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she looks like the real thing she tastes like the real thing my fake plastic love
#if I loved this film less I might be able to talk about it more#but the only way I’ve been able to find the words is radiohead songs. so#graham this is my love letter to you#james spader#graham dalton#sex lies and videotape#steven soderbergh#andie macdowell#*#video
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do you ever just get emotional about how much brett and phil love each other
#brett goldstein#phil dunster#i've been listening to other episodes of ftbbw#and like i guess i thought the kind of giggly excited smiley childlike side to him we see with phil was just him all the time#because that's what we tend to see with tl press. and like he's no less lovely with guests he doesn't know as well!#it's a joy listening to him interview people because he's always so compassionate and interested in drawing them out and all that#but like it's throwing into contrast just how downright *giddy* he was with phil and like a kid on sugar lmao. and maybe some of that was#it just being a live show. but he also definitely doesn't talk about sex as much with other guests lmaooo#i was also just thinking about how much and how easily we've heard them say i love you to each other and how much they talk about how much#they love each other and i feel like we do hear phil talk a lot more about how much he loves brett and definitely doesn't help that we#didn't get to even hear from brett for 1/3rd of all tl press but brett loves phil so much and i'm just so#i'm really weepy about it lmao#ted lasso#royjamie#roy x jamie#(this time it really isn't about them other than how that real life dynamic lends itself to the characters but tagging them#just for the audience lol)
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Speaking to Attitude, the actor, 47, also credited the film's intimacy coordinator for mediating any concerns regarding the graphic nature of their sex scene.
'Sex is just communication, isn't it?' he said. 'It's just physical communication rather than verbal communication… We didn't over rehearse it. We knew that those scenes, particularly the early ones, had to have a sort of frisson.
'And we had an intimacy coordinator, which can be very helpful for the simple reason that if you're able to talk to somebody about your fears or what you want to show, what you don't want to show, or what you think it should be and what the narrative of the storyline is, you have that base of safety.
'But chemistry is a really interesting thing. You’re basically just listening to see what the other person is doing physically in the same way you would in a dialogue scene.
'And you can talk about that as much as you like, but until you're actually there, it's not alive in that way, so it's just about listening, but just listening with your body, basically.'
#and i am supposed to think they weren't doing it off screen when this how they are talking about sex scenes#it was more about what they were comfortable doing on screen and less what they felt comfortable with each other#andrew with that chemistry talk#listening to his body to create the hottest sex scenes known to modern cinema#all of us strangers#andrew scott
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“When are you guys going to have sex, get on with it”
- me to the characters in the story I’m writing and therefore have complete control of
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Zevran is once again struck by the way people change when you leave them alone for a while.
Three times now, the Maker has seen fit to place them in each other's paths. This time, however, rather than feeling regret at all he has missed in his friend's life, he feels only awe at the ways she has grown and the ways she has stayed the same. Isabela listens with a patience he's seldom associated with her, and for that he is grateful.
Still, he's almost afraid to tell her all that has happened.
"It is a very long tale, my dear," he says when she asks. "And I'm afraid it does not portray me in a very positive light."
"Oh, please. Like you're the only one with a past," she teases. "Have you forgotten already how we met?"
"Never," he replies, and she's coaxed a smile out of him despite his worry. It's easy to remember why he loved her--loves her--and trusts her, too. So, having surpassed that slightest bit of resistance with her support, he lets it all pour out in a flood of words.
Everything from Rinnala's betrayal to his contract in Ferelden, to his time during the Blight and Taliesen's death. Everything from the fight against the Crows, to his year spent at Quinta de Talpa, and his travels throughout all of Antiva and beyond. He tells her everything, good and bad, without omission.
It must be some surprise to her; he’s become so honest and vulnerable. But it’s deliberate, and he barrels into it with a certain recklessness because it has been hard-won.
Most of all, he talks about the Warden, like a thread weaving through every single piece of his life. Making his story coherent. Stitching the broken bits whole.
"I must admit, I didn't think him your type then, and I certainly don't now," Isabela says when he's done.
They're lounging on the bed together, barely dressed. Her hair is fanned out across her pillow and she makes a face, features pulling into a delicate pout.
"Please tell me he's not as grim and somber as he seems. Frankly, I’m still surprised he was alright with you and I meeting. Unless..." She sits up, and peers at him, blouse falling over her shoulders. "Unless he doesn't know?"
"He knows," Zevran murmurs against her knee. “He knew who I was when he married me.”
“Good.” Content to hear it, Isabela leans back with a smile. "What a waste it’d be otherwise. I mean, for you as well. Don't change for anyone, Zevran. I mean it. There are far too many miserable marriages in the world. I should know."
