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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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episode 10 goodies
Yi Joo at the Shareholder meeting #baddie
Step mommy getting kicked the EFF OUT! HELL YEAH
he's going AFTER HER FOR her!!!!
Do Guk's deep breath when the hitman tells him step mommy's plan -- I was hoping he would go feral, but this is better hehe
the Seo family debrief -- and the hand hold! and Jung Wook feel like a shit person! because you are ah ha!
him complimenting her paintings BYE
HE HAS THE PAINTING
HE'S HUGGING HER BYE
i want to - oh my gosh this man is overJOYED
the shot of the wrists! the hands!
him. sitting on the bed. with the pillow. why was that blurred. WHY. I WANT IT.
"I'm saying you look prettier every time I look at you" BYE.
A CHILD AT LEAST 2??????? JASGKLADFJGLKADFJGALKDF
Bro his reasoning for having a child???? I want to die they are so freaking cute.
oh SHE AINT SAYING NO!
my beloved psychiatrist is back. ily babes. And she's here dropping bombs on him. (and now I am worried, for I know what is coming)
me watching Yoo Ra gasp:
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everything Do Guk does (i just watched him lean back for goodness sake), has such BD energy and i love it.
"She couldn't have a baby without telling me" -- you sure about that king! she's right there!
WAIT HIS DAD IS ALIVE I KNEW IT I KNEW IT! (this is me speculating, but idc, i think it's real)
Yoo Ra and Step mommy's confrontation has one of my fac instrumentals omg !!!!
THE MUSIC CHANGE YASSSSSS
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Oh Yoo Ra is maaaaaaaaad
power couple is powering!!!!! lfg!!!
Yoo Ra babe, pls don't eat paper
DO NOT HIT HER WITH THE CAR SIR. DO NOT.
WAIT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BABE RUNNNNNNN
no put the halo back, what happens next!!!!!!!!!!
the betrayal is coming and fuck i am not prepared - but so much cute content!! in bed!! hugging!!! uuuggggghhhh
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sociocap · 6 years
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okay guys i had to rant about what i’m watching and i’ll be making relationship headcanons sometime tonight, but for right now i just had to do this
eric is an angry and manipulative person. his manipulation is usually to keep people around him and believing him because he cannot stand the thought to be alone whatsoever. his anger is something he never learned how to deal with, especially since his mother just did anything to quiet him down and gave him what he wanted when he was younger.
as the seasons go on, liane starts to shift the way she parents cartman and now he’s being given some stricter rules and sometimes he actually follows them, depending on how he feels and if he wants to get revenge later or not. this is something he will be struggling with throughout the years, if he ever learns that what he is doing is wrong. when someone thinks of themselves as the victim for so long, they will think they’re always right and are being ganged up on. this is something kyle said about cartman to heidi but this is also something i have observed from someone in my own life who has obedient defiant disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and a cortisol addiction (which means they are addicted to the hormone released when in a stressful situation)
out of all of that, however, eric is just obedient defiant. he does not go so far that he has narcissistic personality disorder, but he does have moments of narcissism. he’ll think himself to be better than he is, but that comes from his mother telling him that he is perfect for so long and also is used as a defense mechanism, because we need to remember, he will make himself out to be the victim.
when it comes to relationships with him, things get really twisted. with heidi, it started out as a lifeline. they both felt disconnected from the world and clung to each other because they were giving and receiving positive attention. he actually believed he really liked heidi, and to an extent he probably did. she was the apple of his eye because she was there when others weren’t and he depended on her attention. eric changed himself to be the person that heidi needed because she was paying attention to that and honestly loving him for the person he was. i would say “person he was pretending to be” but i think he honestly was trying to be that so he could be happy by making her happy from which she would do everything she could to make him happy. it was all because he was getting something really nice out of it, and in return she was getting what she thought she needed. but then butters came along and instilled this fear that she is capable of leaving and using him and things went downhill, though even if butters didn’t say anything he would have come to this conclusion some other way anyway. it was inevitable for cartman to realize something like this because reality likes to intervene all the time.
but once he realizes that heidi can leave him, he starts to act hostile towards her. he doesn’t want to be manipulated, he doesn’t want to be taken for granted, but he also can’t stand the thought of being without her. she is still this lifeline he had and has and if she leaves, it’s a relationship that he will be without and he can’t stand being alone in that regard. because to some extent he knows how much people can hate him, something he fights all the time and acts the victim over, and if she takes her love away from him, then he’s alone. i really do think that if he didn’t delude himself so much that people like him or need him when they really don’t, he would have tried killing himself if she seriously left him. but he acts hostile towards heidi because he doesn’t want to be fooled while at the same time clinging to her and relentlessly attacking her with pleas and crying whenever she leaves him. she is something he thinks he needs but he also thinks of her to be a ball and chain.
