one thing i love about self shipping is when people add their own little thing into the mix.. like yeah you and your f/o own a dog!! your house looks so nice !! YOU TWO HAVE A KID? THAT'S SO COOL !!

I love this Alastor, the way I would’ve let him kill me 😭

All tags are in the image.

GUYS

Guys I think I know what happened 7 years ago 👀

[DAZED FROM BLOOD LOSS] hey not to kill the vibe completely but i think i am in love with you

imagine ur defending ur f/o and they go “my partner is so hot”

proship dni >:(

reblog if you wear glasses. too many mutuals don't know they have glasses wearers in their midsts

Anonymously tell me the kind of person you think I'd fall in love with.

how i feel when someone reblogs my stuff with a really really nice tag

hi hi you should consider how your f/o kisses. where do they like to leave them the most? is it a longer one or is it a quick peck? do they just leave one or do they like to leave multiple? are they a little more serious about it or do they laugh and smile against you? are they confident and smooth with it or are they more nervous and shaky? where do they put their hands? on the sides of your face? around your waist? shoulders? do they do them randomly or at specific times, like when one of you is leaving to go to work or in the morning when you both get up?

if they / you don't kiss, what kind of alternatives do you guys prefer? do they just stick to keeping their hands on you as much as they can? do they use their words instead? are the things they say flowery and sickly sweet or more grounded and lax? do they bring you gifts instead? what do they bring you most often? random trinkets that made them think of you? something traditional like flowers? maybe they stick to things that you've mentioned before?

important questions.

as a guy who loves self shipping, its not cringe!! its just the same!!! eat butt!!

A while back I made a twitter post about how self shipping and OC/canon is okay, and engaging in your interests is valid. However I noticed more acceptance toward women/feminine people who self ship, and a lot of disdain toward men or masculine people doing the same thing… I even got comments saying “yeah well if a guy does it, it’s cringe.” 

(This language isn’t meant to exclude nonbinary people by the way, I’m nonbinary and masc-leaning. But there is an obvious difference in response toward men & masculine nonbinary folk, vs women & feminine nonbinary folk when it comes to fandom/things like this.)

Obviously, that’s BS. I just wanna say to all men and masculine folks who selfship or like oc/canon: You’re not “cringey” or “weird” for selfshipping as a man or masc person. Your gender doesn’t automatically make you a creep, it doesn’t make you weird, and it doesn’t make you “cringey.” This especially goes for mlm or nblm. 

Expressing yourself in positive ways is good and you deserve to enjoy yourself. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, nobody else can tell you what to do. Nobody else gets to dictate your self-expression.

Imagine your F/O taking you out dancing-- a passionate, romantic style like tango or swing dancing. If your F/O doesn't know how to dance, the two of you can take lessons together.

This is your sign to write wedding vows for you and your F/O.

Would they be goofy or intimate? How is their vocabulary? Think of all the moments that have led up to this point. Would they cry or smile the whole time?

🫡🫡🫡

Y/N: I don’t know if my f/o’d like me that much…

Me: *SMASHES IN*

Also Me: YOUR FICTIONAL OTHER LOVES YOU—

*Throws your f/o at you*

hey, polyamorous selfshippers!

i wanted to spread a lil positivity because maybe i’m just staring at a wall ignorantly but i don’t see lots of it specifically for poly selfshippers :0

shout out to:

people with ot3s/4s/5s/etc. as their main ship! or ALL of their ships

people who post about a singular f/o at a time and people who post about both of them all the time! you’re not invalid just because you may tend to talk about one f/o more than the other

people who might’ve been unsure about it but now have a polyship!

people who are dating each other and share an f/o or a few as well!

people who ship their f/os in canon but also love them as well!

also a shoutout to selfshippers who have an irl poly relationship even if their partners don’t share their f/os or know about selfshipping or just watch you from the sidelines, and people who may even be considering if they’re polyamorous irl too! you guys are just as valid as people who only have one f/o per universe/timeline or even people who may just have ships with multiple f/os