For a moment both of them reflect on those words. But they speak to a life long past, and not worth revisiting. After a moment Zevran just sighs with the most lovestruck look she's ever seen him sport.
"Ah, I'd love for you to get to know him as I do..." He strokes her leg gently, hanging onto her, though it is clear his mind is drifting. "He would never ask me to change. He doesn't want to impede me in any way. He sees the depths of me, good and bad, and asks for nothing. I never imagined... Isabela, he makes it so easy, so simple and calm. So you see, because of that, I can give him everything. Because he-"
"Oh, enough!"
Yanking her legs back she tucks them beneath herself and tackles him with a hug, affectionate but very much exasperated.
"You talk about your husband too much, Zevran! No one will ever want to sleep with you!"
Zevran draws in a sharp breath, then he collapses into laughter.
As they laugh and cling to one another, he’s infinitely glad he saved her all those years ago. He’s glad she’s here now. He's glad for every note in his story, from the highest to the lowest.
"Seriously, Zev," Isabela says, as she extricates herself from his embrace and walks to her dresser--truly a vision, as beautiful as she'd been ten years ago. "I'm glad you've found someone to make you happy. You deserve no less. As for the rest, all that matters is that you've kept on living and doing your best. That's all any of us can do."
#rinnywrites#dragon age#zevran arainai#isabela#spicy zev/bela friendship <3 love these bicons#just brainstorming; i'd love to polish this up and turn it into a longer piece#there is just SO much they need to talk about#ps. zev and hamal are more or less monogamous they just don't consider sex a solely romantic activity
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I need to stop thinking about him I need to stop thinking about him I need to stop thinking about him
#and I can't just get high when I don't wanna deal with problems bc that's not ok#it's so weird to go from being rlly good friends to casual hookups to nothing at all#I don't even know how to move on bc we were never together and I don't even have romantic feelings for him anymore#I just really miss him#not just the physical stuff but I miss being friends and laughing together#and I know I have a right to be mad at him to some extent but I also feel like if I was less emotional then everything would be fine#he's probably just one of those guys that loses interest after sex but why am I still bothered even tho it's been months#I really cared about him and it hurts to be so distant#I feel like i've fucked everything up bc I got mad at him when really I was mad at myself and my insecurities and also him for ghosting me#but I shouldn't have gotten mad bc we were on good terms and now everything is weird again#and I need to get better and regulating my emotions so I don't do impulsive shit#everything is just rlly weighing on me#it's so strange that we didn't talk for over a month then I got high and texted him and now everything is so much more messy#I want to be completely over him but a part of me still holds on and imagines what could have been#if he had been in love with me or if I hadn't been so overbearing
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Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, PhD
Not to contradict myself bc I was literally just having the "Saltburn was not that scandalous" conversation yesterday but this is how I feel in fandom groups one hundred percent of the time ❤️
#idk i feel like this is a side of 'sex negative' culture people don't talk about as much#and i honestly think this kind of stuff has been more damaging to me personally than the catholicity of it all#like yes obviously there's the self-criticism and the body image issues#but way more than any 'sex before marriage bad' messaging it is this kind of thing that has always made me feel weird and inadequate#being made fun of in high school for not knowing what certain terms meant#being terrified of sex less for any moral reason and more because i was afraid of being *bad* at it#the derisiveness with which anything 'vanilla' is treated in online spaces#'asexuals are the ones writing all the porn'#idk there's this whisper-thin line between sex positivity and this 'you are inadequate' messaging#and i feel like i've lived on it since puberty#sexuality
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Suddenly cursed with the desire to write out detailed paragraphs about my dozen aro and/or ace headcanons for genshin characters
#fern.txt#I MAY BE OUT OF THE WOODS WITH MY HARDEST MIDTERM BUT I STILL HAVE WORK :///#genshin#see it’s sometimes hard for genshin chars bc alot of my hcs I notice go hand in hand w chars having trauma#so sometimes I less want to assign them labels n moreso have thoughts on how trauma impacts their#relationship w sexuality or romance#so sometimes I less have a hc and more like an insane introspective concept Abt this character weighing between#aroace identity vs coping and unpacking trauma#so u have a range of like my aroace hc for yoimiya is just bc she probably feels she jsut loves everyone deeply#and doesn’t rlly feel she experiences attraction that stands out compared to this sort of general love for ppl#cynonari are in a demi-aroace sort of relationship where both of them just feel very disinterested sbt romance n sex#but bc they have such a deep bond with e/o#they’re just more comfortable with kind of having some sort of relationship/dictation of e/o as a ‘partner’ of sorts#n then I have my collei hcs where I think if u talked to her Abt it#she would say she consciously thinks her relationship w attraction is rlly influenced by her trauma but she takes comfort in IDing as xyz#aro or ace identity bc she thinks it suits her n she’s ok with the fact she handles attraction differently than other ppl#I think her being around tighnari and cyno who she feels understand her experiences helps her a lot)#but then in contrast if I were to write an wanderer fic in line w my ace hcs for him#it would honestly be more of a narrative of as he has time to process n heal from trauma he moves away from the ace label more#bc I think I’d see him conclude yeah I think alot of my repulsion and detachment from attraction comes from my trauma#and while I still relate to alot of ace experiences I think it might be more helpful and accurate to how I feel#identity wise to try to repair my relationship with it#instead of resonate with the label and idea I don’t have interest in these things nor experience these attractions
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this morning i woke up and felt the urge to draw these three together for no real reason other than they mainly work as healers in their respective games and also thinking they could get along. maybe. somehow.
