#and ultimately u dont have to care but i see this pattern in my notes and i guarantee its in other fat ppls notes too | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

forbiddennhoney · 9 months

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i wish i could set posts to "mutuals/followers only" for reblogs bc i hate when my posts abt butch/femme stuff get rbed by ppl i dont know cause for me its just an unfriendly reminder of the casual fatphobia w/in the lesbian community

#personal #like the way my posts abt fatness (either made by me or rbed) get like 0 interactions #or like a crumb here or there #but i can just breathe the word butch or femme and it gets 100 notes overnight #im not even a big blog i have like 200 followers ik ppl are likely rbing it from others or have butch/femme as followed terms or whatever #but like. the sheer difference in my notes between these posts is very noticeable not just to me but to my wife too #and its annoying and frustrating bc I could scream for days abt fatphobia #and the only post ive had get bigger is the one where i was talking abt fetishization from ppl who claim to like fat ppl #like no one will touch my posts abt fatphobia otherwise #and ultimately u dont have to care but i see this pattern in my notes and i guarantee its in other fat ppls notes too #i encourage ppl to rb this btw bc im going to literally count the difference in notes from that other post and this one #after overnight that other post got 100 notes #and ik this one wont get that many in the same time frame but i want to keep track so i can tell yall more abt it #since posting (like 10 min ago) the other post got 15 notes and this one got 2.

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