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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I heard a new word today and now I feel like my Kink vocabulary is complete.
Pervertables
Every day objects that are used in D/S, Kink play. A hair brush as a paddle, Bobby pins as nipple clamps, clothes pins, and many many other things.
I love this word. Lol.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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A post I never thought I'd have to make
A few days ago there was a post made by instructor144 asking this "Need folks with better memory for details than my brain can manage to sound off here. Years back, we had a predator out there, claimed he was a "retired psychologist," fucked over some susceptible subs rather badly as I recall. Does anyone remember details, anyone fall victim to this guy, etc? Got a DM from a follower, looks like he's still out there doing his thing, but I'm fuzzy on the details after all this time."
At that time they were looking for a blog with the name of greywlf or a-greywlf, or iterations close to that. He's someone that has been around for years harassing, gaslighting, supposedly blackmailing etc. A really nasty person that claims to be a retired psychiatrist. He stops and restarts his blog with a slight twist on that name but the description and his posts are basically the same. He's really really bad news and should be a concern to everyone.
My problem now is that someone has "decided" that the picture of this person, positively identifies him as also being me and my blog. That person has spewed off that I AM a blackmailer etc and have been for years all based off a hunt for the other blog.
I AM NOT THIS PERSON NOR HAVE I EVER chased, harassed, blackmailed anyone. It's clear from his picture they posted what he looks like and it is a million percent not me. Someone just decided to tell people that I'm the same person and that I'm a predator.
I am all for warning people about predators, I even do it on my blog at times, but to have my name linked to it because I happen to have a beard and have the name doctor in my blog is insane to me.
I want to say thank you to the many friends that have reblogged the post and stated emphatically that it's not me. It means a lot.
For the record, I am a very happy Daddy Dom, who is not looking for anyone new and havent been looking for a long time. There are a few friends from Tumblr that are very close and have my personal phone number and see selfies from me a lot and they can attest that I'm not whoever this person is.
I've also met more some of my followers ,who became good friends, in person for lunch, to hang out, to talk, etc. I've even had impact sessions, play sessions etc with a few once we established all the needed boundaries, safety protocols, etc.
I have spent at least five years building this blog as a safe space to share my thoughts on this lifestyle and to share my stories.
I'm beyond disturbed and disappointed that my name has been attached to a vile person like that. I too remember different versions of greywlf over the years and know one follower in particular who had a bad run in with him back when she had a different blog name. She's changed the name of her blog since then and she's had the new name for several years, so I know he's been around a long time.
By all means get his blogs out there when you find them, but I am not this person, am not associated nor have I ever been.
I do not ask for people to send me dirty pictures, I don't send dirty pictures, I don't scroll my follower list and randomly message people hoping to "get my hooks in them".
It was even stated that I hated a certain blogger, instructor144, and blocked him years ago. That's definitely not the case, he and I have messaged on occasion and I have no hatred for that person nor have I ever blocked him "to keep him from finding me" etc etc etc.
This is honestly ridiculous that I'm even having to write this but I refuse to reblog that crazy post but will screenshot the post and some of my friends replies to tell the person that I'm not the person they're looking for, but those friends just get blocked by said person. It's sad and disappointing that one person can distort things to the point that the real predator is being lost in the shuffle.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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Doctordaddysir's fun thoughts #1
We are laying on the bed snuggling, watching a movie. You get bored with the movie and start running your hands all over me, getting me very excited. You smile a little evil grin and disappear under the covers. I feel your lips kissing down my body, inch by inch you kiss, making your way closer and closer to my already throbbing cock.
I hear you giggling as my body reacts to each kiss. Then I feel your lips find the tip, kissing it lightly. You then slide your lips over and take me deep in your mouth. You expect to hear me groan, to hear a loud sigh as your lips touch the base of my cock. Instead I make no sound, this is now a game. A battle of wills. Me trying act way more interested in the movie and you determined to be the center of attention.
I hear you working harder and harder, your little head bouncing up and down, sucking, licking, giggling, but I act completely uninterested. You know I am but I'm making sure to patronizingly ignore it all the best I can.
You hear me say "Kitten, you're missing the good part" as you feel my hand slide into your hair, gripping you tight. "Leave it open for me" I say as I start fucking your head up and down. I still won't react. I just shove in and out like I don't notice it even feels good. You try to suck and I pull your head off. "Don't you dare suck" you hear me say, demanding and teasing. I continue to move you in a rhythm that I want. Harder and faster. Deeper and deeper. Holding your head down against me as your mouth is full.
Now I react, you hear me groan loudly as the speed increases. I tease out "does kitten. Want to finish what she started?" And I pull you off to answer.
"Yes Sir!!!!" You reply with a loud giggle. Your lips find me again, you suck and suck and lick and lick. Faster and faster as you hear me moaning. You feel me twitching in your mouth. You know I'm about to explode. You lift up long enough to say in your best Domly kitten voice without laughing "Cum for me Daddy!" And you continue faster and faster. You feel me jerk, you feel my muscles go stiff and I and you slide deep on to me as I cum in your mouth. You greedily suck until I'm dry.
Your little head pops back up out of the covers, you kiss me hard and smile. I say "I missed you kitten. Where did you go??". We laugh and snuggle back up.
