Can you discuss what you mean by "ethical financial domination"?
Gladly! There is a lot of findom that, in my opinion, crosses the line from play to genuine financial manipulation and abuse.
I consider a Findom session to be the same as any other paid custom work. I discuss budget as part of the boundaries. I make sure that I meet that budget if not take less than budgeted.
I then create a scene or scenario. Since the draw for finsubs is sending the money, I have them send multiple small payments to progress the scene. "Send me $X for the privilege of playing with me", "Send me $X for permission to touch yourself", or "Send me $X for permission to cum". I incorporate the kink into the session and scenario. Some times the scene will include other kinks the sub is interested in engaging it.
I often will send newds, lewds, or audio commands to create a more compelling experience. I want my finsubs to feel good about themselves for having played with me. I am always sure to provide aftercare, unless specifically informed that they do not want aftercare.
Again. This is a service. This is no different then buying feet pics or paying for phone sex. (Both of which I'm down to do if any one wants to. DM me we will talk about pricing. Always in that grind.)
One of the things I am most proud of is being a safe Findom for trans and queer people. There are a lot of overlaps between findoms and more bigoted and abusive kinks (sissy play, misgendering kink, ect). I only engage in predetermined safe kinks. I won't let my finsubs give more than they can financially handle. If it's their money for food or for gas then they don't get to give it to me. Safety and consent are my biggest priorities.
Thank you for the question. I have been. Really wanting to talk about this.