#naseeha
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Not every single thought that comes to your mind needs to be written down or spoken. Gather your thoughts mindfully and only speak when your speech is more beneficial than silence.
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Are there many people in the world who can understand us?
With and without words. After all, if you think about it, words, in fact, are not that important. Someone does not hear us even when we shout at the whole house, breaking the laces, and someone is able to sort out our silence. There are conversations after which we feel like a squeezed lemon, and sometimes a couple of phrases can bring incredible peace and happiness to the soul. No matter how much you try to explain your world to someone, it will still be understood only by someone who is "of the same blood" with us. The rest will turn his whole meaning upside down, without understanding or accepting anything in it. There's no need to worry. You just have to always go to your own people. They are few, but they are, just like you, weirdos for everyone and amazingly comfortable and understandable for you.
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As a muslim man aspire to be masculine in a world that pushes you towards femininity.
Many such masculine traits are forgotten or at least very rare, especially from what can be seen on social media which in turn reflects the reality of what men of today has become.
Muslim men should be honourable, chivalrous, dependable. They should be trustworthy and men of "weight" who does what he is supposed to. Be a man of few words and one who's actions match those words, don't be a joker and a clown all over the place. Don't socialise with women, on and off social media and don't sit in their gatherings or you will catch their traits. Don't be someone who's seen joking all the time and when you joke with a brother let it not include any lies or deception because that goes against the traits of a mu'min man.
Do not let criticism affect you, especially if it comes from the dishonourable and don't jump at every barking that comes your way, brush it off and do not mind the people's rumours.
A muslim man should never be engaged in taletelling, rumours and slander, he should have self-respect.
Keep to your family and strengthen the bonds of kinship, be someone whom your family looks up to and come to for help.
Never let your family feel anxious even in times of need and danger, it is your responsibility as a man to make them feel safe.
Be there for your brothers in faith and let them know that the bonds of 'aqidah is thicker than that of blood especially in times of need, do not abandon them.
Do not be a coward because cowardice is despicable and of the most unmanly traits.
Sit with the knowledgeable elders and take naseeha.
Have gheerah, for Allah, for His deen and His messenger صل الله عليه وسلم, have gheerah for your womenfolk, for your brothers and sisters in deen.
Face the trials that come your way with patience and let them shape you, do not complain to mankind who can do nothing for you. Carry your burdens and mature with them.
Get used to a rough lifestyle and don't be picky because harsh times always follows good ones.
Go against the current and do not be afraid of being alone.
Always have self respect and dignity, be a Knight when everyone else is a fool and do not become of the lowly ones.
I ask of Allah to make us such men.
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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
In shaa allah you are all in the best state of health and imaan. I am writing up this letter as naseeha for my beloved sisters, as I am noticing a trend nowadays where a new sisters owned dawah page will pop up at least once a week. Of course there is nothing wrong with wanting to spread dawah, it is of course one of the 4 principles of tawheed. However, the amount of compromising and lack of hayaa is very ironic. And concerning to say the least.
I trust that the intention of these sisters are pure and filled with motivation in wanting to convey the message. But remember dear sister, there are conditions and limitations one must follow. Did not Aaisha r. a give dawah behind a screen with her voice firm and her demenor strict? So why is it my dear sister you think it's "dawah" by constantly uploading personal images and captions onto your stories? Updating the world of your whereabouts? What you're having for dinner? Sharing memes and laughing with the world? My dear sister what is this?
Wallahi every sister who falls into this must be ashamed of themselves. A Muslimah is to be quiet, shy and reserved. When she is addressing those who aren't her mahaarim, she is firm in her voice and to the point. She understands that just because she may cover her entire
body, doesn't mean she still isn't vulnerable and susceptible to fitnah. Your hijab is also a concealment of your tongue and actions.
You're absolutely contradicting the purpose of your hijab when you cover yourself head to toe, black on black, no skin showing whatsoever, but you go ahead and expose yourself to your stories, giggling with strange brothers over nonsense, and sharing what kind of attar and abayas you love to wear.
Ya Allah, Allahu musta'aan. Have some humility dear sister. The Lord of all the Worlds is watching you and will hold you accountable. The next time you find yourself writing up a post about hayaa and hijab, look to yourself and ask, are you even applying the concept of that yourself? Have some sense dear sister.
Another common issue I'm also witnessing, is these arguments between brothers and sisters over a political issue pertaining to the deen. It's as if both parties have lost all sense of their dignity and hayaa. And you dear sister, are no better. Yes the man is responsible for himself, but you too are responsible. You dear sister, are responsible for entertaining such behaviour. As someone once stated, these men are not your mahaarim to care about your honour the way you value it.
