Travel and tell no one. Live a true love story and tell no one. Live happily and tell no one. People ruin beautiful things.

Khalil Gibran

Thoughtless

Women love thoughtful men. Being thoughtful is the least thing a man can do to show his love and appreciation to his life partner. People think that after a marriage these things disappear, and should not be a requirement since everyone is so occupied with their work and family lives. A small thank you gesture by buying flowers or chocolate or whatever your significant other loves, could be the most precious gift you could buy for them. It could make their horrible day if they are going through something bad, or it could be the light of their best day. Women tend to lose interest over time if her significant other is not thoughtful and is not going out of their way from time to time to appreciate them! Especially, when a man has a hardworking and supportive woman by his side and raising a beautiful family, she could be tired and drained mentally, physically and emotionally from her surroundings and the pressure of work and life isn’t making it any easer for them. A little bouquet of flowers could be the best thing she would receive, an act of kindness towards her.. it’s the little things that matter. Some men relate everything to money and big money, when they don’t realize that a small thing could mean the world to their women. So dear men do not ruin your relationships just because you are “busy with life” because life goes on, but you may never find someone to love you the way your significant other does🙏

A New Mama

Being a mom is the greatest gift from God, but it’s definitely LOTS of work. People tell you so many things, but trust me EVERY NEWBORN IS DIFFERENT! Some sleep throughout the night (mine doesn’t, she has her own party that she throws every night😄) some babies are okay around other people (mine is super specific on who she wants to be around with, BTW she is only 4 months!!!!!) When my baby was a newborn, she would never sleep at night and people say oh she will get better after the 40th day (that’s an arab thing😅) BUT SHE DIDN’T. It took her a bit, but I am thankful for everything that she is right now. Don’t let people tell you what to do! You know your baby more than everyone else, just because your aunt’s second cousin’s daughter did something and worked for her baby, doesn’t mean it will work on your baby! But people will still interfere on how you feed your baby, change your baby, what your baby should watch or wear! Oh the funniest is, i am an Arab! So, when my daughter was born, she was Jaundice, my dad and in laws insisted on putting a yellow amber stone attached on her bassinet, they said it will pull the yellow out of her skin😅😅😅😅 YUP THEY MADE ME DO THAT! (I did it out of respect don’t ever think i believe in that). Life with a baby is so stressful and requires so much work. The times that i felt that i am going to breakdown and that I couldn’t do it anymore are countless, but it’s so important to have support from your significant other or any close person to help you get up on your feet and do it again!! Also PRAYERS.. PRAY PRAY AND PRAY. God help you and gives you strength that you never thought that you will have but he does. Always remember GOD IS SO GREAT.