Hypnotizing Autistic People
I have been continuing to work on the newbie guide to hypnosis.
All the inductions now have in-place text for the scripts, they cross reference back to the relevant theory bits, and I've even got the sections consistent between inductions now.
But the big bit is filling out a page on hypnotizing autistic people.
This was great fun to do because it's so blatantly obvious now how much the stereotype of "analytical" and "difficult" subjects matches up with the autistic stereotype. So many "powerful mental techniques" just don't work well on autistic people.
Try to assert your authority and establish compliance with an autistic person and you may as well stage-dive onto pavement.
Attempt to confuse and overwhelm the senses of an autistic person with language patterns and sensory overload? I've got news for you: autistic people *expect* to be confused and overwhelmed.
Try to relax them with PMR? They won't stop thinking. They'll get bored and their brains will give them more interesting things to think about.
So the way to hypnotize an autistic person is to work with them, rather than against them. Summarizing from the page:
Form an alliance by infodumping all the theory on them, and explain why and how you're doing what you're doing.
Frame hypnosis as a co-operative game with some clear and easy to follow rules.
Frame suggestions in terms of their special interests.
Pay attention to and respect their sensory needs.
Use direct and clear communication.
Keep the mind engaged. If you're not doing anything, bring them out. Don't rely on trance to keep them occupied.
Check-in frequently. Don't assume that you can read non-verbal cues.
If they have any stims, that's a great introduction to automatic behaviors.
I had fun writing this, and if you have feedback please reblog and/or leave a comment. I want to do a page on ADHD next and could use some tips there as well.
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In the SCA—how strictly do people tend to stick with one particular period within the range? To make that question clearer I am now the closest to joining I have been over the years and the major thing now making me hesitate is I like styles from so many different times, and from different genders, and I’m thinking myself into a tizzy about having to pick One. Is that the usual mode of approaching garb? Or do people mix it up and I’m worrying about nothing?
This is an awesome question! And I have an exciting answer for you: I don't know anyone who does strictly one time or location, and I have seen countless people wear garb they like regardless of gender.
There are people whose closet will be predominantly one style, but because most of the time Scadians are dressing for weather and location, that style is rarely absolute. Loads of people are suddenly Roman when the summer hits. You might see more Viking in the winter because of the warm layers. Loads of ladies will rock the Landsknecht booty shorts when they wanna.
There is no rule when approaching garb, except that it needs to be some attempt at pre-16th century clothes. T-tunics are beginner friendly (and veteran owned and approved) as well as a good foundation for garb goals. The persona is a helpful tool for people who might feel overwhelmed, and so it lets you focus on a single time and location until you're ready to try new things or build on what you know you like. But there is nothing that says you can't do what you like, wear what you want, and be whoever you want to be!
In Atlantia, some of our events (or even reigns) will be themed. We've had Persian, German, Viking - it's awesome. I wouldn't have discovered how much I love a good Ghawazi coat without our Persian Reign.
And remember, you don't have to roll up with a fully complete kit to start playing. A T-tunic and some sweat pants, or a long T-tunic and a belt is more than enough. You will have plenty of time to build your closet as you go - which will be easier and more fun with the help from all of the amazing people you're going to meet!
I'm so excited for you to start playing, and let me know if you have any other questions. Welcome to the dream!
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So you're new to this ?
Hey there, doll. Welcome to the wildest ride of high school. If I could go back in time, here's the advice I'd give lil me – the ultimate guide to crushing sophomore year and making it look effortless ! (I think)
Oh this can apply if you're just a new student, or after a break starting a new term or wtv idk !
1. Uniform vs. Home Clothes Chic:
- Whether you're rocking a uniform or strutting in your own home fits, confidence is the key.
>For uniforms, play with accessories ! – a killer watch, cool socks, or a personalized pin for your clothes or hair. Be sure to iron your uniform, I promise it'll elevate your look !
>Home clothes? Find a signature style – be it graphic tees, funky jeans, classic leather jacket, pink pilates princess vibes or athleisure vibes. You do you, and let your uniqueness shine.
