i find it weird the way people have been making fun of transmascs who don’t want to be totally masc when they transition (i.e. a lot of body hair, balding, getting bulkier) like it’s completely normal for someone - especially someone who is nonbinary transmasc to want a certain androgynous look still? but to still pass as reasonably amab/not afab and not be clocked
like its not just “you’re just mad that being a trans man doesn’t make you an uwu anime boy” like no 😭 im uncomfortable being hyperfemme/clocked as female as much as i dislike being Too Masc, i want androgyny
like tf would you say that to amab twinks who get laser hair removal and even taken doses of estrogen to be more gnc/feminine “ur mad that being a man isnt being an anime twink boohoo” stfu
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i feel a feeling that is genuinely intolerable and go "okay what do i do with this"
therapist brain says "feel ur feelings, its unhealthy to suppress all the time." rational brain says, "hi if we sit with this emotion then we are going to either be bleeding or dead in approximately ten minutes. so whats another option." therapist brain goes "wellll i guess in that case maybe u can distract urself idk, that can be a coping strategy sometimes." rational brain glances at emotion, shakes its head and shoots back "yeahhhh no can do there bud. this one's a real whopper and distractions ain't gonna cut it this time."
both sections of the brain shrug at each other and then The Disorder brain raises its hand smugly and simpers out "hiiii remember me? yeah this is the reason i exist teehee :) give me five minutes and I'll have an amnesia wall erected and another part of the brain shoved into the forefront and then we'll be right as rain! and this emotion can go rot in the locked cabinet of horrors until another part accidentally stumbles upon it again in the future or until the lock breaks. :)"
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I know when i was a baby, doctors completely overlooked celiac and gluten intolerance as options, mostly saying i was undergoing growing pains, but if you do think gluten is a reason for pains and such, try not eating gluten for a while (pretty hard to eat out if you do this, and gluten free breads and meals are typically more expensive). Tho Im sure now doctors know more about celiac and other such allergies. If you have a family member with some sort of gluten intolerance or allergy it could be possible you as well have it. But good luck i do hope you figure out your mysterious illness soon
i don't think it's specifically gluten because i am. kind of? just. intolerant to. everything?? like i will eat and i'm like "oh i love food that was such a lovely meal" and then my stomach roundhouse kicks me into a wall. also no family history afaik.
we ticked off all the potentially fatal causes and honestly that's good enough for me.
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