discipline > motivation

you can't keep waiting for the "motivation to hit you", you cant keep saving and liking post after post without actually APPLYING. there's no better time than NOW because you only experience the NOW.

it doesn't matter who you were a year ago or who you were yesterday. it doesn't even matter who you were a couple of minutes ago. it doesn't matter if you've been having a horrible day and letting your emotions out and overthinking about doubt after doubt. all that matters is who you are now. who are you choosing to be right now? don't bottle anything up, cry and scream when you need to. but always remember to pick yourself up afterwards. remember that you are in control. detach from the outer world, go within and give yourself relief. your desires are promised. your fulfillment is promised. but nobody is ever gonna be able to do it for you but YOURSELF.

it's okay to not be in your desired state 24/7 and it's important to recognize and remember that fact. you will ALWAYS have your desires, no matter what. i promise your imagination isn't going anywhere lovelies

I don’t have much time between being a full time mom, working and trying to keep up with my hobbies and because of that I’m going to keep in mind your time the same way I do mine.

With that I won’t be making post that are 5+ minutes to read (no hate against Long post) but as for right now I don’t have the uninterrupted time with a toddler to make longer post (hopefully some day).

Okay to my topic today… mom friends

As I became a mom I noticed most of my friends become distant, I’ve heard about that happening to new parents but I never imagined it would happen to me.. well it did and I was surprised honestly because we had been friends for years, like best friends.

So after my son came I didn’t really have anyone to lean on besides my partner and family and as much as I love them I really needed that friend that wasn’t obligated to stay by my side but rather chose to.. it was hard I tried finding mommy groups, going into coffee shops, even trying too reconnect with old friends. I haven’t had much luck even to this day but during that whole process I realized a lot about myself and my own interests/hobbies etc, I’ve really learned to love myself and be my own friend because those “friends” that left me weren’t really my friend if they could just leave my life because they were inconvenienced by my child.

I guess what I’m trying to say it instead of focusing on finding that friend right away focus on being your own best friend and then find people with kids! Because your kids can have play dates and you and your friends can sit back and enjoy each others company.

Hello world, it’s me.. my first ever blog? I’m not expecting to blow up and become some social media influencer though that would be cool.

I’m really here to share my experience of becoming a mother at a young age and how it’s affected me, my relationships with others and what I’ve learned along the way.

I feel every generation goes through the talk with their parents about how they raised you and how you should implement it with your own kids, sometimes yes constructive criticism is helpful but other times it can feel like they want to parent for you.

I’ve been through it, and more.

Once again Im here to talk about my experience, what Ive learned, what I’m still learning, and the best advice I can give new/young moms.

I hope you stay for the ride, this page is going to be just like my life at the moment (very unorganized).

Best wishes.