i just found out that NYC has a little chain of non-alcoholic wine/liquor stores called Boisson — everything in there is 0.5%ABV or less. the one i just popped into was small but well stocked, and the staff person was friendly and knowledgeable — a big help in picking out a couple bottles for my Tu biShvat seder tomorrow night. spreading the word about them for anyone who needs or wants to explore non-alcoholic beverage options! they seem like a new venture, so i hope they stick around