#havent played deltarune in over a year. havent played mother 3 in over 5 years. didn't even start Conquest. going off vibes only pals.#im so sorry#also the second generation from fates does NOT exist in my mind. shoo. get out.#elise is wearing a made up op dress but its more or less inspired by baby the stars shine bright ops#man. you can barely see ralsei's face. goddamn.#me when i make stupid crossovers#i just think they could be friends in a sort of way. playing with contrasts and possible scenarios. that kinda stuff#elise and lucas being opposites in terms of background. ralsei not knowing how having siblings feel like.#lucas and elise having a heartfelt talk about family and bonds and familial love.#ralsei and elise comparing themselves in terms of “titles” and talking about morality and what's right to do for your own kingdom or smth.#idk#baabaa im an idiot who needs to play something other than gay sex the videogame (more commonly known as ultrakill)#(fr tho if i dont i think im gonna overdose on this game and also stagnate in terms of viddygamy knowledge and i don't want that :(( )#mother 3#lucas mother 3#ralsei#ralsei deltarune#ralsei dr#ralsei au#(←i suppose? does that count if it's a shitty fusion au????)#deltarune#fire emblem#fire emblem fates#elise fire emblem#nintendo#nintendo fanart#crossover#(←a very shitty one lol)#my art <3
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#sorry sorry I just woke up and im having yesterday-was-weird thought again#and they are going here so i don't have to talk to the person that they're um about yet#basically im glad that im in a good enough space now that um#someone ive ive had text-based sex with and uhhh sent an ill-advised video to in like oct when i was Feeling Bad™ and doing. hm. too much.#like 6 months post text-based sex/ill adised video now aha and we've not spoke at all since like january and that was 'how was hols'#they asked to meet up 'not for sex just as friends' or i forget exact wording but basically that#no-pressure museum not-a-date#and i said I'd think about it. because i am as everyone knows a fucking idiot.#basically im glad that im in a better place now than the last time someone like expressed an interest in me as a person#because while this did give me a day long wobble i didn't have a full weekend long actual panic about it#tho they are two v different situs#an ace poly friend asking to go out with me vs someone i uh virtually fucked aha um asking to meet up for (mostly) being-friends purposes#same several-hours-later 'oh god no what have i done bad bad bad no thank you actually no sorry i cant sorry' but less intense this time#but at least i only said ill think about it?#and not actually immediately said yes because it's nice to feel wanted#and then gone Maximum Regret™ because actually all of this is way too much i don't like it i don't want it thank you but im sorry no#weird. i guess i don't have such a high baseline stress level any more? since i'm not at uni n stuff#and someone over messages going no pressure you want to be irl friends (maybe fwb no pressure)? is um#is different. to someone irl going you want to go out acely? yeah? awesome lets hold hands here is the discord with a whole buncha people#i guess#but i am being equally aro-not-super-ace Autism™ about it aha#and i am. eventually. going to be like. thought about it and no sorry. eventually.#if they ask again#i am kinda hoping they'll leave it there and forget they asked so i don't have to navigate social stuff#im much better at navigating canals everybody leave me alone please thank you#(everybody over there leave me alone. y'know. you guys are fine.)
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Date went surprisingly well! Stayed out at the goth club until almost 2. Mutual interest and a desire to go on another date has been established. Gotta come up with some good second date ideas 🤔
#dating nonsense#surprisingly good date#also damn sooooooo glad I took tomorrow off#or else I'd have to be up in about three hours#gotta come up with some good ideas for date 2#i wanna touch the butt#and he's up front about not looking for a committed ltr but also is very respectful and fun to talk to#and honestly because I knew this wasn't as serious I was more comfortable being super honest about things I was looking for/into sex-wise#ughhh wish I'd had a bit less to drink tho#didn't get blotto or anything but now my tummy hurts 😣#life of faye
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Thinking about. That one post about art. And how it's never good enough. Since you're the one that made it. And how. It might relate to how I view myself?
