i’m inattentive 🙋‍♀️

Set your goals high, and don't stop till you get there.

Blythe Baird, from If My Body Could Speak; “Concerns from a hot-boxed jeep”

[Text ID: “How do I stop / carrying everything / that had ever / happened to me?”]

on love as conversation

alice oseman radio silence (via @liriostigre) \ bell hooks

kofi

I am hungry for touch & ashamed to be looked at

— Safia Elhillo, from "Summer," Girls That Never Die

Tackling JavaScript objects ft. new addition to my cacti family 🌵

being alive is like a whole fucking thing dude ive only been here 23 years and can only really remember like 10 of those years at most and yet im literally immobilized by fear and anxiety i have no clue what i want and yet i am mad at myself for not moving fast enough? like towards what? for who? who is even going to hand me a medal for living correctly? like what would happen if i was just content but like no one knew and i told no one. would that still count? i think it would

I had a thought, but unfortunately I had a second thought. They ricocheted off each other and I can’t find either anymore

i can explain-

This is how I feel describing most of my personal favorite characters.

aha

That murderous and spiteful fictional villain would treat me right

i needed to hear this, and you should too.

a freshly cooked meal is best but fast food or a plain cracker is better than nothing. a full skincare routine is great but a splash of water and moisturiser is better than nothing. 8 hours sleep is ideal but 4 or 2 is better than nothing. cleaning the entire room is fantastic but just wiping the mirror or throwing clothes in a basket is better than nothing. a shower is great but a face and arm wash or a wipe is better than nothing. changing your bedding once a week is best but swapping just the pillows or washing only once a month is better than nothing. a 5k run is fabulous but a walk around the block or touching your toes in bed is better than nothing. being your "best self" and thriving is amazing but if you are trying and conserving the energy you have and taking baby steps every day and surviving then that is wonderful too.

i’ll probably expand on this later, but the best ADHD Hack ™ I’ve found/sussed out is: 

bundle habits together, but don’t bundle tasks together.

clean desk to begin the week 🍄

un_____made

please if this isn’t me.

whoever is writing my life has got mad writers block bc wtf am i doing

Can't afford therapist so I just read enemies to lovers trope.

as long as i have my tea everything will be okay <3 (also i am re reading the last thesis draft i sent to my prof before writing again just to make sure everything is clear haha)