- For the schools that do both try to plan carefully when you get the chance to wear home clothes and give your alllllllll; my school had us wear school uniform from Monday to Wednesday, then on Thursdays we get to wear home fits then Friday school tracksuits and on wknds boarders were permitted to wear home fits (the school was so mfing stingy just for those 3 days smh 🙄) and best believe we took advantage of our creativity 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
2. Study Smart, Not Hard:
- Let's talk about one study method !!!
Ever tried the Feynman Technique? Teach what you're learning in simple terms, as if explaining it to someone else who's having difficulty understanding or to a younger much annoyingly curious version of yourself :D. Like think to yourself 'how would I explain this to a 10 year old ?'.
This exposes gaps in your understanding and helps you grasp concepts more deeply. It's like being the professor of your own academic empire. Ouh fancy right, I know.
If you're not sure on how to go about it you can ask Chatgpt to explain as if you're 10, here Chatgpt demonstrates by talking about Quantum entanglement;
God I just love that 😌 Aye now don't go to Chatgpt everytime you need something Feynman-ied, it's important to try to practice this and train yourself, don't be so reliant ok :) ?
3. Extracurricular Juggling Act:
- Extracurriculars are the spice of high school life.
The key is balance. Pick activities aligned with your passions. If you're into sports, make sure it complements your academic schedule. Remember, you're crafting a well-rounded high school story, not a chaotic drama.
This adds to your credits, imagine how easy if would be for you to get you uni with all these great stuff on your record. A plus if you get ok to good grades as it shows that not only did you do well but you were active in other stuff. Good impressions go bbbrrr 📈📈📈
I wish I had a friend that pushed me to go for extracurriculars, my record looks so stale except for the usual, nothing fancy to add. Take this as a sign to sign up for the stuff right up your alley !
4. Note-Taking Magic:
- Your notes are your secret weapon.
Try the Cornell Method – divide your page into two sections, one for main notes and the other for summarizing. After class, jot down questions based on your notes; it's like creating your personalized study guide. Like so :
5. Decoding The Testing Maze:
- When it comes to studying for tests, don't just memorize; understand.
The SQ3R method is your ally – Survey, Question, Read, Recite, Review. It turns passive reading into an active engagement with the material. Ahhh good stuff !
Remember our talk of quantum entanglement, well, I'll try to demonstrate the SQ3R method if you're studying Q.E
Example Question:
Explain the concept of quantum entanglement and how it manifests between two particles. Provide an example scenario to illustrate your understanding.
SQ3R Breakdown:
Survey:
- Glance over the entire question. Identify key terms: "quantum entanglement," "manifestation," and "example scenario." This gives you a roadmap for what to look for in the material.
Question:
- Formulate specific questions based on the content:
- What is the fundamental concept of quantum entanglement?
- How does entanglement occur between two particles?
- Can you provide a real-world scenario to illustrate this?
Read:
- Dive into your physics materials. Focus on sections explaining quantum entanglement, the mechanics of entanglement between particles, and any examples or scenarios provided.
Recite:
- Close your book and explain what you've learned:
- Quantum entanglement is a phenomenon where particles become interconnected, with changes in one particle affecting the other.
- Entanglement occurs through a process called quantum superposition, where particles exist in multiple states simultaneously.
- Example scenario: Imagine two entangled electrons. If one electron's spin is measured and found to be "up," the other electron's spin will instantly be determined as "up," regardless of distance.
---Quantum entanglement is a phenomenon where two or more particles become interconnected, regardless of the distance between them. This entanglement influences their properties, meaning the state of one particle instantly affects the state of the other. For example, if we have two entangled electrons, measuring the spin of one electron will instantaneously determine the spin of the other, even if they are light-years apart. This interconnectedness challenges our classical understanding of particle behavior, introducing a fascinating aspect of quantum physics.