which is why that he would prefer to see her die than to be anywhere else. when he is with her, he is miserable because he makes himself miserable by seeing everything that irritates him instead of everything he used to love. heidi did not change but eric did in the way he viewed her. it’s how some marriages can tank after a short time. his honeymoon period was over. but even though he starts to hate her, he cannot bare the thought of her being with someone else. so better off dead than not with him.
and then we get eric physically manipulating and changing heidi. he is so set on making her what he wants that he will go out of his way to demean her, change her diet without her knowing, and just shit on everything she once was. he wants someone he can agree with because it will make him happy, but he also wants someone who will not fight him and will cling to him because she thinks the rest of the world hates her or sees her poorly, of which cartman has a major part by making her gain weight and then dumping on her weight gain very publicly. in this way, she starts to become not subservient to him but believes that he is the only one who will love her for who she is no matter how she changes, even though he’s the one changing her. she is turning into someone that eric can use and have by his side and will not leave. he has done so much to her and forced her self esteem to take such a brutal beating that she is nowhere near the same person she was, heidi even changing her personality to fit eric’s to be more compatible and for him to “appreciate” her more. it’s a very toxic relationship that is not heidi’s fault because eric is such an unrelenting manipulative asshole. this all could have possibly been avoided if eric was open about his insecurities, willing to talk, and open to even the thought of change for the better. but, of course, that takes him not believing himself to be the victim.
and that will take years of self realization, awareness, and therapy.
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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additional thoughts on episode 11:
the 7 month time skip is a crime. I'll say it. I would DEVOUR more cute moments of Yi Joo and Do Guk living well. why did you take that away from me 😭😭😭
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when she told him that she was pregnant, I blacked out. the whole conversation has me squealing and dancing. I just want them to have a little girl now 🥹
I need more than 12 episodes. again! another crime, and you will be hearing from my lawyer
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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things that add 10 years on my life from episode 9:
seeing Do Guk's ring
him caring for her after she fainted
him STAYING UP ALL NIGHT TO THINK OF AN ANSWER TO HER QUESTION *flails*
Yi Joo in that dress, oh my lord
the dramatic ass music
her dropping the mic on her dad, like oh HELL YES.
Do Guk and the secretary bonding <3 big baby brother in law energy
"I could maim her in death and it wouldn't be enough" - sir I am 🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️
girls day with MIL, Do Na & their cousin <3
them sitting! on the couch! watching together! i love them! my angels!
Do Guk being a good boss, even though my brain went to "thanks for everything where you fucked up so hard I got my dream girl"
secretary's resignation and application <3 <3 i love him
omg PARTY TIME AT THE CUTIES
DO NA's LAVENDER SUIT MA'AM PLS
she has a family 😭😭😭
THEIR FLIRTING, "YI JOO IS ALWAYS PRETTY" BYEEEEEEEEEE
red alert, they are being cute as they walk, send me into space
"because I have you and my family" get the fuck out
holding hands +20 years on my life
oh my god they are fucking scheming for her i am emotional
"my intelligent wife is right" king
the LOOK
STILL HOLDING HANDS GTFO
wait
what
he-- oh my god
i am HYPERVENTILATING
KISS ON CHEEK
THEN GOES BACK FOR MORE?????
WITH HANDS????
JAW IS ON THE FLOOR -- she just GIGGLES GET OUT
oh he's in scary husband mode, and i love this.
Yi Joo in the blue top, ma'am holy fuck
i love love love how they did the mother revelation - so well done. its heart wrenching, full of bitterness but also love. so so good.
seeing step mommy cower, ohhhhhh this is GOOD.
SHE GOES HOME AND HUGS HIM AFKLJADSLKFJALDK. he is her home!!!!!!!!!!!! and he is overjoyed.
Honey? Do Guk, you are living for this. and i am too babes!!!
RIP DAT PAGE GRANDPA!!!!!
"ill take you to hell with me" HELL YEAH
bruh, every time they stare at each other, i die a little bit inside, i love them so much
daddio pulling out the DNA results heheh, step mommy is mad
oh Yi Joo and Do Guk are here together! in coordinating outfits! Power couple status, achieved
DONT TOUCH MY WIFE HE SAYS!
GRANDPAAAAS HERE LFGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!