#Sel talks#Like. Do I like the idea of a masculine body because I think it will make me less me?#I keep thinking about a line from “in stars and time” talking about. How maybe they changed because it was easier than learning to love#Himself as he was.#Keep thinking about something my therapist said last session. About how he would hope there's more restriction around accessing trans#Health-care than there is about getting a medical Marijuana card#And even if it comes from a place of good intent; is still a harmful idea?#I keep forgetting how much importance cis people put on transitioning. And it's just. Not? For me?#My body is just another form of expression for me to form and play with. And I feel like it might be hard to try and get someone who's#Not thought a lot about gender to understand.#I don't really want to lable it as “transitioning” either. My isat brainrot is wanting me to call it “Changing”; bit I'm not sure if that's#Quite accurate either. Like. We don't have a word for playing with different styles of clothes? Why do I need one for messing w other types#Of presentation?#Sigh...#I'm soooo tempted to just go on t and not do anything else. No name change. No sex change. And not tell anyone.#Why do I need to take into consideration how much my decision weighs on other people?#I feel like I've gotten too many reminders that “tomorrow's not promised” or “How we spend our days is how we spend our lives”#“Don't live wondering” or whatever that old lesbian slogan was. “We're all going to die so who cares if it's a waste”? Some will wood song#I'm listening to. I just.#Why am I waiting for the perfect opertunity to transition? Or change or whatever.#I've always considered my want to masculinise as me taking “be the change you want to see” either too far or too literally#I want to see men in dresses!! And if no one else around here is going to do it I guess that falls on me!#Why must I follow everyone else's path to t?? I want to make my own!#Grrr barkbark#I feel so underequiped to change the world; why must I do it?? Can't it just change for me??
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Me: “idk I feel like sex is kind of mostly a performance to get the other person off…I don’t usually enjoy it that much”
Me: “Oh shit I really am on the ace spectrum aren’t i…”
#goblinposts#like it’s not always 100% true#but I was reflecting and talking to my sis about it bc we was talking about MBTI Meyer Briggs#and then like sensing goes versus intuitive#and intuitives not being at good at physical in the world stuff#and then like yeah I related that to my past sex life stuff#but now I’m wondering is it the personality type thing or part my being on the ace spectrum thing#bc sex for me is less about enjoying the experience#but more of the stress of performance to make sure the other person is enjoying themselves and like yeah#but like I do enjoy to some extent so that’s not really ace idk#confusion#I’m single and celibate af rn so that’s an issue for much later me of ever again me to figure out#ace#acespec#lgbtqia#Meyer Briggs#mbti types
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I think a six hour video about star wars n star fandoms racism wouldn't fix me but itd make me feel less alone
#bc i feel crazy when the only times toxic fandom is brought up its the misogynistic dudebros#and yes ive read a lot about this but the thing abt reading is tht#hile it does make you feel less alone...theres sth abt an actual person taking time to talk about it yknow#its like yes the books about lgbtq coding n shit in movies are great i rlly enjoyed reading screening the sexes#but like documentaries give me more catharsis#sw talk tag
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I adore WinTeam but P’Pruek is the true delight.
His face when Win told him and Dean that he had already slept with Team.
Truely the expression of a man who is well-meaning but about to smile very widely at the kind of psychological damage that has been suddenly unleashed on him
#between us the series#between us#happy we got at long last more manow - i love her#this episode was kind of filler but hopefully they got most of the sponsorships out of the way like this#the teamwin scenes in the beginning felt a bit disconnected because of it but i adored the last bit where they each spoke to their friends#abotu their feelings#much to dean's honest concern and breaking p'preuk's mind#i was ready for standard drama and probably would have liked it but i also like the implicit angst of both of them thinking they're one-side#ly in love (my kind of idiots)#and how jarring it must be to hear your crush talk about having had sex with you to his friends while you yourself haven't even mentioned be#ing interested in the guy before your own friends#just tastiness all around#happy we got win and his brothers but i couldn't care less about bumblebee and prince#again: cannot wait until next week#maybe it is the red herring for this week with last week's preview but why do i feel like team's night time practice will be far more dramat#ic than the preview suggests?#to be fair to p'pruek: i didn't expect win to tell them that he had slept with team already#also respect dean being a friend but still watching out for no juniors getting hurt
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