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dailyhealthcareblog · 1 year

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What can be used against you in a divorce?

If you have been wondering what can be used against you in a divorce as a mom, dad, or newly wedded couple it is important to be conscious of whatever you are doing whenever you feel that the marriage is not habitable again.

As one who wants a divorce from his/her partner, keep reading this article to see for your self.

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What is divorce

Divorce simply means when a marriage is dissolved. It can also be said that when two mature married couple comes to agreement that they are know longer compatible together so they file for a divoce for them to separate from each other.

In some cases, one can see a divorce a choice when the marriage he/she is into is no longer inhabitable, very toxic and can’t cope with it. It is advisable to leave the marriage if you have been trying to fit in for long but it seems it wasn’t working, you Bett leave before you are out of the picture (world).

What are the Reasons for Divorce

You have to get this at the back of your mind, before a divorce happen their must be a disagreement somewhere.

Here are the possible main reasons for divorce, they include

Domestic violence

Infidelity

Psychological stress

Psychological Abuse

Physical abuse

Lack of commitment

Family

Adultry

Finance

Sustance Abuse

Irriconcilable difference

ADULTERY

The word adultery have done more harm than good in marriage. Research has it that couples who have divorced for the past 5 years are because of adultery. This applicable to both gender, because male cheat and women also cheat. The High rate of adultery in the society is alarming and we (you and I) have been wondering what could be done to cutdown the rate of adultery in the society.

Here are most of the things that can help to reduce the rate of adultery…

TRUTHFULNESS: Being truthful to both parties can play a great effect in this journey. If you have a truthful partner I assure you that this can aswell reduce.

COMMUNICATION: This is the key for a good marriage. If you really wants your marriage (union) to last longer communication will be one of the keys to use to get what you really wants.

FINANCE

Finance also has it’s own effect on divorce, because one can’t eat truelove. Yes truelove matters alot but without money or hoping that money will be coming from this investment, you will see that the love will shatter and they will be misunderstanding here and there. It is advisable to have something doing before being in a union with some else child.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

As a man you don’t have any right to beat up your wife no matter what. Being able to handle or to treat each other according will really help you both in your union. Understanding is key and being able to solve the issue amicably is the real goal there.

As a partner being able to hear each other out is very important because it will reduce somany act of domestic violence.

LACK OF COMMITMENT

Being committed to each other will really you out as one that is in union with someone. What is a happy union? This when you and your pattern are happily living together. You both can easily sort out your difference and can be able to resolve any issue at a giving point in time.

FAMILY

Family is also anoth factor that increases the rate of divorce in our society nowadays. Taking issues that suppose to be resolved amicably indoors, and without nobody knowing about it. Then when family comes in they start judging and siding for their own child, you see that problem has just started as at that point. Being able to resolve issues without involving family members, friends is very important. Resolving issues without involving family members shows that you both are good together and should be called worthy partners.

IRRICONSILABLE DIFFERENCES

This is also one of the challenge factors in marriage. When one can not be able to reconcile with his/her partner, it becomes a problem.

This why it is important to attain marriage classes so that you both will be prepared for what you are entering into.

Who causes divorce more?

According to research, divorce has become a food to most women. Most women derive joy in it reasons best known to them. This doesn’t mean that men don’t file for divorce but research has it that 70% comes women.

Effects of divorce

There are alot of effects that comes after you might have divorced your partner.

Most often times the negative side effects of your divorce may not affect you but your children.

It is important to consider the children you have before filing for a divorce, this is because it may affect them mentally and otherwise. Keep reading

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apango1 · 6 months

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I don’t understand all the happy pictures of women that are getting divorced, or the divorce parties. This is by far one of the hardest things to go through

#divorcesucks

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counselingservicesofparker · 4 years

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#counselingworks #coloradocounseling #divorced #psychologytoday #marriages #engaged #lifeafterdivorce #divorcesucks

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startingagainin2020 · 4 years

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One day at a time...

And so it begins. After 12 years... this bond will no longer be.

At times the denial is very real. Some days it is clear as water. Heartbreak rushes in when reality hits.

I tell myself... one day at a time... just take it one day at a time.

