a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.
the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.
the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.
hello hello! can you do a userbox that says "this system/user have cotard's syndrome"?
"This system has cotard's syndrome."
[image id: a faded light green userbox with a brown outline. on the right is the text written above. on the left is the cotard's syndrome awareness flag. the flag has 5 stripes, with the top and bottom stripes being bigger than the three in the middle. the colors from top to bottom are: faded light green, murky light green, dark brown, muted brown, light brown. :end image id]
you guys are weird about fictives with problematic sources. you guys are weird about fictives with no source separation. you guys are weird about fictives with complete source separation. you guys are weird about fictives with partial source separation. you guys are weird about fictives who’s source is a comfort for them and their system. you guys are weird about fictives. you guys are weird
I'm sure you've been asked this before, but how are you about endos?
I have not been asked this before and honestly I was going to stay quiet about this topic but I have been asked so I will answer.
I am Endo-Neutral. I simply do not care. You say your plural? Cool, I dont care how it happened. Someone who is plural is just plural to me. I do not bother with labels like endogenic or traumagenic or whatevergenic. I only use those labels as tags for reach.
I am not personally an endo, and I do not care if pro endos or anti endos interact with me. To be honest I think the discorse is dumb and pointless. To continue it is a waste of time.
i am once again asking people i know to do actual research on OCD and what it is b/c i saw someone equating POCD to actual predatory shit recently and i think im going to break out of my enclosure . OCD is not about “subconscious desires” it’s about fear. fears, aversions and repulsions, both subconscious and conscious.
OCD forces you to obsess over things that make you anxious, scared, uncomfortable, or disgusted. possibilities (about yourself, your future, your loved ones and their futures, etc) that would give you nightmares if you considered them for too long.
literally the second you start thinking OCD may be about “subconscious desires” you have lost. you made an immediate left turn when you were supposed to make a right and now you’re on a completely different road.
this applies to all forms of OCD by the way, even the most “disgusting”, taboo or “disturbing”. whichever form of OCD you’re thinking may be an exception to this rule, is not an exception. b/c there is none
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Chuck Jones is the best counterexample to “the curtains are just blue” because you would not believe the amount of thought and art theory he put into his silly little cartoons
Now, I’m not saying romantic relationships are inferior, or that they’re useless, or that you being in one or that you shipping some characters romantically is Bad or something off the walls like that. What I’m saying is that two people (or characters, since we’re talking shipping here) can be just as devoted to each other, love each other just as deeply, mean just as much to each other while being in a platonic relationship. The end point of caring about someone doesn’t have to be romance.
Friendship isn’t a stepping stone between strangers and romantic partners, it’s a different path. And you can follow that path as deep into the wood as a romantic one if you want, and neither is inferior to the other, they just have different views.