I’ve got a big fat headcanon that Jin Ling finds common ground with Wei Wuxian after falling for a Lan boy.

Like he’s always seen WWX and LWJ’s PDA ridiculous because he’s a kid and it’s normal for kids to see adults doing lovey-dovey stuff and be like “you goddamn cootie queens” but as JL gets older he realizes he’s constantly surrounded by pretty Lan boys and he can’t escape it and it’s giving him all these confusing new feelings until it finally hits him like a truck one day and he’s like “oh my god I get it”