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Before bed it’s diapers. I’m dry for now. The three glasses of water I had before bed might have something to say later😀. I think i look kinda cute in these pics. Do you agree?
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Sharing a pic of my fav stuffie I like to sleep with.
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Reblogging this to bookmark it. Great tutorial
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Perfect progression.
Increasing Diaper Discipline Involvement
Many partners new to Diaper Discipline struggle to increase their involvement, the below list is designed to provide ideas and inspiration for you to implement in daily life.
You don't need to do all of these every day but try incorporating 2-4 elements a day and work up in terms of frequency and progressing from Beginner items to Intermediate & Advanced.
Beginner
Make an effort to talk about their diapers. Casually ask things like:
“How’s your diaper holding up?”
“Your waistband is showing baby”
“Do you need to change?”
“Those jeans hide your diaper well”
“These diapers look cute on you”
“Do you need to order more diapers soon?”
Let them know you expect them to use their diaper, by saying things like:
- “This diaper should hold all of your wee’s and poops” when changing them into a fresh diaper
- “Remember you’re not allowed to use the toilet today”
- “Did you wet your diaper like a good boy/girl?”
- “Good boy/girl for messing your diaper.“
- “Did you poop today or do you need something to help tonight?”
Make an effort to interact with their diaper. Squeeze it, pat/smack their bottom when padded, rub the front of it to get them excited, and when hugging place a hand on their diapered bum, etc.
Implement simple Baby elements:
- Call them your baby boy/girl, etc
- Dress them in baby-style (AB) clothes at night
- Give them a bedtime drink in a sippy cup or baby bottle
- Have them use a adult pacifier at night
Each morning check their diaper, this can be done in bed by just squeezing the front of it.
It will likely be wet so comment on that by saying something like “I’m glad you had a diaper on or you’d have wet the bed” or “You really are turning into a bedwetter aren’t you”
After their morning shower either change them into a fresh diaper if you’re up, or if you're still in bed, get them to come over and drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing one.
Each evening lay out a thick diaper and ABDL bedtime clothing and tell them to go get ready for bed. This should be a few hours before you actually go to bed.
Before leaving the house make them drop their trousers / lift skirt so you can check they're wearing a diaper. For day trips, also ask them if they've got their diaper bag packed.
Once or twice a week force them to mess themselves by giving them either 2x Ducolax tablets or a suppository which they must take/insert.
When not wearing diapers, make them wear pull-ups, training pants, girly underwear (if male), or childish patterned pants.
When at home and not working dress them in embarrassing clothing, good options include:
- No bottoms / exposed diapers
- ABDL onesie / romper
- A skirt (male or female)
- ABDL shortalls or dress
- Childish 2-piece PJs
- Footed sleeper
Experiment with light bondage:
- Add a locking diaper cover over their diapers
- Restrain them to a bed for 2 hours after making them insert a suppository
- Chain them to their desk using locking ankle cuffs or diaper cover
- Use other locking clothing to prevent diaper access (e.g. rear zipping footed sleepers)
Intermediate
In public, ask them about their diaper or do a subtle diaper check (squeeze front/back) when nobody will hear or see.
Add more elements of babying:
- Feed them a bottle of milk each night
- Make them sleep with a teddy
- Talk to them like a baby during diaper checks and changes
- Make them use a pacifier in the daytime
Encourage them to mess in their diaper for convenience. For example, if heading out for the day ask them to fill their diaper before leaving so they won’t mess in public.
If you notice their wet diaper is starting to smell take them by the hand, lay them down, and change their diaper. Don’t ask if they need one or make it a choice.
Surprise them by buying new ABDL items (clothing, diapers, pacifiers, etc)
Punish any bad behavior by making their diaper experience less pleasant:
- Smack them until crying before changing them into a new diaper
- Add elements of forced regression such as locking mittens, pacifier gag, restraints
- Make them stay in messy diapers for extended periods
- Feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them.
- Treat him as a sissy/girl with pink diapers and female clothing or baby girl AB items.
