People, usually cishets and *some* binary trans people making fun of xenogenders is fucking confusing to me. Your gender is a blue, plaid beer or a pink, lacy sewing machine. You tell me someone feeling like their gender is kinda a deer is more ridiculous? Gender roles are fucking fake. Nothing is inherently masculine or feminine but y'all are pissed that someone wants to be beautiful like a galaxy?

Also y'all forget that there are rural queer people and rural BIPOC that have to deal with the ignorance that comes from having a lack of infrastructural support. Like calling someone uneducated should be an insult to the American education system, not them. Not justifying bigotry but yeah.