloofness much more similar to Sirius’ than James or Lily’s. I think Sirius was confident too, but in an untouchable, do-not-talk-to-me way. Harry, thanks to the Dursleys and his fame as the Boy Who Lived has a similar bubble around him.
I can go on for hours and hours on this, but I’ll finish off here just saying that it’s such an interesting look into nature vs. nurture. Harry clearly has inherited traits from both his parents, but his experiences have made him most like Sirius.
no but i totally agree!! (and if you…ever…wanna drop in with more commentary for hours on end, feel free, anon 👀)
sirius and harry’s experience parallel each other in interesting ways too. like on the fact of it, they’ve had wildly contrasting lives. i think a feature of sirius’ childhood was conditional love whereas for harry, it was undisputed dislike/hatred/disgust (even if he didn’t know why). they faced different kinds of neglect/abuse and for different reasons, and it definitely shaped them differently too. sirius is confident, like u mentioned, and charming and competent and knows his worth (presumably because of how privilege; always being aware of it, especially as he becomes more conscious of the tensions running within the wixen world) whereas harry grew up fully other’d. he’s a visibly downtrodden kid ykno? ratty clothes; broken glasses; shy, self conscious demeanour (sirius’ first meeting w james vs harry’s w ron comes to mind here)—he’s the exact opposite of ‘knowing your place’ here. i also think their feelings re their family (or relatives, in harry’s case, bc hard agree that’s not a family) would be different. i always imagine sirius to be more conflicted than harry would be tbh.
but despite that, there’s so things that are similar. entering a world that’s not your own but becomes ur family (slightly less monumental for sirius in gryffindor, but similar in spirit, i’d argue); finding ride-or-die friends (some draw james-ron parallels here but i think the latter only works in its potential tbh); getting unconditional love and support, discovering healthy family dynamics, learning to open up, growth & development etc etc
people keep bringing up james and lily as points of comparison for harry, and i think a part of that comes from they thinking they should. but the loyalty? the guardedness? the dysfunctional childhood? always expecting the worst? the do-they-like-me-for-me-or-what-i-am/can-do-for-them dilemma? entirely sirius imo.
this is also why, i think, in a universe where james & lily find harry at the same time sirius does—it would still be sirius harry gravitates towards the most. i’m not underestimating james’ ability to be with a traumatised kid (clearly, he was good at it once) but it’d be different now due to the age difference. i think harry would recognise like, feel safer with sirius.
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