Twice a week, force them to mess themselves. Insert a suppository into their bum (wear disposal gloves) or use a fleet-enema (no gloves required) during a change.
Make them ask you for permission to get changed and use the opportunity to inspect their diaper. If it doesn’t look full, make them wait 1-2 hours longer.
Get them ready for bed each evening by changing them into thick diapers and dressing them in ABDL clothes.
At home only allow thick or ABDL diapers to be worn.
Take them shopping while diapered to buy new medical diapers, pull-ups, feminine/childish underwear/clothing, and other baby supplies (powder, baby food, etc)
Make their diapered / baby status obvious around your home when visitors aren’t present:
- Have a dedicated changing area with diapers stacked up clearly
- Keep a pacifier next to their bed
- Have a few ready-made bottles in the fridge
- Hang up their ABDL clothes so they’re easily accessible
Make them wear a swim diaper on vacation (at the beach/pool)
If they're male, experiment with treating him as a sissy/girl some days:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers
- Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc)
- Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings)
- Butt plugs
- Chastity
Experiment with more bondage:
- Use locking mittens at night
- Restrain them to a bed overnight after giving them 2x ducolax tablets
- Add ankle and chest restraints to their office chair to prevent movement while working from home
- Use a pacifier gag regularly
Advanced
Change their diaper while out in public.
Look for a changing places toilet (Europe) or a standard accessible restroom can be used by bringing a disposal changing mat for the floor. You can also change them laying down over the back seats of your vehicle if in a secluded area.
Increase Babying:
- Create a baby bed for them, ideally a single bed with childish sheets, teddies, and restraints to simulate being locked in a crib. This can be used for naps or overnight punishments.
- Regularly feed them a blended or cut-up version of their meal. Use a bib and mittens to force them to let you feed them.
- Make them wear mittens to bed each night
- Force them to crawl by using training booties (small spikes prevent standing)
- Pacifier must be attached to them at all times while at home
- Setup a playpen which they must stay in for extended periods (even if still doing more adult activities like being on a phone or gaming)
Force them to mess themselves in front of you.
Administer a suppository or fleet enema but make them stay laying or sitting next to you. Encourage and then tease them for messing themselves like a baby.
Occasionally change them out of their messy diapers. Disposal gloves and adult wipes are recommended.
Force them to mess themselves while out of the house:
- Hand them a suppository to go and insert after finishing a meal at a restaurant. They'll have to try to hold until you’ve got the bill and left.
- On long drives make them insert a suppository when you’re still 1-2 hours away from your home/destination
- Administer a suppository or fleet enema before sending them to go shopping or other out-of-home chores.
Incorporate bondage into their forced babying by:
- Use locking diaper covers, plastic pants, or onesies to prevent self-changing
- Attach hands and feet to restraints during changes
- Restrain them overnight
- Use a straightjacket
Take them shopping to buy supplies from an ABDL shop
If male, treat him as a sissy most or all of the time at home:
- Pink / girl-themed diapers
- Feminine ABDL clothing (onesies, rompers, etc)
- Women’s clothing (dresses, skirts, leggings)
- Chastity cage
- Pegging
Dress them as a baby most or all of the time at home:
- Exposed diapers & babyish t-shirts
- Baby-themed onesies (not plain)
- Baby dresses/rompers
- Baby-style socks & tights
- No adult clothes (if working from home, adult clothes can be worn on top but the lower half should still be babyish)
Force them to lose control by adding laxatives without their knowledge to some meals and drinks (have prior consent to do this).
Restrict their diaper changes to certain times ensuring they’ll sometimes have to wait a few hours to change out of well-used diapers.
Switch to thick or ABDL diapers exclusively, making them less discrete in public.
Increase use of bondage:
- Use locking mittens & clothing most nights
- Use a straight jacket some weekends and evenings, feeding them and changing them during these times.
- Use Segufix restraints to completely secure them to a bed/crib
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I am in love with these socks.