And as for private messages, these sisters don't even realise it was them that opened that door to fitnah. You have no one to blame but yourself. Again, yes these brothers are responsible for themselves, but you are too. You made it known you were a woman and turned your so called dawah page into a funhouse, that invited all these men into your dms. Wake up to yourself seriously.
My biggest advice to every single sister who wishes to spread dawah, one, move to telegram as there is no communication whatsoever with anyone. You are able to completely turn off likes, comments which distract the heart and causes it to forget its intentions.
Two, do NOT make it known you are a sister. First of all, its not necessary and you're making the first mistake in sharing information that just isn't important to know. It is knowledge that does not benefit. And secondly, you become a hotspot for fitnah.
Enough with the attention seeking. You may not see it as that, but that's exactly what is happening. Basic fact and reality does not conceal your ignorance.
And thirdly, it's honestly better for you to remove yourself from these socials and start by seeking dawah yourself. Replace the time you'd put in to reply to messages and check who liked your posts with seeking knowledge. And not just seeking but implementing. In the long run, this is a far better option for you because at least you will have on your concious that you will enter your grave with absolutely nothing, but the knowledge that you prepared for it.
Please forgive me for my harsh bluntness, it is all out of frustration and concern for my dear sisters in Islam. I ask Allah to purify our intentions and forgive us for our shortcomings, may He increase us in knowledge, and may He not take our souls except when He is pleased with us.
𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝
-𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐧
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I feel both the best I've ever felt in a while and the absolute worst. But I have to talk about it, a cousin of mine, we're very close, I've never adviced her to wear the hijab, never asked her to pray with me, I just did all of those things while I was with her, I answered all of her questions regarding Islam, her issues with women and Islam, how her lifestyle clashes with the rulings of our Deen, I like to beleive that I didn't judge her even once, i understood that our values and lifestyles are very different, but i love her as a person and currently she's one of the closest friends I have.
A couple days ago, she told me she wants to start wearing the hijab, I told her I was proud of her, and will always be there if she needs assistance. Today I went shopping with her, we got hijabs and burkhas, and we later went to eat.
When I got home, i hear my mom talking to her mother on the phone, and she's telling her how I've changed her daughter for the better and she's so happy that I'm friends with her. All this while I didn't even offer her naseeha and she just got inspired by looking at me??? And i just. Sigh. It's sad because I'm not perfect,not someone she can seek inspiration from.I think in some areas I have greatly sinned and am unable to take myself out of situations like those. And she...got inspired by me? To be a better muslim? And to like be a better person and leave her old life behind? When I'm the most imperfect person i know.
I'm so so so soooooo happy and proud of her, but now she's looking at me for inspiration and I'm hyper aware of all the ways that like im not a good enough inspiration for her, this fear i have of not living up to be her role model is giving me a little anxiety but at the same time it is pushing me to be a better muslim myself, so that I can continually keep getting closer to my lord.
I am so so so so grateful to Allah swt for someone like her, may He fill my life and her life with people who keep making our eimaan stronger and keep pushing us closer to Allah swt.
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ON AVOIDING ARROGANCE
Q: How do we avoid becoming arrogant when we gain religious knowledge?
A: Our master Imām al Ghazali has mentioned a method to overcome arrogance:
If you see someone who is older than you, then think that that person has done more ibādah
(acts of worship) than you.
If you see someone younger than you, then think that that person has less sins than you.
If you see someone more knowledgeable than you, then think that there is no doubt he is better than you.
If you see someone with less knowledge than you, then think that he has committed sins out of ignorance, while you sinned knowingly.
— Shaykh Imran Angullia
#advice #naseeha #arrogance #imamalghazali
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Shaykh Abdur Rahman As-Sadi:
"From the benefits of naseeha (sincere advice) is safety from deceit. For indeed, he who deceives the Muslims in their Religion and Worldly Affairs is not from them. Deceit is from the most repugnant of ugly traits with regards to (fulfilling) the rights of a relative and the non-relative, the one in opposition & the one in agreement (with you)."
[Fathlul Malikil Allaam Fee Ilmil Aqaa-id Wat-tawheed, wal Akhlaaq, wal Ahkaam pg. 98]
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Tawakkul
Last week, I went to my close friend’s house, this close friend of mine is a friend that I met during my master study, when at that time, I thought I won’t find anyone again to be my companion. So in my opinion, it is a myth that we cannot find a real friend after passing a certain age. Haha
So every time I met her, I always get something to grasp, like always get an insight. This time it was about Tawakkul.
When I said to her that I’ve already sent so many resume to various companies but no one replied it or if they did, not with an answer which I expected, then I felt like am a failure and sometimes crying because of that, then she said.
“The important thing is you’ve already tried. You showed to Allah your ikhtiar, your effort, to get a job. O Allah, this is my effort. It’s something like that. Then, after you did the ikhtiar, no hard feeling afterwards. Tawakkul that is.”