Who knows what happened in the movie, I guess we will have to watch it later because kitten started it and now I'm going to finish It...
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doctordaddysir · 9 months
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Who doesn't love a bearded man with a dad bod reading a book?
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doctordaddysir · 10 months
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I mean, it's tiny sloths. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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doctordaddysir · 1 year
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We should all feel.this way. I am with you Candy Corn. I Like Me. And you all should like yourselves too.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I don't post a lot of pics of dinners anymore, but today I made smoked candy apple meatballs, with Mac and cheese, smoked sweet peppers and sauteed squash. It was really good. The meatballs are so sticky, sweet and spicy. Just a great meal.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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Tonight I'll just leave my adorable Gus Gus chomping on some Chex. Look at his little hands!!!
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I say go all in if you are role playing 😂😂😂
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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You've heard Lions and tigers and bears oh my.
How about Cuddles and kisses and nipple pinches.
Fun thoughts.
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doctordaddysir · 1 year
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Do you ever use real life sexual experiences to help influence your stories?
Has there ever been a moment with a submissive that you constantly have to revisit?
I love your blog and hope you have a fantastic “turkey day” if you celebrate!
Also, aren’t vaulted ceilings interesting? 😜
Yes, I use real life experiences for the basis of many of my stories. As with any story, the amount of realism varies. Some stories are almost a play by play of a night together, where as some are based on just a small snippet.
Oke quick example that I've mentioned before. My story "meeting me at the movies" was based on a real encounter from someone I met on FetLife. We discussed all the details, how we'd meet, go in together, play, etc along with all the safety protocols and limits being discussed. We met, and it was our first time meeting in person. Went into the movie and once inside she realized she couldn't do the things we had discussed. She quickly told me she was having a lot of anxiety over It. She didn't even have to use a safe word, as I could see the anxiety building. We actually sat, watched the movie, held hands, ate popcorn, and had the most amazing vanilla first date ever. She was my sub for about seven months after that and a couple of other stories are based more on play by plays of our time, but the meeting me in the movies never happened and was just a very vanilla amazing first date.
There are moments with Subs over the years I'll never forget. Except for a couple, every relationship I've had has ended well, ended when it was time for one of us to move on, life changes, etc. I fondly remember many times with subs, and I also can't forget some of the times that weren't so good, mistakes were made, one of us hurt the other with words or actions. I don't remember those out of any kind of regret or anger, but more to learn from mistakes and move on.
I do celebrate it and we will be eating a large meal, with fried turkey, cornbread dressing, sweet potato souffle, green bean casserole, cranberry sauce, etc. A good southern meal.
I don't know if vaulted ceilings is codeword for something or an innuendo but I'm gonna say innuendo and yes it's interesting.
Quick innuendos off the top of my head:
Is that a vaulted ceiling in your room or are you just happy to see me?
I can't wait to vault your ceiling tonight!
Are you a vaulted ceiling? Cause I get high just looking at you.
Are you a vaulted ceiling? Cause I love your self supporting arches!
Oh kitten, you make my groin vault! (Any architecture/design nerds may know that. A groin vault is a type of vaulted ceiling) 😂😂😂
Ok that's all I got. Thanks for the ask!!
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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Are you interested in taking on a new sub? Talking to anyone?? 😅🙈
Thanks for asking but I definitely am not looking for anyone right now. I'm very happy where I'm at and with who I'm with. Working in hospitals post covid takes up waaaay more of my time than it used to and I'm not nearly as active here or anywhere like I used to be.
I have the right people in my life that understand that and also a good core group of friends to keep me sane. That's honestly all I can handle at this point. Hoping this world becomes a little less crazy soon but for now it's all about maintaining and growing what I do have. If that makes sense.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I really need to write a new story. I need to escape in my head a little.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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Well I have another new journey for work next week. I'm covering the Indianapolis area. I've never been there and it'll be a very interesting week. Anyone have ideas on good places to eat dinner if I get time?
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I haven't done asks in a while. Send me asks, questions, thoughts, confessions, what's you want and I'll do my best to post and answer them.
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doctordaddysir · 2 years
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I don't know who needs to hear this today but here it goes:
Rules should not be made to set you up for failure. Tasks should not be designed to set you up for failure.
A Dom should not be actively seeking ways to punish. Your role isn't to earn NOT being punished. Period.
I had a follower mention that she was taught to prove she was worth coming off punishment and basically earn her right to stop being punished.
That's a very messed up thing to me. I can't imagine myself making rules with the hopes that my sub can't keep up with them. I can't imagine telling my sub that she deserves punishments until she shows she's worthy of not being punished any more.
Punishments are just that. Specific punishments for a specific broken rule. How severe and what type of punishment should be based on your relationship and what rule was broken and why it was broken. Was it a lack of effort? A lack of understanding? Did I not make it clear enough? Did she assume something in the rules that she should have asked for clarification? Etc etc etc.
I don't take punishment lightly and I always look at myself first and determine if there was anything I should have seen or could have done to keep it from happening. Effort is sexy. We will always discuss the first time a rule is broken and then go from there.
Punishments shouldn't be expected more than anything else.
Carry on lol.
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