Review:
- Go back over your notes, ensuring you've covered the fundamental concept, mechanics, and the example scenario. Check your understanding of terms like quantum superposition and the implications of measurements on entangled particles.
Applying SQ3R helps break down complex questions, ensuring a solid grasp of wtv question/topic you plan to study.
6. Time Management Mastery:
- Mastering time is mastering high school.
Ever heard of the Eisenhower Matrix? It categorizes tasks into urgent and important, helping you prioritize efficiently.
1. Urgent and Important (Do First):
- Example: Your final exams are in two days, and you haven't started studying. This is urgent and important, requiring immediate attention to ensure academic success. Drop everything else and hit the books.
2. Important, Not Urgent (Schedule):
- Example: You've been thinking about starting a blog to share your art and connect with other creative minds. While it's important for personal growth, it's not urgent. Schedule specific times during the week to work on your blog and gradually turn this passion project into a reality.
3. Urgent, Not Important (Delegate):
- Example: Your friend needs help choosing an outfit for an event tonight, and you're in the middle of studying for a crucial test. It's urgent for your friend, but not as important for your academic success. Politely delegate the task to another friend who has a bit more time.
4. Not Urgent and Not Important (Eliminate)
- Example: Spending hours scrolling through social media, binge-watching TV shows, or playing video games without any specific purpose. While these activities might be entertaining, they don't contribute significantly to your personal or academic growth. Consider eliminating or reducing the time spent on these non-productive tasks.
Using the Eisenhower Matrix in daily decision-making helps maintain focus on priorities and ensures that time is allocated effectively, especially for a student juggling school, social life, and personal interests!
7. The Success Mindset:
- Approach challenges with a growth mindset. View setbacks as stepping stones to success. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small, and cultivate resilience. Remember, every stumble is a chance to dance better in the next act of your school journey.
Now, let's dip into the classic realms of friendship and crushes, because at this point you should already know the gist of things. Building genuine connections is like painting your own social masterpiece. Be yourself, laugh often, and approach crushes (and potential friends) with authenticity don't try to change who you are !!!
Confidence, respect, and kindness go a long way. You're not just a sophomore; you're a role model in the making if you try hard enough. Strut through those halls with purpose and make every moment count!
And for those silly cliques, be sure to get in the right ones. The ones that morph you to the bad and influence you to hate yourself or others, ignore them, they're so not worth your time and they're soooo yesterday, and we are living for now and the future .
Keep shining doll !
xoxo signing off,
Angela ꒰⑅ᵕ༚ᵕ꒱˖♡
ps: oh em gee, thanks alot for 360+ likes on my first post, that was really quick it caught me off guard lol, thanks alotttttttt mwahhhh xx
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More Reverieverse Incorrect Quotes: (Maybe OOC but these are the vibes I get.)
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Axel *on the phone with Gael*: Hi, it’s Axel.
Gael: What did he do this time?
Axel: No, it’s me, Axel.
Gael: Oh, Okay. What did you do this time?
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Kane: So, how do I look?
Bunny: Like you want to set someone on fire.
Kane: Perfect, let's go.
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Newbie: Please? For me?
Desmond: Don't do that.
Newbie: Don't do what?
Desmond: You think if you say, “please, for me?” and give me that look, I’ll do whatever you want.
Newbie, giving puppydog eyes and little pout: Please, for me?
Desmond, sighing: Fine.
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Detective: You're cute when you're angry.
Marlowe: Then I’m about to get really, fucking adorable.
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Roman: Sorry I'm late, I broke down on the way here.
Cyril: You should be sorry... Wait... Why were you driving? You live here.
Roman: Who said I was driving?
Cyril: ...
Roman: So, what did you need?
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Dove, throwing their head into Cyril's lap: Tell me I'm pretty!
Cyril, lovingly stroking Dove's hair: You're pretty fucking annoying, that's what you are.
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Bonus with Cyril's dads:
Reuben: Oh, fiddlesticks!
Faustin:Look I understand this is a tense situation but let's watch the fucking language.
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