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oatbugs · 1 month

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Tbh I've noticed I like men much more as a concept when it comes to romantic relationships, but I fear the moment I declare myself a lesbian a man will come along and ruin my dreams of living happily ever after with a woman 😅

u dont have to declare urself anything ! i promise ur dreams of living w a woman will not be ruined, if u ever fall in love w a man your dream will just change/you'll grow a new dream of a happy life w that person ! don't feel the need to restrict urself bc of a potential event in ur future. and if u only like men conceptually and don't feel attracted to them in any way, then it's ok to label urself as a lesbian ! labels can change as we change, and also many labels (like sexualities) are just tools that are sometimes helpful but rarely ever truly necessary :) ♡

#ive never liked men as a concept i think i just felt briefly attracted to some and then it disappeared and hasnt happened in ages #but at the time i also felt slightly disillusioned/confused abt whether its a good idea to call myself a lesbian anymore etc etc #i think the best move is to just . not feel the need for a label tbh #at this moment ive realised that after months of experimenting and trying to build up a healthy representation of men in my head that #its just not for me and so the label lesbian applies best #but b4 this i felt like being bi/unlabelled w just a super super strong preference for women was what worked best 4 me #labels are supposed to help u/serve u and not be a category that limits u ! its ok to not declare urself as anything #its ok to change ur mind 1000 times too ♡#anyway however it happens i hope ur dreams come true ! whether theyre dreams u have now or dreams u will have #in the future ♡#asks #anon

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