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In life you meet different people,
Make connection with them,
Touch their hearts in a certain beautiful way,
And then ....
Move on.
Beautiful connections are eternal but not the people you have them with.
T.
#nostalgia#heartbreak#love#space#longing#life#life lessons#philosophy#english literature#english lit student#english lit major#english lit memes#thoughts
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Emotionally healthy people are quitters ✨
Emotionally healthy people are quitters. They make choices that align with their well being. Quitting a relationship, partnership or job that makes you unhappy is a sign of self awareness. If someone stays in something bad for too long, it's not because they're strong, but because they're afraid or have low self esteem. Being emotionally healthy means having awareness, setting boundaries, and knowing when it's time to move on from situations that no longer serve you. It's about prioritizing your mental and emotional health over sticking with something that's causing you harm or making you unhappy.
Emotionally healthy people also tend to have good communication skills. They express their feelings and needs calmly, openly and honestly. They also look for guidance and enlightenment because they understand that seeking help is a sign of strength not weakness.
They make decisions out of self love rather than attachment or fear. When you prioritize loving yourself, you make choices that align with your happiness and growth, rather than staying in situations out of comfort or insecurity.
Recognizing when you have an unhealthy attachment or that your feelings may not be conducive to your well being is important. It allows you to take a step back, evaluate the situation objectively, and make choices that are in line with your best interests.
Sometimes holding on can lead to more pain and struggle than necessary. It's a sign of emotional maturity to recognize when a situation is no longer good for you and to have the strength to let it go.
Things that are genuinely right for you should not cause you harm or emotional pain. Choosing pain is a sign of a lack of self love. Recognizing the need for change, prioritizing self love, and making healthier choices is how you begin to change your life.
Reframe your mindset from “this is hurting me because I love it” to “this is hurting me because I do not love me.”
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Eyes are such an eccentric thing to fathom.
Eye contacts can be so soul nourishing that one can just grumpily complain " I Did not get a fair share of stare into his eyes today"
T.
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The only fair thing life does is, it's unfair to everyone.
T.
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It's about being wanted...
So as a kid I have always felt rejected, unwanted from the people who were supposed to love me and protect me, so I started to do things ,make stuff, like art, drawings, calligraphy just so that I can be appreciated, get a little bit of my parents affection/attention.
Later applied the same notion in making friends, which explains why i felt that my friends- don't see "me", they only see my skill set. Now I realise why, because that is the only thing that I showed them. I never reflected who I was on the inside and tbh there was nothing to see. Only damage goods.
I was absolutely broken, my skill set saved me from becoming a social disaster but also made me just an asset in people's lives. I do good at work because I know how to be useful but I don't know one person who has picked me for who I am, for me, my personality, my essence.
And that is exactly why when my first love rejected me i felt like he rejected my soul...
My mere existence.
It was devastating because it was proof, a real time "history repeating itself" a notation of what my father did to me. I was rejected and it felt like I was worthless.... Again.
That I was not likable if I wasn't useful.
T.
#rejection#heartbeat#love#trauma#childhoodtrauma#heartbreak#affection#daddyissues#mommyissues#generationaltrauma
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Finding a person who loves you and you love them back is so rare. That's why making love is so fucking rare and THAT IS EXACTLY WHY fucking is not !
T.
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Oh what a tragedy it is
When the girl falls in love first.
T.
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If you were to be a mystical creature, what would you be ?
Me? A forest fairy !
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Mourn
I can, on a certain level deal with the love you did not give me...
But I mourn with my heart's deepest depths
I mourn the friendship we've lost
The conversation we don't have anymore
The connection that we lost forever
The fact that I cannot bask myself in your scent anymore
I mourn looking at your beautiful eyes
Your hazel eyes
The one spot where your beard doesn't grow
The beauty spot behind your ear
Your cute nose
Those pucker lips
But I especially mourn the future we could've had... the possibilities you let die
I mourn what could have been "us"
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There is no purpose to my life if I don't find a bone crushing connection with someone.
-T.
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All I wanna do is be so close to you that I breathe your breaths.
-T.
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People who don't fit in the beauty standards of society have a life 2x tougher than the people who do.
-T.
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Funny how .....
Perception can be so deceiving!
The most beautiful eyes can only see the ugliest things.
-T.
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To hell with how fake the Little sunshine of companionship felt after a huge abyss of loneliness.
Leonard Cohen to Marianne Ihlen (edited).
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