i love how this area turned out

If youre bullying virgatowhipped just stop i know you like to be bitchy but she doesn't deserve that she's so nice and you have to leave her alone

Ok nah I wasn't gonna answer this but then I saw the reason you sent it is bc she's been posting shit acting innocent again?? And yeah uhhhh thats not whats happening lol.

Anyway MONTHS ago nana got this ask

And then a while after that I got the one below it (ugly ass five second collage bc im tired and there's a ten photo limit). I actually eventually got other asks mentioning her by name and it got hella sus so I dmed her about it, she denied sending them, I was suspicious (bc who else would) but then I just moved the fuck on.

Fast forward to a couple days ago, she posts these asks:

Its worth noting i didn't even see them at first, then multiple people dmed them to me saying it was about me. We had actually been talking at the time and she seemed friendly and unbothered so I just messaged her like if you have a problem say it to my face, hoping we could resolve it and move on. Instead she just kept backtracking and we got nowhere, to the point where I had to be like "stop making excuses and just apologise so we can move on".

I have a scrollshot of that whole convo but tumblr keeps glitching when I try and post it so here are some snippets I also have saved.

As you can she shes just constantly playing the victim and not addressing the situation which got old hella fast. Eventually I just left the convo and dmed a friend to calm down.

To this point i thought she was normal and we just had a misunderstanding, then said friend sends me this:

And uhhh. Idk how to explain to you why I dont want someone who is openly and happily going around calling themselves a manipulator, while also showing up in increasingly suspicious and manipulative situations, in my life. Like at this point it was obvious to me she was lying to my face and unable to take accountability (further proven by her answering anons playing the victim which. Sorry but when you fuck up and get confronted you are NOT the victim).

Also we already know she was part of the racist cncotheories gc and pretended to be uninvolved when it came out despite tons of proof and her friends being there, so its not actually wrong for me, a poc, to block her. And I didn't even say anything publicly until SHE started shading me and twisting the narrative, which, again considering shes proud of being a manipulator, I felt the need to address.

Disclaimer: absolutely dont send hate, like the point of this is to inform people about an issue I tried to let die but that yall kept bringing back and to tell my side of the story. If you have an issue w virgatowhipped after reading this, block her. If you have an issue with ME , block me. thats how you keep fandom space positive, getting rid of the people you don't want around. im sick and tired of being accused of bullying when I stand up for myself or told I need to work on keeping the peace w people who are obviously out to hurt me and others. Sorry, that shit won't fly here, and you can unfollow me if that upsets you

Ahh never apologize for replying late! I understand, I'm just happy tumblr didn't eat my ask xD

Ndkandks all of wonho's new songs are just, ugh amazing. For me I think ain't about you is my fav. I find myself humming to it at random times of the day the most, the melody is simple and catchy (also his English has improved so much im proud of him) but them LOOKS for this era ??? He didn't come to play haha. Changkyun being the master of art as always. At first was a bitsad for now performances on music shows but then I remembered he uses uhh "colorful words" so maybe that's why cx nonetheless am proud of him, hands down my favorite mixtape that my favs put out

Welp, the mingyu situation has been fully cleared up (ibelieve you answered this before the final pledis statement?) Pledis cleared things up and mingyu did apologize in the statement (this of course may bring up if he was honest with his apology since it was through the company) and I want to say he was honest? Idk, maybe im naive with believing this but he was wanting to meet with everyone that made posts, he did admit he made jokes and simply went along with them so he is taking accountability. I think now, what is best is just try to like move forward from this. This is up to each fan so I totally respect and understand if you may feel a bit "meh" with getting back into supporting mingyu. It is VALID, any fan that says otherwise is a buttsock. If you need some time, that is ok! If you need a break from the fandom, that is also ok! Afterall, being a fan should be fun and be a happy space! So whatever you pick to do, I support ya! *hugs you* for me, im comfy with like reblogging stuff of him and such. Like im a bit upset still but im a bit more ok If that makes sense? What we are NOT going to do is send hate to OP because their feelings were valid as well

Chanyeol is off fighting indeed, It feels weird but im happy he is able to be away from the idol life (especially after his insta clear out, i got a bit worried there. Sadly the woozi pic didn't survive that clear out gjskdja) what I don't understand is how fans got mad for now group photo and I am like ??? Yeah it sucks to not see them sending off chanyeol but we are in a pandemic and also maybe chanyeol wanted it to be personal? Can kpop fans just chill? Baekhyun released his new album and its iconic, like always lol. May 6 is his date and It will be a shame for sure, but as you said, am happy they can take a break and such. I hope Baekhyun doesn't feel guilty because I'm not mad! (Laughing since exo likes to leave us with gifts before going lol) and minseok!obessesion is just flippen perfection. Like can we greenscreen him into the mv sm? He fits this concept soooo much!

But hoshi making a solo debut, HOLO HAS HAPPEN3D YALL! I cannot stop listening to it, the vocals, beat and dance is just everything to me (a bit sad its not more songs but I'm not complaining) I just was screaming the entire mv xD like it felt like I was being blessed by a God or something lol

Ok my phone is glitching as I'm typing this so maybe its time for me to go xD I pray this sends but until next time we chat!! I hope you are doing well and are safe! Continue being fabulous!

ain’t about you is soooo cute and funky!! but then the dance....😳 dhfsdiuhisuhis yeahhh i think changkyun said it in an interview somewhere that he kind of wanted to promote it on shows but his company told him that it was that or changing the “colorful words” to something more suitable so he declined...I’m glad tbh it makes the album more special imo also he achieved so many #1s and so many views on the mv!! he was so happy!

yeah, I’m glad the mingyu situation is cleared up and he apologised I was missing seventeen so much omg and the members’ messages on his bday the second pledis dropped the last statement...🤧 they love him so much. ALSO GOSE IS BACK!! I’m so happy omggg i missed my weekly dose of serotonin! I’m glad everything is slowly going back to normal. Yeah same i’m okay with it now too.!

have you listened to tomorrow??? omg it’s so so so good i love chanyeol’s voice so much it’s so soothing 😍 hope it was longer tho! yeah tbh fans always find something to complain about like we’re in a pandemic and the south korean rules don’t allow gatherings of lots of people how do you expect them to all get together for a pic and then post it like ????? but anyways I’m glad he got his family with him to say goodbye! also...

EXO IS BACK EXO IS BACK EXO IS BAAAAACKKKKKKKK

I CAN’T BELIEVE MY EYES I REALLY CAN’T omg they’re really coming back with a whole album and a power continuation mv!!!!! also the song sounds like power 2.0 so it’s already soty!!!!! I’M SO EXCITED!!!!

I hope hoshi releases more songs bc i love his style and everything he does for that matter uidhgiufisdfh also MINGHAO SOLO!!!AAAAH so many things happening omgggg