I don’t think you’re a spider. I think you’re a moth. I’m right, aren’t I? Quiet…harmless…drawn to shiny things…batting up against the window, just desperate to get in.
“trans men don’t have any real safety concerns to worry about” i can’t wear a mask when i go into public bathrooms even though i’m higher risk and bathrooms are some of the easiest places to get sick because i don’t reliably pass when my facial hair is covered and i can’t risk not passing when i use the men’s room, but i also can’t just use the women’s room for safety anymore because i don’t reliably pass as either binary gender anymore. so my only options are to risk getting sick, take my chances with the consequences of not passing, or just never use the bathroom in public (which has its own health risks).
and today, it almost didn’t even matter that i was putting myself in danger to ensure that i passed because, thanks to a faulty lock and a man who didn’t think to knock, i came very close to having my half-naked body exposed to a bathroom full of cis men. if i hadn’t been holding my coat on my lap because there was nowhere in the stall to put it, every single guy waiting in the (very crowded) bathroom would’ve seen that i didn’t have a dick. how well do you think that would’ve gone for me? my money’s on Not Well At All.
tumblr HATES my 44.1mb image swag so it has SO MUCH COMPRESSION and downsizing here. :') peep the actual intended size & quality (or as good as i could get it exported)
WHAT’S NEW FROM 1.1?
• willow creek got a facelift with a lot of completely new builds!
• magnolia promenade got a complete facelift with all new builds!
• sulani is completed, yes all of it!
• other worlds are still not completed, but there are a bunch of new builds and families scattered throughout!
• every family in willow creek now has descriptions and story, and their in-game selves should reflect that story!
⭐ information + download below the cut :-)
(PLEASE read all of this!)
↪ How to download saves
(please read this link, I will not be answering asks about it!)
PACKS:
• the ratsave uses most packs EXCEPT for journey to batuu, moschino, and my first pet stuff.
• it uses NO kits or cc!
• you can still download and play with the save if you’re missing packs, but items and clothes might be missing or replaced!
IMPORTANT INFO:
⭐ please remember this is NOT a finished save, even if all the builds should be functional! i’m still in the process of building and editing, so some builds might not match the sims that live there, and some families might be incomplete etc etc. it shouldn’t be noticeable if you’re playing with your own sims, but please do keep it in mind!
⭐ if you find anything that doesn’t work or is off, PLEASE LET ME KNOW so i can fix it and update the save! i’m only one person working on this and it’s hard to keep track of everything, so any help with noticing issues is super appreciated!
⭐ if you use this, also please let me know and tag me in your photos! i’d love to see your sims living their best life in my save :-)
we used to dye our tongues on purpose using kool-aid and i stood in the sprinklers with the grass already so muddy it was starting to do that thing where your lawn is now quicksand
i think i want to kiss you because you remind me of smoothing out the chalk drawing with gentle fingers. of anthills and feeding birds our leftover lettuce. of getting covered in briars while we picked blueberries from the backyard bush. i think i want to kiss you because it's a bad idea, and i think i want to kiss you because of how water grips the side of a pitcher of iced tea.
you said your life was a toddler's art piece, with paint splatted on your floor, in your mouth, in your hair. i was delighted by that.