No hard feeling after doing an effort. I think is the best naseeha I really want to hear. I realized, tawakkul is very easy to utter, but then it is very challenging to apply it when the hard time comes, mostly.
اللَّهُمَّ لَكَ أَسْلَمْتُ وَبِكَ آمَنْتُ وَعَلَيْكَ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْكَ أَنَبْتُ وَبِكَ خَاصَمْتُ، اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّى أَعُوذُ بِعِزَّتِكَ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ أَنْ تُضِلَّنِى، أَنْتَ الْحَىُّ الَّذِى لاَ يَمُوتُ وَالْجِنُّ وَالإِنْسُ يَمُوتُونَ
" O Allah, it is unto Thee that I surrender myself. I affirm my faith in Thee and repose my trust in Thee and turn to Thee in repentance and with Thy help fought my adversaries. O Allah, I seek refuge in Thee with Thine Power; there is no god but Thou, lest Thou leadest me astray. Thou art ever-living that dieth not, while the Jinn and mankind die."
Source: https://sunnah.com/muslim:2717
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Come along to Cappadocia
Hi everyone!
Ever wonder what it would be like to live in a cave for a night or to wake up to the sun rising above fairy chimneys like those that inhabited the region since the Palaeolithic era? Well, grab your imagination and travel with me to one of the most magical places on UNESCO’s World Heritage Site list: Göreme National Park and the Rock Sites of Cappadocia.
Covered in fairy chimneys, Byzantine art and rock churches, the UNESCO World Heritage Site of Turkey takes us into the whimsical and mysterious region in the central Anatolian plateaus where you can get lost in the history and beauty of Göreme National Park and the Rock Sites of Cappadocia.
Cappadocia is known for the extra-terrestrial look of its landscape. That’s why popular movies such as Star Wars were filmed here. The triangle of Volcanos created today's land what is to be called the land of the beautiful horses ‘’Cappadocia’’. For millions of years the ashes left on this territory created the layers. Thats why its colour can change from green to brown to rose to white. It is a great wonder. We witness mountains made into castles, sometimes we witness underground cities or mysticism left by early dwellers. It has been a centre of Christianism for centuries as well. How could people live in the underground? Why did monks choose Cappadocia? What does its wine taste like? Were the stars this much bright? Whatever you are looking for in life, whether it is simplicity or Luxury it is all offered here
No matter what you come to Cappadocia for, there is no doubt that your visit will bring you a wide array of adventures to choose from. Activities such as hot air balloon rides at sunrise, sleeping in one of the infamous hotel caves, exploring the underground city of Derinkuyu or taking in the beauty of each sunset and sunrise with a cup of Turkish tea, will keep you on your toes throughout your visit. All year-round, there are tour groups that can arrange the entire experience for you, from arrival to departure, but if you are looking for an unscheduled, spontaneous adventure, the region is also easily accessible by plane or bus from all major cities in Turkey and can be discovered all on your own. If you have the chance, pack your bags, and make your first stop after the pandemic ends to Göreme National Park and the Rock Sites of Cappadocia for an unforgettable and fairy tale experience.
Love,
Naseeha
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❝ bentuk hukuman paling terbesar yaitu engkau melihat suatu kebenaran namun Allaah tidak memberikan taufik kepadamu untuk menerimanya dan Dia mengunci hatimu. ❞
— asy syaikh sholih al fauzan hafidzahullaah, syarhu kitab ad dala’il rekaman 6/8
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« الذي يريد الحق يفرح بالنصيحة ويفرح بالتنبيه على الخطأ ».
📚 العلامة صالح الفوزان [ شرح كتاب العبودية ( صـ٢٥٢ ) ]
“He who wants al-Haqq - the Truth, will be happy with (receiving) naseeha, and he will be happy when he is warned about mistakes.”
t.me/Ahlul_hadith_translations
📚 Al-Allāma Saleh al-Fawzān [Explanation of the Book of 'Ubūdiyah (p. 252)]
Above Bilād al-Maghrib, #Morocco, Atlantic coast, Jumādā al-awlā 1444 - November 2022
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Subhan Allah, be careful of your actions against others. Do good wherever you are, treat people as you would like to be treated. Because you don't know tomorrow.
I once met a sister online, our connection was inexplicable, when I talked to her, it was like she understood me in the smallest details so it didn't take long for us to get so close. Our bond seemed unbreakable. It was us against the world and I loved this sister from the inside of my heart, by Allah. As if she were my blood, I welcomed her as if she were my family. Until, things start to change. She started to reply to me days later, and then she started to ghost me. Soon after, this sister disabled all social media for months. Leaving me upset and a little apprehensive. Until one day, that same sister returns to social media and blocks me in everything. And my question is "what I do to this sister?" I simply didn't do anything. And to me, she was an ungrateful person & Allahu alam.
