"She should have left that abusive relationship while she had the time." If you also happen to be the one who agrees then I am sorry to say that you lack understanding of the complexities of an abusive relationship. Anybody who claims that if they had been in her shoes, they would have handled things differently is living in a self- created illusion and I don't believe a single word they say. When you fall in love with someone, how many of you start preparing for the worst case scenario from day 1? We love someone because we believe in them and when we believe in someone, we don't keep an escape plan ready. The best we can do is maintain a strong support system of family and close friends who, reassuringly, are there for us for the unforeseen dark times but for that to happen, we, when we are in the shoes of family and friends, need to be more supportive and less judgemental of a person who looks towards us for support. But guess what, when we haven't even learnt to not blame or judge the victim of a gruesome murder, can we give any hope to others who can potentially be in an abusive relationship? #StopVictimBlaming for God's sake! https://www.instagram.com/p/ClNrQ1hPviM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Who you are with can turn simple things into special moments. Even if you don't have any of the privileges one can have in this world, the kind of people you allow in your inner circle can be a game-changer for the quality of life you live. Whom you want in your life can potentially bring heaven to your home, and if chosen wrongly, can make you count every intolerable second. It often take the whole life for people to realize they can't buy with all their fortunes what a single, right kind of person can offer them for free. You may choose the wrong career, wrong house or wrong dresses for you but when it comes to the people you hold on to, practice all your wisdom when you pick them. Because your tea can taste sweet without sugar when you are having it with the right one! (PC: Big Panda and Tiny Dragon by James Norbury) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClJXde_vHtq/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

You, me & tea... A single solution to all kinds of worries. (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkwPbs-BDtK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Like I always say... Unplanned moments are the best! (at Brahma Sarovar) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkIN3rYudfA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

What's the plan? – The plan is to not care about having a plan. #LiveUnplanned #KualaLumpur #Malaysia #TataAIALife #TrainingConclave #SelamatDetang #SunwayPutraMall (at Sunway Putra Hotel) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cf8yZgiP8ZJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

If you aren't this silly, you ain't friends from school. Happy birthday @vineshjuglan bro! ❤️ #VinnasBirthday #AnnualRitual #TheTrio #3Musketeers #MeVinnaChanna #CherishTheMoments https://www.instagram.com/p/CeyNbHfvCw_/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#WeekendVibes #SundayVibes #IHatePeople #SavageModeOn (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb5Fm3IPvn6/?utm_medium=tumblr

It's a Sunday and as usual, you want to sit idle whole day. But then you remember the last video you saw before falling asleep last night. Now you are in dilemma. You want to do something productive but interesting. And you know these two don't usually go hand in hand unless... So you skim all the cream from all the milk in the fridge, and turn it into homemade ghee and tell yourself... I learnt a new skill today! Ain't that productive enough for a Sunday? (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZXJNPLvg7Y/?utm_medium=tumblr

Year after year in a row, I am just watching you grow. I knew you'd do just fine, When you brightened our worlds like sunshine. Here's to our little Hulk's 4th birthday bash... Keep doing what you're good at... *SMASH* 👊🏻 #TishuzBirthday #Jan10th (at Sonipat city) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYj_2O4BJVT/?utm_medium=tumblr

Celebrating #NYE with #GajarPak Coz any #celebration is incomplete without #sweets! #SweetTooth #NewYear2022 #BestGift by ❤️ (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYJn6CBPzAi/?utm_medium=tumblr

Coz #Christmas is incomplete without #junkfood! #MerryChristmas #PaneerTikkaSub #KingOfSubs #Tea (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CX6ajYlvtge/?utm_medium=tumblr

There's nothing that a beautiful cup of amazing coffee can't help you get over... This evening, it was the tiredness caused by a day full of household chores. Thanks #JayanthiCoffee! #LoveForCoffee #SouthIndianCoffee #CaffeinFix #CoffeeLover #HotBeverages for #Winter #Evenings ❤️ (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWx9aCQPDEx/?utm_medium=tumblr

#Sector17 #Chandigarh last night. For the night is dark and full of ideas... (Yeah, stole it from GoT and ruined it!) #LoveForNights #TheCityBeautiful #DecorativeLights #BeautifulNight #MeTime #MyHappyPlace (at Sector 17, Chandigarh) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWh9JqAvOXL/?utm_medium=tumblr

Thank you Ezine! #ExpertAuthor #EzineArticles http://ezinearticles.com/expert/Sachin_Sharma/2580620 (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWEIsv8v8gY/?utm_medium=tumblr

The amazingly #polluted #beauty of #Brahma #Sarovar after grand #celebrations of #Diwali! #HinduKhatreSeBaharHai, though #PlanetKhatreMeinHai (at Brahma Sarovar) https://www.instagram.com/p/CV5K0wzPr2m/?utm_medium=tumblr

#Golden #Potties by #Hersheys. And for some weird reason, they call these #kisses. #Chocolate #SweetTooth (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVNSkfrPk7n/?utm_medium=tumblr

This afternoon's quick snack is supported by #FilterCoffee by #TataSonnets! #AmazingAroma #CoffeeLover #OriginalBlendedCoffee #JaggeryFermented #CaffeineFix (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVCsWucvo1r/?utm_medium=tumblr