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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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doesn’t pertain to me but if it helps someone else...
getting out of an abusive household - a household where you don’t feel safe - is difficult as all hell. you can’t do it at once, can’t pack a day’s bag in half an hour and leave. trust me, i’ve tried, you gotta plan in little steps
break belongings down into chunks. clothes, toiletries, valuables, essentials, others. whatever you absolutely need. figure out how to pack a bag to take
you need housing or other shelter. organise with friends and safe family, look up safe shelters, youth groups etc. too
look up transport fares. can you catch the bus? can you afford a travel card? if you’re like me and you have a school opal/other card (free travel on mondays to fridays), it’s your greatest asset. even $10 on an adult card gets you a ride or two somewhere
make a plan. accrue evidence, bide your time, whatever. keeping your head down is the best way to go about it; you want to be stealthy. be patient. hold onto your determination
have multiple options up your sleeve. if you only have one plan that hinges on a specific set of circumstances, you’re fucked. if something falls through, don’t get hung up on it. as long as there’s a sliver of hope, there’s a way. find another way. if there’s only one option, study it as much as possible, run it through your mind; if you can practice it, practice it (but remember to be stealthy). you want the final result to be as smooth as possible
in everything: organisation is key. make checklists. wherever you need to, break it into little chunks. smaller chunks are easier to run through your mind and link together later. that’s a tip from your friendly autistic pal
what kind of bag do you have? I’ve got the luxury of a once-used 70L hiking pack so I can pack heaps of stuff, but get the best bag you have. someone close to me has just a school backpack, and they can fit two changes of clothes and a few other necessities. I’d imagine it’s more likely you’ll have a backpack, so learn how to pack your bag best
income is super important; can you apply for welfare? are you on welfare? can you keep up a job, or get money from somewhere else?
hrgjgh I’m out of spoons, I can’t think of anything else. the main point I”m trying to get across is that time is most important; practice practice practice, get used to minor independence things, contact as many people as you trust to help, and keep your head down, and bide your time. you want to leave as smoothly as possible. don’t have a half-plan that hinges on maybes - of course sometimes it can’t be helped but as much as you can make sure you have a solid plan of action with safety nets
does anyone want to add anything???
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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I’m the ‘Merican memeroo emmeroo alright
hey guys you’re welcome to add something to my word wall of chaos 
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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have you and those clowns been seen in the same room?
nobody’s free from suspicion
there have been two clown sightings in new zealand guys i can’t believe this shit has spread this far 
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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I’m sorry but I can’t BECAUSE DO YOU SEE HOW PERFECT THIS IS OKAY I CAN’T EVEN THIS IS 
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Finished commission of Kaz Brekker from SIX OF CROWS by @lbardugo ! So eager for CROOKED KINGDOM!
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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Date rich boys. Date crippled boys. Date a boy who will carve out the eyeballs of anyone who hurt you and buy you a pirate ship so you can hunt down your enemies together. Date Kaz Brekker.
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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it's basically part of us
Friend: Hey, are you done with Crooked Kingdom?
Me: Physically? Yes.
Me: Emotionally? *stares off into distance* NEVER
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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@tem-y dude, they even love waffles. 
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The perfect costume for any of the Dregs found at your local Target
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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LEIGH YOU ARE MORE TRASH THAN WE ARE
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leigh bardugo snuck hamilton references into crooked kingdom, what a time to be alive
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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I think this is when Leigh Bardugo giggled and patted herself on the back bc I would
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A+ character development
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this is iconic
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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And a million sweater kink fanfics were born
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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"I would come for you... I would come for you. And if I couldn't walk, I'd crawl to you, and no matter how broken we were, we'd fight our way out together - knives drawn, pistols blazing. Because that's what we do. We never stop fighting."
P. 184, Crooked Kingdom
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Curse you Leigh Bardugo and all your gremlins
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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"You lay a finger on me and Kaz Brekker will cut the baby from your pretty wife's stomach and hang its body from a balcony."
Inej, Crooked Kingdom
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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Legendary
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THIS IS THE CONTENT I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR
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margaret-rasanore · 8 years
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Once an attractive guy tripped over me on a roller skating rink?
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Trump vs. Hillary right now.
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