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Dream come true
Hello everyone, it time for session inbox 📥 mommy now interested baby and diaper lover 🍼🎀🙈💘💘.
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Getting dressed to go exercise
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Trying to find the best handbag for a diaper girl in private but male in public and work space. I’m trying to lean more fem but not overly fem. Crossbody’s seem to be the style. I like the lululemon hip bag worn as a crossbody but not sold in it completely. Coach has some nice options but not sure I want to spend that much initially. Any thoughts are appreciated. Many need something to carry my wallet, keys, and phone. Hate putting them in my pockets.
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This is fantastic
Diaper discipline for your partner when you’re not ready for 24/7
Many couples I speak to the diapered partner has a desire to be forced to wear 24/7 but either this isn’t practical in their lives or their partner isn’t ready to get that involved yet.
So I wanted to put together a short guide on how you can implement diaper discipline and forced regression in a ad hoc and none full time way.
With 24/7 diaper wearing the discipline & domination parts come significantly by you removing their toilet privileges in a near total way which results in it being the discipline they need. If you’re instead only going to make them wear on an ad-hoc basis then you need to make some changes.
First although they’re going to be wearing a lot less you need to be more involved when they are wearing. Secondly it has to be unpredictable for them. And finally it should be more intense than 24/7 wearing to make up for the reduced regularity of it.
I did this to my partner before we decided 24/7 was the right path so here as some tips to get you started.
Look for opportunities to make them wear diapers where it will be more embarrassing while still protecting their privacy
- Going on a day trip? Surprise them by diapering them in the morning and packing a diaper bag for them to carry.
- Long drive? Thick diapers are required.
- Staying with friends or family? Diaper them up for bed!
Force them to use their diapers
- Once or twice a week force them to mess their diapers with the help of suppositories, enemas or laxatives.
- Use locking clothes or diaper covers to prevent them from removing their diaper so they have to use it.
- Lock the door to the toilet in your home
- Don’t give them permission to use the toilet in public
- Make them lose control in a semi-public way. You don’t want to expose others to smelly diapers but giving them a suppository and sending them to get groceries or go out for a walk is a favorite of mine. Or hand a suppository for them to insert at the end of a meal out or when on a drive and still an hour or two away from home.
Take control of their first diapering, checks & changes
- Surprise them by walking into the room, with diaper supplies in hand, and diapering them there and then.
- Tell them that they can’t ask for checks or changes and do these yourself
- Check them in a physical way, making them drop their pants or lift skirt
Vary the amount of time they’re diapered
- Sometime it might just be overnight
- Other times enforce 24/7 diapers for up-to a week
- Don’t tell how long each session will last
Throw in extended 24/7 periods
- Going on a 1 or 2 week vacation? Surprise them by diapering them and telling them that you’ve packed no underwear for them.
- Got a quiet month at home? Tell them you’re going to test them being diapered full time for a bit
Make it more embarrassing
- Tease them when they’re diapered
- Threaten then with being made to wear 24/7
- Force them to use their diaper in front of you
- Make them have their diaper exposed in the house or enforce abdl clothing only
- Don’t change them until they leak and then switch to thicker diapers
- Use more babyish diapers or make a male partner wear girly diapers more
Combine diapers with other humiliation elements:
- Male partner? Dress them as a girl when diapered
- Use bondage alongside their diapers; restrain overnight in a spare bedroom, use a straightjacket & suppositories to make them feel helpless, shackle their ankles to their desk in an exposed diaper while working from home, use locking onesies and covers regularly
- Chastity! Lock them up while diapered and experiment with pegging
- Butt plugs? Going out but don’t want them to mess? Plug them up.
- Role play. Nurse & patient or teacher & school boy/girl work great with diapers
- Pull ups or abdl underwear when not diapered
Use forced regression alongside diapers as much as possible
- When at home and in diapers they should not be dressed as an adult. Onesies, shortalls, exposed diapers, baby dresses, etc…
- Use pacifiers and bottles regularly
- Make them wear a bib while eating. Or step things up and feed them yourself
- Tell them they’re a baby, only babies wear diapers, etc
- Turn a spare bedroom into a nursery simply by replacing the sheets, adding some plushies and keeping a few piles of diapers and supplies visible.
