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becomes sleepytired. is immediately consumed by sweet visions of cuddling someone 2 sleep
#shrimp thoughts#a dog. a guy. whomstever. alas! there is but a carrot#(utmost apologies to my carrot she's lovely i adore her and she's a splendid sleeping partner)
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Heartbreaking: This person is making great points but they're being a huge fucking asshole about it so you can't reblog any of it
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Josh, mix (2 y/o), 31st & Broadway, New York, NY • “I was visiting family in Kentucky, and he was a neighborhood stray. He was very playful, and my niece was like, he’s so cute, and I said he was joshin’ around. He sighs a lot, like a person. He has tons of energy – we’re on a five mile walk now, we got two miles this morning, and he’s getting two miles tonight. He’s very caring – the moment you walk in, if you had a long day, he’ll come and see if you’re okay and stay with you.”
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controversial but if you are going to give that man a happy trail, might as well give him some chest hair. some armpit hair. arm hair. leg hair
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A slowly collapsing prairie home.
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#either ouran or lucky star...?#i need a meme tag#we're counting those that we watched in more or less full rsther than catching stray episodes here or there right
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ngl it feels kinda fun that the thing i'm kindasortanotreallybut bonding over with other atinys is that the photobooks have been shall we say Less Than Satisfactory for a good while. like god! i thought i was the only one!! wahoo!
#shrimp thoughts#i should try buying the blue ver of fever3 to see if the photos are this fucking hq in print as well#PORES FACIAL HAIR N O S E HAIR these were a goddamn FEAST and in the recent ones? they're starving us#'i don't listen to concept photos when the album comes out' skill issue&you need better standards. if i pay for an album i BETTER be able t#imagine the exact texture of the guy's cheek under my tongue when i look at his photo. anything less is disrespectful both to me as a fan#AND the guys as people with yknow bodies and faces made of skin hair muscles bones and all that jazz and not PORCELAIN
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I swear he was much more skilful at this yesterday but this is far more entertaining
To quote the poem by @robotsfromouterspace
Leg so short
Short short leg
Leg so short he roll like eg
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yeah this does read as a 2am post yea
#shrimp thoughts#'but 2am is like 7pm for normal people' NOT ANYMORE!!! NOT ANYMORE now i go to sleep after midnight like a good little lad!!!#gwah i went roomstuff shopping today and reader sleeping at my grandma's might have fucked up my perception of mattress hardness#all the medium and some hard mattresses felt too soft for me. eventually i just decided on a hard one#also i got warm yellow bedsheets and a pillow cover and a rattan chair for a Cozy Reading Nook and a nice bookcase with glass doors#half of the furniture in my room will be white and half will be brown/dark brown. but similarly half of my walls is white and half is teal#in this room we celebrate nonsense. and mens tits ?
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Trying to figure out if you’re ace or aro can be so much harder than other sexualities because it’s like, trying to find the absence of something. Imagine you’re at a pond and you want to know if there are any turtles, or fish. Say you find a turtle and you’re like “great! Now I know there are turtles.” Or a fish, now you know for sure there are fish. Or you find both, and now you know for a fact there are both turtles and fish in the pond.
But like, if you don’t find any turtles it might be that there are no turtles or maybe you’re just really shitty at looking for turtles and maybe you THINK you saw a turtle over there or maybe it was just a stick. Maybe there are only a few turtles. Maybe you need to do something special to find the turtles. Maybe a bunch of these rocks are actually turtles but you couldn’t tell them apart. Maybe there are no turtles. You have no idea. Meanwhile some people are saying “Oh there have to be turtles! You’ll find them eventually ;)” or “How many turtles have you found in your pond?” or “Try planting some vegetables at the shore to attract the turtles.” Or “Oh no! What disaster happened to your pond that there are no turtles?” And you’re just standing there wet with an empty net and a tired expression.