NOW I CAN SEEEEEEE MY HALLLOOOOOOOO
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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hello, yes I am here and I am revved up. let's do episode 8:
Restarting where MIL beats down evil mom - pure bliss
"blatant favoritism to your child" -- okay pot meet kettle
HA SHE CALLED HER OUT!
I hate him I hate him I hate him - "as a family"
Me: I wonder if they are going to follow the webtoon, *sees the bar scene* oh yessssss
The dad making dinner to resolve things - oh sweet summer child
This man thinks he's so slick, when all they are doing is outing that he, evil mom and Yoo Ra are working together.
WAIT HE HAS FOOTAGE. OH MY--
Are you suggesting we watch it as a family? YES GRAB THE POPCORN
cAlled out - "it was 20 years ago" oh NOW HE WANNA SWEEP IT
I am personally not a fan of the "we told you to stop fighting" - seriously, one is EGGING THE OTHER ON.
Chairwoman said "we are doing this, old school" *succession theme song plays*
"I don't want to stress him out" - my ANGEL
the way he slightly opens the door to let her know that he's home GOOD BYE
THE HUG. THE SAFE SPACE.
he needs to make sure she eats I am losing it
"let's leave it alone" - yeah because we know who did it and it will make you even worse
I love Do Guk just beat down the ex -- truly brings me joy on this glorious Sunday
HAHAHAHH HE HAS THE FOOTAGE - threaten his ass
Turn in Yoo Ra - oh boy you are speaking my language
"when you mess with my wife" that's right, keep my wife's name out of your mouth!!!!!
Yi Joo - take those gloves off and slap them silly
the literal "oh the water tastes great" - nailed them heheheheh
Wait. Wait - they are eating together??? oh oh oh
Yi Joo in the stripped shirt is so effortless and gah i love her she is gorgeous
Jamie babe, please just say it (for those that's don't know please ignore)
AS FRIENDS *sobs*
wait! wait! what dish does she want to learn! is it for Do Guk?? PLS SAY YES.
The burn the burn yes, let's talk about it.
Love the massage chair moment - iconic
ohmy god is the food for the chairwoman??? IM CRYING she just wants a FAMILY
"the meals that Do Guk makes are so good I want more" - YES YES YESSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
oh the cut to a previous conversation, here we go. oh this is why she asked Yi Joo. and oh my gklajgfdkjag
"I spent my life building homes for other people. But I couldn't do it for my grandson" oh my GOD i am sOBBING
the JEAN SKIRT, Yi Joo I am just a baby bi, please don't do this to meeeeee *dies*
oh my god my heart is shattering - "Yi Joo is alive" the fact that she says that just makes me want to burn the world for her
ARSENIC??????? Oh I am ready to go to war; this is just awful.
Auntie is a spy and I love that for her. She is a blessing, I am so happy Yi Joo had someone in her corner, even if it was such a short period of time.
oh hey look. an article about a FIRE, HUH?
HOSTILE TAKE OVER LFGGGGGG!!!!!!!! Grandpa, you get +2 points
failed acquisition! yeet! truly music to my ears
Do Guk that shirt looks sooooooo good with your hair
BRO STOP PROTECTING YOO RA
HAHAHAH DO GUK JUST LOVES DROPPING THE MIC
sir - listen to your advisor, i bet you all my dollars she's right and you should be careful
oh here we go, i love this for the ex; get what is due. You deserve to feel like shit for eternity!
"order for me" babe, that's not enough
uh oh uh oh little sister is is bring troubleeeee
DO NA!!! I would do anything for this woman. her and Yi Joo have my heart
the rock music in the background, truly a baddie!!!!
YOO RA THIS IS ALL BECAUSE OF YOUUUUUU -- too little to late good sir
"You volunteered to do this" oh this is sweet and I can't wait to see everything explode for all these shitty people (including you Yoo Ra hehehehe)
Oh we are getting the full apology here. hmm. hmm. still don't accept :) go to hell ya turn. AND YI JOO DESTROYED HIM - "these are my terms" - yes queen.
The board meeting; stupid men. And Do Guk; he game with RECEIPTS.
I just love this power couple so much. they are the light of my life.
this is me rn:
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more important public opinion??? I knew it was going to be a serious about the construction work, but a tiny part of me was hoping for a photo of Yi Joo like:
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again keep my wifes name out of your mf-ing mouth
Yoo Ra - the first thing you need to learn about revenge, you have to take care of your minions. this is very important
MIL THAT OUTFIT HOLY SHIT, she did not come to play
"please do not call me that, it's unpleasant" - I am WHEEEEZING
babe, Yoo Ra, you cannot say "he's the first guy I liked im sorry, i just went a little 🤪crazy 🤪" that will not work
oh ew, bringing business into this??? oh ma'am. oh now he's sick. hmm. HMMMM. I wonder why.
oh the "is it upsetting you?" MIL you are an angel and I thank you for caring for our Yi Joo.
hell yeah! throw the pills on the floor! someone grab them!
stonks are plummeting! ohhhhh noooooooo
aw shit the conservatorship oh nice, bribery. f u mister lawyer.
oh evil mom is scheming too - it's about to get spicyyyyy. oh no she gave him like.... 6 pills. oh that's not good.