#heartbroken #divorce #divorcesucks #i need a friend #feeling alone

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carolina-mic · 5 years

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What's the #1 clause in your #lovecontract ? -Love Contract (feat.Geeztown) Coming this summer to a digital music store near you! - - #hiphop #positivehiphop #lovedare #relationships #marriage #divorcesucks #love #peace #talktome #newmusic #staypositive #loveandmarriage #carolinamic #geeztown #rapper #singer #unsignedartist #prenuptial #prenup (at Minneapolis, Minnesota) https://www.instagram.com/p/BySlPtWD8kM/?igshid=1mp8s2e2yeb7j

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jilliannbeck-bryant · 2 years

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No more fake af filters. . Back to bathroomselfies . This is me. . What are your ambitions-1, 5 and 10ish yrs from now? . In a year from now, I will probably be a divorced, single mother of 2 beautiful blessings of girls. On the bright side, I will probably finally have enough peace in my life to focus on things like a solid career path in the next 5 and/or REAL entrepreneurship (dm me or see website link in bio if you wanna know more). . This will allow me to save up enough $ for the beach/river healing house my 6-yr-old and I have dreamed of for so long (God-willing of course... praying lately how we may best serve humanity...realistically a 7-10 yr plan there... unless God miraculously makes it happen sooner lol funny how divorces set back our goals a bit 🤷‍♀️🤣😭💔🤦‍♀️)... . Focusing on the S's: Sovereignty; self-sufficiency; sustainability; solitude; silence; stillness; serenity; service; soul-growth; self-care; sustenance; strength; speaking; sacred; starseed; simplicity... . Anymore you can think of? . Comment below, like, share (paper airplane icon below), save plz and thx. . Oh, and if you wanna know the story, I will gladly tell it with as much grace, impecability and integrity possible... . #divorcesucks #keepitclassy #mystory #writingamemoir #maybejustmaybe #helpsomeone #lifecoaching #afteritall #learnandgrow #thenteach #thedreamcatchersdotcom #singlemomstatus #gratefulfor #1bedapt #lookonthebrightside #nomoresalespitch #payitforward #godwillprovide #donationonly #nonprofit (at East Hill Church Family) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWrf5wcP2lG/?utm_medium=tumblr

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spencesworld · 2 years

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DOES IT GET ANY BETTER? (WHAT WERE YOU DOING) #OLDTIMERSCLUB #DIVORCESUCKS #EMPTYNESTERS https://www.instagram.com/p/CWa3bBCLUGP/?utm_medium=tumblr

#oldtimersclub #divorcesucks #emptynesters

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themsfish-blog · 6 years

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Truer words have never been written. I will keep my head high and I will rise above. Lies and untruths are always brought to light in the end. ❤️ #IAmReal #IAmMe #SingleMom #DivorceSucks #RiseAbove #ChinUpButtercup #SuckItUpPrincess #StraightenYourCrownAndGetShitDone #StandTall

#riseabove #standtall #iamreal #singlemom #chinupbuttercup #iamme #divorcesucks #straightenyourcrownandgetshitdone #suckitupprincess

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oozeinspiration · 3 years

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Thanksgiving is a sort of strange and silly holiday to me. It’s silly because I’m grateful each day, mindfully so, for all the lessons and love in my life. . This thanksgiving was different though. It was the best thanksgiving, possibly ever, where I did everything my way. Watching the parade with the kids (the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade is a favorite tradition and I am so glad they still had it this year!). Pumpkin pie, watermelon and leftover pizza for Breakfast. Dress up and photo shoot with kids. Then from noon on I was alone! #solomia . . I loved every damn minute of it!!! So this thanksgiving I was grateful for quiet, long showers, yoga, spa days at home, signing final divorce papers, not rushing, no traffic, shopping at Walgreens for stocking stuffers, sunset hikes, a late and light dinner, wine without kids whining, watching Queen’s Gambit, not having to get up a million times to get kid snacks, being able to actually enjoy our dogs’ loving company, having the bed to myself, waking up refreshed, “finding” the elves back for the season, posting this with coffee and no interruptions.... 🥰 I think my self-care game was stronger in this one half day than it has been all year combined. I had time to THINK and digest all that has happened this year. ❤️❤️❤️ for that I am forever grateful!! . . Now all I need is some Xmas pajamas...... lol @lemon.18 😂. . #happyhealthyhumble #happythanksgiving2020 #bestdayoftheyear #feelinggoodaboutmyself #selfcaredaily #gratefulaf #yogamakesmehappy #sunsethike #alonetimeisgood #timetothink #mindfulmoments #feelingfree #bepresentinyourlife #divorcesucks #singlemomstrong #miatemple #singlemomlifestyle #oozeinspo #oozeinspiration https://www.instagram.com/p/CIG7RWID5-y/?igshid=1kpk6gkvzv4cr

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meinzmatters · 4 years

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Going through old phots for my boys’ family history project. Came across this gem of 70s style. I miss my parents so much! They were divorced shortly after this photo was taken. They both took different paths but created new families that embraced me. In a bizarre twist of fate they both died within 6 months of each other 20 years ago. Grief gets easier with time but when I see this, I am reminded of the tremendous loss I suffered. 😥 On another note...what I wouldn’t give for my moms 70s wardrobe! #familyhistory #greengardfamily #divorcesucks https://www.instagram.com/p/CGt-8YJnaoT/?igshid=tqrcacf1xfdp

