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Hey 😊 I am male, 22 years old, and I totally love your blog. I've been interested for make-up, fashion, nails etc. for the past 3 or 4 years, but I didn't dare to try it out myself yet, like putting on make-up, checking for cute or beautiful outfits etc. Do You have some advice how to start exploring the feminine side of mine?

Hiii sorry for the late response but I hope you’re doing well. And thank you so much for loving and enjoying my account ❤️. My advice to you would be to try the things that you enjoy. You can start exploring by trying a particular nail color that you like or simple makeup looks like eyeliner, eyeshadow or whatever you prefer. In terms of clothing, start with something that you are comfortable in. Like blouses or again anything that you like the most or prefer the most. And finally enjoy what you wear and what you do. I love that you want to embrace this side of yours and tbh you can start however you want to. As long as you’re comfortable and happy that’s all that matters. Embrace who you are and what you like. Try things out and by doing that you’ll know what you like the most in terms of makeup looks, nail colors, clothing and so on. I hope you have fun!!

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Omg...so there’s this guy that I used to talk to on and off for last year, and then like 2 months ago we were talking and I sent him nudes and now we matched on bumble and I messaged him bc girls have to first saying “hii and he goes “hi” and I was like “what’s up” and he goes add me on Snapchat but didn’t tell me what it was and I then I responded saying “you can add me” but didn’t say mine and he goes “no I’m ok” and I was like “?” “What’s your Snapchat” and he hasn’t responded yet. I deleted him like a month ago bc he kept asking for nudes, was inconsistent and said he wanted to hangout but never asked...do you think he remembers me? Like?! Why would he say “no I’m ok” when he asked for my Snapchat to begin with. I also looked and he still has me as a friend though. I just don’t understand. He’s also liking me on multiple others😆. Anyway I don’t know if I should be like remember me or not...

Hi love firstly sorry for the long wait I know this was overdue. Secondly no don’t even message him or ask him if he remembers because the fact that he’s liking you on others proves that he remembers you. To be honest this just looks like he only wanted nudes from you and nothing else because that’s all he asked for and he never asked to hangout only mentioned it. Don’t give him the time of day, it’s better if you forget about him because guys like that are not worth it he will most likely waste your time. You deserve better and you will get better. Don’t worry about him. I hope this helps 💕

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Hey, I really love your advices and I’ve been really needing one recently.. so what do I do when boys that I have no interest in send me messages?? I mean, I just got over a breakup and I’ve been focusing more on myself lately (my last relationship really did mess me up a bit) and now I feel kinda rude not responding those guys reaching for my dms .. But then once I responded one - just for the sake of being polite - and trust me, this guy was just so mad when I said I couldn’t talk cause it was a bad time, I honestly just wished I hadn’t responded him at all, he just made me feel worse about myself (like it was even my obligation to even respond him 🙄) and so I want to know ... what should I do ?? Do I keep responding those guys that have like, 0% chances or do I keep being polite and just deal with them ? (I don’t want them keeping false hopes) ???

Hi love I’m very sorry for responding so late but to answer your question, I would say to NOT respond to those guys. Always remember that you are not obligated to them and you don’t have to answer them because it’s your choice at the end of the day. You are focusing on you and that is more important than responding to men who don’t understand. Also you’re not giving them false hopes because you did say that it was a bad time atm and they didn’t understand so my advice is to keep focusing on you and don’t respond to those men because you feel bad or because of being polite because they need to understand that you just got out of a relationship and you are NOT obligated to them. Also thank you for saying that you love my advice I hope this helps 💕💕

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Everyone loves black features and dislikes black people. white people want big lips a big butt etc. and reject black people and it’s sick

I absolutely agree! They bring down black women and men with these features and then get those stuff done to them and people around them say it’s beautiful and it then becomes society’s beauty standards but they will never acknowledge these features as beautiful on black people and I’m sick of it! White people especially celebrities profit of these things and are hyped up for these features but the ones who has it naturally is considered disgusting and ugly 🙄 I’m sick of white people who profit out of black people and other poc cultures and features tbh

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Hey, I follow you. I've been struggling with sticking to a workout routine and diet, my diet is the worst though. I eat a lot and because of it most of my clothes don't fit any more and I feel insecure. Could you give me advice on sticking with a diet and workout regimine?

Hi love first of all thank you so much for your support ❤️ also I completely understand what you mean because I also had some struggles in the past when it came to weight loss and what diet I should do but honestly there is no good diet. Keto diets, cutting carbs and sugar and all those things that celebrities and sites tell you are not true and even if you do see results by doing those things, it does not last long. And that is because you are stripping your muscles instead of losing long term fat. So my advice and the correct way to lose fat effectively and long term is that you have to be in a calorie deficit. This means that you burn more than you consume. So there are sites in which you can check how much calories you need to cut in order to lose one to two pounds per week. I’ll add a link for you to check. So you’re gonna put your current weight, height, gender, age and so on in the site I added. Then when it is calculated, you’ll see maintenance calories which is how much calories you need to consume per day to keep your current weight and then you’ll see calories to consume to lose weight and that is the one you want to look at. Also if you can’t find a good workout my best option is walking. Try walking for at least 45 mins to and hour everyday. Even if it’s walking all around your house anywhere is fine. Walking burns a lot of calories. Also strength train 2-3 times per week to prevent muscle loss. You can look up strength training exercises online. This is needed to increase metabolism and it also makes the fat burning results faster. Switch up your routine every three weeks by walking longer and increasing your reps in strength training to prevent a weight loss plateau. Now when it comes to your eating habits, you can still eat the things you like but only moderately. So check your calories before consuming to make sure that it is on the deficit that you’re supposed to be in to lose weight. Check the calories of what you eat in the packaging or you can download this app call MyFitnessPal and type in the food you are consuming to see the amount of calories that particular food you’re eating has. So if you need to eat 1500 calories per day to lose weight then make sure what you’re eating throughout the day is within that deficit. Also just a friendly reminder: don’t be insecure, just know that you’re beautiful just the way you are and if you want to look or feel a particular way then that’s fine and if you want to make a change to your body as well that is also fine ❤️ I wish you all the best in your weight loss journey and if you have anymore questions you can always message ❤️ Also here is the site to calculate your calories https://www.freedieting.com/calorie-calculator

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