OH YES YES YES ITS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
now I can seeeeeeeeeeeeee my HALLOOOOOOOO
oh fuck that trailer is FIRE LETSS GOOO! (I spy a HUG!!!)
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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episode 7 - needs more of my babies; too much time with these villains 😤
but oooooh when they were on screen I was screaming into my pillow, swinging my feet, and twirling my hair, I LOVE THEM SO MUCH
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bigdsgirl · 6 months
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I need to scream into the void about this show so please enjoy:
"what can I do to make you smile?" - he is killing me ily sir
this man just wants her to be happy and AHHHHH
I am still not over I will get 6+ episodes with this man wearing a ring. every close up shot of hand will send me into space
the family! the BIL crying! his parents!! grandma! they love our babies!!!
fuck u mommy dearest, your end is coming and I will be cheering my girl on
him saying good night to the door, i'm sobbing
i wasn't sure if they'd follow the webtoon here, its interesting
THIS MAN ON THE BEACH! THE BEACH! HE'S SO BEAUTIFUL!
i forgot to say she is beyond exquisite -- every outfit has me deceased
her IGNORING HIM PAINS HIM?????????????????? bye.
beach confession *whispers* beach confession
me: *sees the shitty ex* DIE
Sister and ex kissing has me VOMITING
the SHOWER LOOOOOL I TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT THIS -- its even better in TV form. and icon!!!
SNEAK PEAK GIVE IT HERE SIR!!!!!!!!!!
he said honey! bye! send me into orbit! his internal chuckle at her faking being asleep has me rolling. okay now say sweet nothings to her 😏
stupid ex is like "omg dreams come true" -- oh shitty mcshitface you have a big storm coming (and I have a front row seat!!!)
yes ma'am!!! chew his ass out! ya dun fucked up
them walking on the beach, what a GORGEOUS shot. frame it and hang it pls
ma'am pls just hold his hand, he is just a sad panicked puppy
HAND KISS I AM DECEASED
he just wants to hold hands and SLEEEEEEEEP
"you might pounce on me??" this man is a genius, this is COMEDY
"so if i cross the line..." man is ready to JUMP
HEART TO HEART YES HONESTY!!!!!!!!!
SHE KISSED HIM SHE KISSED HIM
he is basically like "ill love you enough for the both of us" and oh fuck I am gone
want me to take your mind off it??? OH BOY DO I EVER!!!!
oh.... sir..... the hands... oh... my lord... i will never recover from this.
the PAINTING!!! also lolololol @ surprise gift comment (iykyk)
grandfather, you shithead
the SWITCH OF BOWLS, my king
yes girl, you grab that gallery - also LOL at dad chewing out Yoo Ra
mic drop get them Yi Joo!!!!!!
uh oh mommy slapped her, (good)
"I'll lose my mind for good" - ok sounds great, let's do it
MIL and niece relationship is adorable
MIL the dramatic hug has my rolling -- and the swish of her outfit, she is a VIBE
ugh - ew. they are doing this now. GO AWAY Yoo Ra!!!
now i can see my HALLOOOOOOOOOOOOO (freaking banger)
now i must suffer for a week waiting for this gem to return
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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episode 9 lets gooooo
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bigdsgirl · 6 months
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episode 6 lets goo!!!
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bigdsgirl · 3 months
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look, when he pushed her out of the room because this man was shattered by the concept of losing her when he dies, all I could think was seo do guk would never.
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he says: "we die in a year? fuck it we do it together."
I know I know, different men, different situations, and it was rectified with his sick brain. but BOY!!!!! I was ready to ride out at DAWN.
this man is lucky he's beyond adorable when he's sick
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bigdsgirl · 5 months
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sobbing because its the finale, and I don't want my babies to go!!!
reliving the baby announcement brings me so much serotonin 🥹
why must I watch her be abducted, this will break me
HAHAHAH THE LEG REVEAL! FUCK YEAH
the second chance! its July 20th, 2023! Let's survive this bitch!
oh this is fucking stressful
Yi Joo, what a fucking baddie let's fucking go! choke him out, he deserves it!
side bar, Do Guk looks fire in that blue shirt
Oh god I'm stressed but I cackled seeing Jung Wook with the knife, all I can imagine is this:
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shit the stab freaked me out get the fuck out Jung Wook, I will kill you sir!!!
that's right king, beat his ass!!!!!!!!!
oh the truck ruined me bye
the numbers are gone yes yes yes!!! its all over!