But whatever because whether there are turtles or fish or not your pond’s ecology works just fine without them because that’s what eco-communities do they form a system around what they have. You aren’t missing anything if you don’t have turtles you just have a pond system without turtles. If someone tried to change you by pouring a bunch of turtles into your pond it would probably fuck something up.
So you don’t have to be entirely sure. You don’t have to search every inch of the damn pond before you can decide there are probably no turtles. If you want to take the aro or ace label because you think it fits go for it. And if you do find your turtles you can rename the pond. That’s fine.
#and sometimes you live far away from the pond and youre scared of water so you dont really have any occasions to check for turtles or fish#and when you think about them in theory they sound really great! but obviously theyre your imaginary animals. so what do you really know#and you feel sooooooo baaaaaaaad about having no fishturtle experiences sooooooo goddamn baaaaaad#brain life
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
#a very good post#but you DO gotta find a person who's willing to change with/for you instead of like. 'no you change because i'm doing everything right'
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I've been thinking for a few days about how Jiang Cheng and Jin Guangyao both recognize the limits of their own power. And like. A lot of people don't like that. They expect Heroes(tm) to push past their limits and do the impossible, like Wei Wuxian. But they can't do that.
#i will forever and always have love&compassion for characters who don't self-destruct heroically but rather stop and have limits#they're not willing to break. for reasons such as 'i dont want to die' or 'if i die all the people im responsible for will be left alone'#mwah.#jiang cheng#jin guangyao#mdzs
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Enough about characters loosing weight as a sign of happiness. Characters gaining weight is where it’s at ♥️
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The reason why people on tumblr over-use the concept of “trigger” rather than just “thing I don’t like” or “thing that makes me angry” or “thing that makes me sad” is that, literally, in the political/fandom part of tumblr culture are required to establish your right not to read a thing, and you only have rights if you can establish that you’re on the bad end of an axis of oppression. Hence, co-opting the language of mental illness: trigger.
i.e. trigger warning culture is a rational response to an environment in which media consumption is mandatory. It’s not hypersensitivity so much as the only way to function.
There is a secondary thing, which is, here we are all oppressed, which ties into the feeling that you only have rights if you can establish that you’re at the bad end of an axis of oppression, but I’m not sure I can totally articulate that thing.
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#SO MUCH STUFF???? and the boxes look thick... im glad were bsck to boxes but WHY SO THICK#ateez#also its weird. ateez have never had such fancy looking albums. something's wrong. whats going on. i'm anxious#kpop
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i can only Assume that when someone asks two characters if they're dating (when they're friends instead) and they go what? no, EWWW, how can you even THINK that, it's GROSS, they mean that they see each other as almost siblings (and incest is yucky!!! gotta make this known even if no one asked), and/or that they seen each other's worst moments and Aren't Into That. but however i can't help but feel like this is a very exaggerated response that isn't even half as funny as people think it is, and also, that it should be used between the actual future couple. for the flavour
as in, usually X/Y friends to lovers fics, you won't have X or Y saying that. maybe X and their friend Z, who supports X/Y wholeheartedly and can't wait for them to get together. but imagine if you will: someone you're miserably in love with making dramatic puking noises at the mere suggestion of dating you ^_^
#shrimp thoughts#can you guess i hate this trope no you can't i'm being subtlety incarnate#there's a specific narrow flavour of american college au settings that's just... those yknow. funny things like texts from last night or#hilaaaaarious meme conversations and they're not even adjusted for the characters' personalities they're ver-ba-tim#who cares that X is a calm gentle and shy person they ARE going to call their friends 'dumb bitch' as a term of endearment! etc#it is in a way a fascinating aspect of fanfiction in which the writer/reader isn't interested in seeing X and Y in a particular setting#but rather: a particular setting-shaped frame forced onto X and Y. if you want a ruthless domineering ceo and a sweet innocent maid#then you WILL get them even if neither X nor Y are anywhere close to filling those roles
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