#familyhistory #greengardfamily #divorcesucks

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counselingservicesofparker · 3 years

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#coloradolove #we_love_psychology #divorcesucks #marriagegoals #seperation #divorce #divorcedparents

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mooingon-blog · 4 years

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Woohoo! It’s almost summer time! 🌞⁣ We are launching the first Breakup Box in a couple months and giving away 5 free boxes filled with lots of goodies.⁣ ⁣ Enter the contest daily!⁣ Link in bio: Mooingon.com⁣ ⁣ NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. UNITED STATES AND CANADA RESIDENTS ONLY. Giveaway ends on July 24th, 2020 at 11:59PM PST. Winners will be announced between July 25th-August 10th 2020 by email with instructions on how to redeem the free box. Enter the giveaway by submitting your full name & email address. This giveaway is not sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with Instagram.⁣ #mooingon #movingon #movingonquotes #breakupssuck #breakup #inspiration #divorcequotes #divorcesucks #inspiration #heartbreak #breakupbox #carepackage #yourenotalone ⁣ https://www.instagram.com/p/CA0sSceHEXy/?igshid=q5xmav1qud6y

#mooingon #movingon #movingonquotes #breakupssuck #breakup #inspiration #divorcequotes #divorcesucks #heartbreak #breakupbox #carepackage #yourenotalone

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mommafoxfire · 4 years

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First time doing a sewing "project" - it's an oversize throw blanket with lush fabric on one side and flannel on the other. Super cozy! I made it for my youngest. Got fabric for the other kiddos as well... after my therapist suggested picking up a new hobby for when they aren't home. Divorce sucks. Working on yourself sucks. Learning new skills sucks... but like this blanket project, the time, the learning curve, the little stabs and frustrations and seam ripping and threading needles and measuring and marking... all of it results in something to be proud of. . . . #divorce #sewing #blanket #singer #divorcerecovery #divorcesucks #therapy #counseling #growth #kids #love https://www.instagram.com/p/B9f26PoHxTb/?igshid=rqxaheuamqxh

#divorce #sewing #blanket #singer #divorcerecovery #divorcesucks #therapy #counseling #growth #kids #love

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proudcatholic1977 · 4 years

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Reposted from @therationalfemale Now that’s a word! 🖤 #therationalfemale #promarriage #profamily #marriedlife #love #wifey #husband #genderroles #marriage #intimacy #valentinesday2020 #commitment #divorcesucks #childcustody #alienation #wife #couples #healthyliving #relationships #relationshipadvice #premaritalcounseling #married #wifeandhusband #divorcequotes #marriageisbeautiful #datingadvice #feminine #masculine #thatsall #truthbetold https://www.instagram.com/p/B8l2lNrlAVX/?igshid=10jdqphch7sb3

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death-by-sexiness · 7 years

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It's a freshly woke up bitch pic. Anything going on tonight? I'm missing them and need to get out. #selfie #nomakeup #weekend #sadgirlsclub #divorcesucks #parentalalienationsucks #whiskeyplease

#parentalalienationsucks #divorcesucks #weekend #sadgirlsclub #nomakeup #whiskeyplease #selfie

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aboyandhismom · 5 years

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This is the face of a Mom who is feeling completely defeated. No filter, no hiding from the truth. This is a Mom whose done everything she’s felt was right to fight for what’s best for her child, only to be made to feel like she’s the bad guy or out of her mind for doing such a thing. This is a Mom that has followed all the rules every time only to be kicked down time and time again. This isn’t the life I signed up for my child or myself. This is a Mom that is tired of hearing that things will eventually get better and just keeping waiting. This is the Mom who doesn’t understand what she did to ever deserve this. This is the Mom who’s exhausted all her financial means to make things right only to have failed yet again. This a Mom who tired of putting on the brave face in public yet constantly crying behind closed doors. This is the Mom that needs to see a light at the end of a tunnel. This is a Mom that is being strong enough to finally admit she is not ok. #divorcesucks #coparentingsucks #cantcatchabreak #whyme #itsoknottobeok #tiredofthebullshit #lightattheendofthetunnel #nofilter (at Whitby, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2Pdy8gAxdB/?igshid=15yweul7j1iez

#divorcesucks #coparentingsucks #cantcatchabreak #whyme #itsoknottobeok #tiredofthebullshit #lightattheendofthetunnel #nofilter

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