"Don't Cry, I'm Okay" - is bleeding out from the stomach, ok sir
MIL in the pink sweater, i love you queen
the tubes coming out of him, lol sir
Yi Joo, you have to eat it's bad for the baby!! Yes Mom!! You tell her!
Lol this dad is truly delulu if he thinks Jung Wook would change after being in prison
HAHAH I bet his mom cheated on him or something. That would be hilarious. All this BS for a mom that abandoned her son.
BOOM BABY I WAS RIGHT.
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"It's my fault" too little to late bruh
Now it's time for Yoo Ra justice :D Oh she big pregnant and just shows up that the house???? LOL
"Let me stay here" - girl, you are asking for trouble. HAHAH It's time for a paternity test. Let's air this all out.
Manager Kim you have my heart, send all the good vibes
ahem, sir, flowers are not going to fix what you allowed to happen. Jamie, lay the man out. "it is your fault" - damn right it is!
oh the hands as she send him in 😭😭
"Meeting you taught me who I am" - I am going to sob. Just sedate me please.
"There is so much I want to do with you", I am so unwell, this scene is destroying me. She loves him so much and I love them.
The way he is back in his memories and wanted to help her even then. "What have they done to her", YES PROTECT HER! oh god oh god. never mind that's not protecting her.
the way he was that messed up and still went to her, I am losing it.
the prayer, you TWO STOP RIGHT NOW
"where did you go, leaving me all alone", sir. I love her sass of "I leave for 5 minutes!!! five!!! and you do this!!!"
TWO MONTHS??????????????????
"teasing you and giving you a hard time is the greatest joy in my life" I am tearing up, they are the light of my life.
HE'S HOME!!!!!!!!! MY BABY IS HOME!
Oh father-son heart to heart, oh good.
Hands, it all about the hands. Thank you show for giving me what I need.
oh look - back to the family I hate. OH MY GOD THIS IS A NEW WOMAN. He went and moved on.......... oh lord. oh sir a storm is coming. *evil laughter*
oh this is... iconic. I do feel so bad for the other girl, she does not deserve this. oh she is an angel. Joo Ri run, you deserve so much better.
Bruh, the way he fucked up so so hard. delicious. I love watching these people suffer. gorgeous.
well sir :) you got the girl :) nice work :)
"give me money" -- I'll give it to Yoo Ra, she is bold.
ok bad people got punished, let's have some fun :)
Mommy daughter time yay!!! I love them.
LOL I love that line "we are going to file our marriage" FINALLY!!!
Do Guk you DID IT!!!!!! You successful little bean you. <3
the ad placement is PRIME this episode. I love it.
Grandfather sassing that Yi Joo sees Do Guk daily. I love him.
omfg they lost the ring, hilarious - WAIT THEY ARE HAVING A MOMENT!!!!!!!!!! kiss kiss kiss!
omg look at them officially getting married and shit. I am squealing they deserve the world.
the way he RUNS to open the door for her. omg stop everyone is there to celly; they are so cute.
"I'm a good driver" okay queen, go off!
wait is she reenacting them first meeting???? I LOVE THIS. I LOVE THEM. I AM SQUEALING!!!! GTFO.
"I'm thinking I'd like to take my chance on a future with you" I-- I am so unwell.
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I love love love love the ring. I love them. I love them so much.
WILL YOU MARRY ME YI JOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! SAY YES GIRLY!!!!!!!
oh my god the card key bit I am giggling
THE BRIDAL CARRY, THE EMBARRASSMENT I LOVE THEM. I AM OVERJOYED.
BABIES YES I WAS SO WORRIED WE WOULDNT SEE THEM.
MATCHING SHIRTS!!!!!!! MATCHING SHIRTS!!!!!!!!
I am overflowing with joy, this ending is everything to me. EVERYTHING.
"Every day and happiness"
the DUCK FACE AT HIS BABY GIRL.
"no more hearts" - has a million photos of them together. Literally me in life.
"So this is our perfect marriage" -- AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
for the last time
SO I CAN SEEEEEE MY HALOOOOOOOOOOOO
10000000000000000/10. This show has everything. I love them so much. <3 <3
the CREW SHOTS AT THE END. I love love love <3
now i must live on, post perfect marriage revenge :(
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