I cried, I was very sad but then I started to remember how many times I made mistakes and was ungrateful to a sister who also considered me like family. I wonder how this sister must have felt when I acted wrongly towards her? Subhan Allah, months later I asked Allah for forgiveness for doing this to her and sought her to apologize for my actions. May Allah forgive me. This why I wrote "treat people the way you would like to be treated" because indeed, you will be treated equally by others. Today I know some Hadith from RasulAllah to treat our brothers and sisters with love, sisterhood, being good to each other... My intention with this text is to give you advice not to fall into the same mistake as mine and to treat your sisters in the Deen with love, loyalty and gratitude.
May Allah facilitate all of us to correctly follow His Religion & may He forgive me.
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Assalamualaikum my sister
Might be best not to post images like these as scholars do say women should also cover their hands
https://at.tumblr.com/mun-akoon/702475589657952256/bfv7wjbttazr
Wa alykum assalaam. You’re absolutely right. Thank you so much for reminding me. I deleted it now
Jazaaki Allaah khairan. Posting this because I want to publicise giving naseeha in a good manner on this site because it is one of the best things we can do to each other over here and should be praised
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قال الإمام الحسن البصري رحمه الله:
لولا العلماء لصار الناس مثل البهائم
مختصر نصيحة أهل العلم 167
Al-Imām al-Hasan al-Basri [may Allāh have mercy on him] said:
“Were it not for the scholars, people would have become like cattle.”
Mukhtasar Naseeha Ahul-Ilm | Page 167 | Al-Imām al-Baghdādi [may Allāh have mercy on him]
Translation: Authentic Quotes
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I hate myself. I don’t even know who I am. Is everything I am fake. I’m masking so well I forget who I actually am. When I think about how I act around others I feel sick. I hate myself. I don’t know who I am. I don’t know why people like my fake persona. In fact, I do. It’s because I made it for them. To be entertaining and nice and cool and sweet. But I’m not. I’m just a huge pile of shit. Disgusting. Horrible. My blood is black and my bones have nails sticking through them. I’m a liar. I lie. I lie and mask. I’m not real. Why have I been given such a beautiful life to be so ungrateful. What is the purpose of it. I feel like a waste of space. I am a waste of space. Someone else could be here. Like naseeha. She was happy and the most beautiful girl ever. And she would be grateful for life. Unlike me. But that’s exactly why I have to do it. For her. For everyone who’s gone. Because they’d want it back. Im sorry I’m such a mess. I tell myself that every day. Im sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry. Im trying my best. Nothing makes sense and I feel confused and I’m sorry for being so mean.
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Sesungguhnya Palestina Telah Menang 🍉
Pontianak. 23:30. 02122023.
Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim.
Hasbunallah wani'mal wakiil.
Hasbunallah wani'mal wakiil.
Hasbunallah wani'mal wakiil.
Pontianak. 17:26. 03122023.
Alhamdulillaah 'ala kulli haal, malah ketiduran pegang hp setelah menulis itu tadi malam.
Tadinya saya mau cerita, hikmah diskusi dengan seorang teman baik yang juga adalah psikolog.
Alhamdulillaah tentu aypris berbunga-bunga dikasi naseeha attack begini.
Subhanallaah, Allah al Alim mudahkan saya untuk mendengarkan nasihat Abu Bassam Oemar Mita yang ini:
Sedianya ini adalah kajian rutin doa Robbana setiap jum'at Subuh. Salah satu kajian tematik favorit saya. Masih membahas ayat favorit saya juga, al Baqarah ayat 286. Kali ini dikaitkan dengan keadaan saudara kita di Palestina. Memangnya bisa? Tentu. Itulah mengapa al Qur'an terjaga hingga akhir jaman.
Oemar Mita membuka kajian ini dengan mengajak kita mentadabburi surah Al Buruj, kisah seorang ghulam yang dipanah sang Raja. Sila disimak kisahnya pada video tersebut, inshaAllah pesannya akan sampai.
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Pontianak. 04:51. 26122023.
Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim.
Pontianak. 24032024. 20:31.
Waduh, draft dari tahun lalu.
Ada hikmahnya ya tumblr saya bermasalah ndak bisa langsung bikin postingan baru, jadi kalau mau bikin tulisan, mesti bongkar-bongkar draft lalu diedit. Qadarullaah jadi ketemu draft ini. Penyemangat. Tambahin ah oleh-oleh pakai oleh-oleh dari Edgar Hamas di instagram:
Berita kebathilan makin menjadi.
Ke mana lagi berharap selain kepada Allaah AzzawaJalla?
Bersyukurlah kita ada al Qur'an yang tak mungkin berbohong, yang terjaga kemurniannya.
Salam,
ayuprissakartika.
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