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Hello, I was looking at your dni and I was curious as to why dsmp isn’t on it?, I don’t hate dsmp it’s just that you have things on your dni that people pair with dsmp
honestly idk, im thinking of adding dream supporters specifically tho because. yikes
it’s just there’s so many content creators in dsmp and i doubt that all of them are dni worthy? so to add any and all dsmp supporters to my dni is like. idk
hi! may I ask how the word s*mp is something that only black people can say? I’m a bit confused
Well I may not be the most qualified to explain (as a white person) but I’ll do my best!
It’s part of AAVE (African American vernacular English) which means it’s specific to everyday language the Black community uses. And the way a lot of people use it is actually a bit inaccurate to its original definition, a definition which is not all that great to begin with being quite misogynistic, and has been appropriated for use as a meme
This happens with a lot of AAVE terms and phrases, white people taking terms or even just sentence structure to add humor to something as if speaking the way a Black person might speak is the ultimate form of humor, and not understanding how that might be considered offensive
When nonBlack people use AAVE as a meme or to be funny, it’s considered appropriation and unintentionally saying that the way Black people speak is inherently funny and “memeable”, which is… not the best look :/
Here are a couple sources on why the word needs to be left in the past if you prefer something more official
If anyone has more sources, feel free to link them in the notes! I can’t find some of the other ones we’ve read and I know there are more
The word makes us uncomfortable anyway, so we try to avoid interaction with the term in general
I hope this makes sense! Any constructive criticism on my wording is welcome, I just ask that it’s given in a respectful way (we’ve received “constructive” criticism in rather destructive forms in the past and I’d like to avoid that :/)
Hi, Rosie is typing this, but the host is sasha! He goes by a lot of names though, any and all pronouns!
We don’t use this blog a lot, but if you wanna interact with us the blog we use most often is @catboygirlboss! check the pinned post there for our list of sideblogs!!!
Instead of celebrating the 4th of July how about u directly support “Am*rica’s” Indigenous ppl?
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what triggers should i avoid [for certain alters or the host]?
anything noninvasive that pertains to our system
questions we are NOT willing to answer
how did you get DID/OSDD? [NEVER ask a system this]
how can i tell when someone else is fronting?
can you get [this alter] to front instead?
anything either easily googleable or plain rude
every system has their own limits on what they will or will not talk about. if you want to avoid upsetting a system, the number one thing to ask is “what are you comfortable and/or uncomfortable with talking about?”
Hey! pantton-sandacers again! I was wondering if y'all had gotten the chance to take measurements yet?
Ahh sorry, still haven’t yet cos I completely forgot!! I’ve been so busy with work and now I’m probably gonna find a new job (current management is Garbage)
I dont have time now cos I have to leave in like ten minutes, and I get home super late today, but if I remember after work tomorrow, I will take measurements and see if either of the costumes fit!! Fingers crossed that my brain will cooperate with me on this one ;^^