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itisntreallll · 5 months
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@radfem-on-toast, the account who made this post is clearly a troll blog by a TRA, trying to portray radfems as extreme homophobes. the account is exactly a week old, has no other original posts, no original tags or additions on any of the reblogs they made, only tags automatically added to queued posts. over half their reblogs have been queued, it really looks like they just went into radfem tags and randomly reblogged/put into queue whatever posts they could find to try and make the account look believable. it's clearly a troll, and a low effort one at that, please don't fall for it.
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screenshots as proof, i used Tumblr Original Post Finder to view how many original posts this account made
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69 out of 105 of their reblogs were queued. no tags on any reblogs other than these (the xkit extension allows you to automatically tag queued posts). not a lot of effort went into making this account look believable
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proof that the account didn't exist before december 2023
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first reblog, exactly one week ago
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even the blog description looks like a radfem OC someone made up. from the UK (TERF island, where else), witch icon ("subtle" allusion to JKR), 'unapologetically female' (said twice, they were really proud of coming up with that one). come on now
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i mean even the post itself is clearly written to be as obviously bigoted, wrong, and incendiary as possible. it's not something this person actually believes in, they just made a homophobic terf feminazi strawman in their head and tried to troll people with it. they might even have screenshotted it and posted it somewhere as "proof" that radfems are all giant homophobes. while some radfems do have bigoted, homophobic views and deserve to be called out on those, let's not fall for such an obvious, low effort troll.
i know immediate anger and disgust is a common first response to seeing extremely bigoted and disgusting takes like this one, but in this case it's SO obviously a troll, please don't give them any more attention, even to argue with them. the goal of their blog is to try and portray radfems as homophobes, to divide the radfem community, and to enrage people, don't give them what they want. don't waste your breath on someone clearly acting in bad faith.
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itisntreallll · 5 months
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I’m not sure why nobody’s talking about this, but I’m going to say it: sex between men is damaging in the same ways BDSM and autogynephilia are. And now don’t come at me with your qu**r bullshit, hear me out.
We all know men just think with their dicks, right? And gay men are no exception to this, not by any fucking means. Grindr (the gay “dating” app, if you’re lucky enough not to know) literally has an option for “sex right now” in the “I’m looking for friends/a relationship etc.” column.
When a man penetrates another man, that is an act that normalises abuse much like BDSM. It’s often painful to the receptive partner, and a huge part of the pleasure for the penetrative partner is in relishing in that pain. Normalising practices like this leads to stuff like more than 25% of gay men experiencing abuse from their partner (Source, from a “pro-lgbtqia+” source if you have any doubts: https://dcvlp.org/domestic-violence-peaks-more-than-ever-for-the-lgbtqia-community/).
This does not mean that the receptive partner is blameless. Arguably, their paraphilia is even worse. Think about it: how many men do you know that would let, let alone say they enjoy despite the obvious pain, another man penetrating them? It is clearly a form of autogynephilic paraphilia. Just like TIMs get off on assuming the role of a caricature of a woman during sex, receptive partners in gay sex get off on the degradation of penetration, of being made to assume the role of a female caricature subjugated to a man.
Women should not be afraid to call this out! If you’re willing to call out the excesses of BDSM and autogynephilia, you shouldn’t be silent on the way gay sex perpetuates patriarchal values like domestic abuse and the degradation of women.
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itisntreallll · 5 months
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PSA
@radfem-on-toast, the account who made this post is clearly a troll blog by a TRA, trying to portray radfems as extreme homophobes. the account is exactly a week old, has no other original posts, no original tags or additions on any of the reblogs they made, only tags automatically added to queued posts. over half their reblogs have been queued, it really looks like they just went into radfem tags and randomly reblogged/put into queue whatever posts they could find to try and make the account look believable. it's clearly a troll, and a low effort one at that, please don't fall for it.
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screenshots as proof, i used Tumblr Original Post Finder to view how many original posts this account made
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69 out of 105 of their reblogs were queued. no tags on any reblogs other than these (the xkit extension allows you to automatically tag queued posts). not a lot of effort went into making this account look believable
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proof that the account didn't exist before december 2023
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first reblog, exactly one week ago
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even the blog description looks like a radfem OC someone made up. from the UK (TERF island, where else), witch icon ("subtle" allusion to JKR), 'unapologetically female' (said twice, they were really proud of coming up with that one). come on now
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i mean even the post itself is clearly written to be as obviously bigoted, wrong, and incendiary as possible. it's not something this person actually believes in, they just made a homophobic terf feminazi strawman in their head and tried to troll people with it. they might even have screenshotted it and posted it somewhere as "proof" that radfems are all giant homophobes. while some radfems do have bigoted, homophobic views and deserve to be called out on those, let's not fall for such an obvious, low effort troll.
i know immediate anger and disgust is a common first response to seeing extremely bigoted and disgusting takes like this one, but in this case it's SO obviously a troll, please don't give them any more attention, even to argue with them. the goal of their blog is to try and portray radfems as homophobes, to divide the radfem community, and to enrage people, don't give them what they want. don't waste your breath on someone clearly acting in bad faith.
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