How much and when?
With all of these ideas to try the question comes up of how often should they be diapered and how do I decide when that should be (especially if not a natural mommy/daddy).
As a minimum I’d recommend they’re diapered 25% - 50% of each month. In terms of deciding when you should make them wear, I used to do this at the start of each month and week.
At the start of the month I’d look at our plans for the coming month and see if there were any big events to add diapers to. These for example might be a vacation where they could be diapered 24/7, a weekend away, day trips, etc.
Then each week I’d decide how to get 2-3 days of diaper wearing in. Normally this would involve at least a full day at the weekend as well as some nights and maybe a day when he was working from home. Try pick a mixture of at home and in public diaper wearing time.
For forced messing I’d think when would be best for this. A weekend day at home works well especially when using laxatives where the effects can last a while. Suppositories are easier to plan around and can be inserted as part of a diaper check.
For the rest feel free to plan in as much or little detail as you like but keep it a secret from them. I started with very detailed plans which became less detailed as a gained confidence in the mommy dom role.
A tip from me is I setup a separate calendar on my phone to keep track of when he should be diapered and used a simple code to keep it discrete, naming the calendar “chores”:
- cook = they’re diapered
- garbage = forced messing
- clean = diaper change
- break = diaper check
- Etc…
The beauty of this is I could have notification reminders on for all of these and it doesn’t give anything away even if somebody sees it. In the early days, these reminders for me to check and change him were very helpful.
Finally, remember when doing this that you want it to be embarrassing & inconvenient for them some of the time. With diaper discipline and forced regression it won’t work if it’s always fun for them so plan accordingly.
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I want to be spanked
Reblog if you really want to spank someone or if you really want to be spanked. 👏🏻🍑
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The cuteness of this is off the charts!
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A wet diaper hood is one of my favorite things.
In my opinion, this is the ultimate form of diaper humiliation that can be performed in a private setting.
Imagine being put in some light bondage during timeout while your face is constantly pressed against the padding of your latest pee-soaked diaper. You can feel the warm wetness in your face, in your hair, everywhere. The overwhelming smell of urine, its taste in your mouth while it is smushed against the padding. The knowledge that you are helpless and at your partner´s mercy.
Combine this with an extended spanking session while being restrained in this manner and you will have a really intense experience. With your sight and sound impaired by the diaper around your head, you will be helpless and unable to anticipate when you will be hit. And, of course, the spanks will ensure that you take in even more of the particularly rich odor in your diaper when you whince in pain and inhale because of the stinging swats on your exposed bottom.
For an even more intense experience, the caretaker may administer an enema or a suppository and tell you that your next diaper hood will be made from the freshly soiled diaper that you are going to fill during your timeout.
Imagine lying there with your head wrapped in a pee-soaked diaper while you helplessly mess yourself in the knowledge that everything coming out may soon be smushed against your head as well. While you may think that your previous diaper hood was bad, you will most certainly learn that your next one can be so much worse, if you don´t behave.
For obvious reasons, this kind of play requires lots of caution and proper cleanup in the aftermath. But you won´t find many disciplinary measures that will have a similar impact than a properly applied diaper hood.
Have you already done this or experienced this kind of treatment? How do you think about it? What are your experiences? Do you have any ideas on how you can further intensify the treatment? Share it with the world so that we all can benefit from it.
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Casual Domination Ideas
Pick out their clothes / underwear for the day or make sure they check for approval in the morning
Take them out on a date without telling them any of the plans
Order their food for them when you go out to eat
Keep them gagged / cuffed while you watch a movie together
Have them kneel on the kitchen floor while you prepare a homecooked meal for the both of you. Keep em close by to be your taste tester.
Their body is yours. Touch, grab, or move it wherever you want, whenever you want.
Feel free to add more!!
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