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When you visit your home country and unexpectedly meet a POT. 😉

I haven’t been hunting for SDs because I have been traveling all summer long - a) for school and b) with my ppm SD I have been seeing since April- and could not dedicate my time to sugaring.

So I met this guy on a night out with my girls. My girls and I had pre-gamed at a bar before deciding to go to a bar & grill spot. As we walked to the bar & grill, this guy honked at us from his 2017 Mercedes Benz SUV. Normally, I would ignore such an attempt but my girls encouraged me to stop and listen to what he has to say because he specifically wanted to speak with me. He told me how lovely he thought I looked and asked if he and his friend could join us. I was a bit tipsy from the pre-game and said yes!

At the bar & grill he said, “get anything you want,” music to my ears! And we all did. We over indulged in alcohol, food and shisha. After the bar & grill, I was surely drunk. When we all decided to leave, he gave me his number and paid for our cab back home.

I’ve been seeing him since our first encounter and he is truly a sweet guy. Plus he’s only a few years older than me, which makes it all the better! He visited me shortly today and handed me this stack!

New Sugar

I entered the sugar bowl in November 2016 and started on Seeking Arrangement (SA). It’s a popular site and actually the first one that came up in my search. I joined the sugar bowl out of curiosity and I’m actually enjoying it despite its inevitable ups and downs.  

Note: if you have a college email address and feel comfortable creating an SA account with it, SA will give you a free premium account!  

While on SA, I’ve met some interesting men to say the least. I first met an older gentleman who I will refer to as Ally, my first salt daddy. His profile picture was outdated and 10 years younger than he was in person. He worked a professor and researcher at a local university; he was married with 2 children and openly spoke about. We always met up for breakfast about once a week for about 2 months. During our first meeting, he did not mentioned met sex or an allowance (mistake #1). I didn't either because I honestly did not know what I was doing. 

1. Your time is valuable! Make that clear from the start and if you know how much you would like per meet or allowance-wise discuss. It never hurts.

Ally promised to help me purchase textbooks for my classes in the Spring semester. He used his professor status to buy my books from the vendor but it took so long for me to get them -__- I ended up having to purchase one of the books on my own because I need it for an assignment. This should have been a sign but being new to the sugar bowl I unfortunately took whatever I could get... smh (mistake #2). 

2. Don’t settle for what you can get. Go for what you want! 

 After our fifth breakfast together, he ask me for sex and offered $100. I drew the line there, I was like hell no! I told him I need at least $300 and was taking no less. He said $300 was too much and all his previous sugars were okay with $100. That’s absolutely fine but I'm definitely not taking that... Sorry. I stuck around for the books and Ally and I ended it and went on your separate ways. Welp!

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