Wouldn it be fun to have agere game nights!? Most discord agere servers don seem to have things like that I think it be good way to make new agere friends! I rly wanna try the genesis project, jackbox, Minecraft, toontown, genshin, all sorts of games with other regressors like me :3 Anyone else think it would be fun??
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anon questions 💌: dealing with guilt & vulnerability issues in a dynamic.
guilt & vulnerability issues can be incredibly hard to deal with when thrown into a new dynamic, especially when you've been looking after yourself for so long <3.
so here are pumpkin's top tips to help! <3.
letting your guard down. ⭐
letting your guard down, especially after being your own safe space for so long, can be incredibly difficult. sometimes the fear of getting hurt could quickly end a dynamic before it even has a chance to begun.
take baby steps, know that fear will always be there but sometimes we still need to jump into the water to finally understand the beauty of the sea <3.
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opening up. 🌙
opening up and trusting somebody can look different to every person. some people open up and trust others easily- whilst others battle incredibly hard.
don't be fooled in thinking theres a time limit- it took me around a year to be completely open with my caregiver, and look at us stronger than ever <3.
do whatever makes you feel comfortable, just make sure to communicate that you're trying so that the other person doesn't feel too lost <3.
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knowning mistakes are going to happen. ⭐
mistakes happen in every dynamic, platonic or not and that's completely okay!
i know if you're anything like me- the moment something bad happens your mind can go into overdrive, thus leading to panic attacks and meltdowns.
but honey bees, without faliure even the greatest scientists wouldn't be able to create their long standing projects. we learn from our mistakes and grow in time. even three years later, me & my caregiver are still learning about each other.
it's okay to mess up sometimes <3.
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it's okay disagree sometimes. 🌙
just like it's okay to make mistakes- it's okay to disagree on opinions sometimes too <3.
remember, you two are two completely different brought up in two completely different households that would have held their own beliefs and standards.
we can disagree, argue points and find the middle ground. it doesn't harm the dynamic at all by dicussing each others sides, who knows- you might just even come up with a more knowledgable solution <3.
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understanding boundaries & asking for help ⭐
understanding boundaries and battling with your guilt for bothering other people might be one of the hardest things you tackle in a dynamic <3.
i know it was in mine.
i would upset muself by thinking my cg didn't care- and yet i wouldn't tell them i was upset because i didn't want to overcross any boundaries & force them do something.
but what we need to realise as littles is that if we do something that bothers our caregivers, or upsets them in anyway- they will tell you. they're not expecting you to pick up on make believe signs to figure them out, they're there to help and do their best too.
& nine times out of ten- when you're worried about upsetting them, they're probably thinking the same about you.
it's okay to be nervous, you'll get through this together i promise <3.
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some things take time. 🌙
building a strong relationship with someone doesn't happen over night, it takes mistakes, laughter, disagreements, learning, postivie re-enforcement.
remember life is a marathon, not a sprint.
people's life journeys go at different paces, you've got this i promise <3
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“adult” clothes are the worst. sizing is so difficult, all women tops are cropped, graphic tees in stores are boring/ugly, and target thinks unhemmed shorts are trending so they have NO hemmed ones and now my shorts have strings coming off them!!!!
but kids clothes are so much better. light up shoes! cute AND cool graphic tees! practical shorts! no need to think or figure out measurements, just put on pants and a unisex tee!
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₊˚⊹♡ fennec foxes ~
good morning lovelies ~ ! i hope you enjoy this fennec kit moodboard, outfit, and several little scenarios !
have any animals you'd like to see? my ask box is open ~
~ biiiug stretch!
~ feelin' fancy . . .
~ lookin' cute to get attention from cg!
~ waiting for cuddles . . .
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₊˚⊹♡ red foxes ~
hello sweet little kits! here's your first post ; short scenarios and some boards ~
remember that you are always valid. i hope that you have a wonderful day and night, kit, you deserve it ♡
~ credit for the binkie is littlespace_boutique on instagram ! ‼️be careful, kits! they are NOT a sfw account or website! ‼️
~ snuggling with the new stuffies that your cg brought you . . .
~ want a snack? have as much as you want!
~ look! it's time for a pup cup!
~ begging for attention . . .
~ snow day! let's go play!
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mr j chilling with a flappy style
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I dude @zack-agere ‘s lil card thingy!! I knows Lynette isn’t a puppy buuuut shhh! Is so cute tho!
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Plushi companis should NEVER retir plush anymor.. so many plush I wan no longer sold..
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🍎 -> Applejack Stimboard !
📦 -> with bread stims !
📭 -> rqd by anon !
📔 -> 🐎 - 🍞 - 🐎 / 🍞 - 🍞 / 🐎 - 🍞 - 🐎
🔓 -> requests closed ! rq info !
DNI -> NSFW/Kink/Bigots/Etc. I'll Block You.
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