friends to lovers prompts? some where they're arguing about why they can't date too pls
Friends to Lovers Prompts
Arguing about why they can't date edition
"I'm just scared that it will change everything."
"You say you love me and then you say we can't be together. That is not fair!"
"If we don't work out... I can't risk losing my best friend."
"We can't go on like this! We'll be miserable."
"I don't understand you! I thought you loved me too!"
"This could be so easy... two people liking each other. But it's a very hard decision."
"It's not that I don't like you. I do. Maybe even too much. But I value our friendship and I don't want to lose it."
"You want to just try and see if it works? What if it ruins our friendship? Is our friendship not important enough for you?"
"It would be weird." "How do you know that?"
"I know you're scared, me too. But it can also be the beginning of something really great."
"Let's ruin our friendship." "Is it that easy for you?"
More: Reluctant allies to friends to lovers dynamic | Flirty friends to lovers Prompts | Friends with benefits to lovers Prompts | Best friends to lovers Prompts | Childhood friends to lovers Prompts
Watching Kendrick Lamar create and record his verses on the Bad Blood remix was one of the most inspiring experiences of my life. I still look back on this collaboration with so much pride and gratitude, for the ways Kendrick elevated the song and the way he treats everyone around him. Every time the crowds on The Eras Tour would chant his line ‘you forgive, you forget, but you never let it… go!’, I smiled. The reality that Kendrick would go back in and re-record Bad Blood so that I could reclaim and own this work I’m so proud of is surreal and bewildering to me. I’m overjoyed to say that the Bad Blood Remix (featuring Kendrick Lamar) is available everywhere on the 1989 Deluxe Edition. 🫶🩵
http://taylor.lnk.to/1989TaylorsVersion
In another universe, I’m on my laptop, talking with my online friends about Club Penguin’s new update. I am waiting until the clock hits 6 PM so I can watch Ninjago, and, right after, so that I can call my best friend on her house’s phone to talk about the episode. I am waiting until the clock hits 7 PM so that I watch the newest Violetta episode and so that I can hear my dad’s car coming into the garage. He has brought me one of my favorite foods. On the next day, I wait anxiously to get home so that I can log into My Candy Love and get the daily action points. I am eight years old. I haven’t realized my mother’s abuse towards me yet. In my head, nothing bad has ever happened to me. I am full of hopes and dreams for the future. I am the happiest I have ever been and ever will be.
i’m sure teenage girls know that eating disorders are unhealthy, but i feel like they don’t really know why. it’s not their fault: they don’t know because they haven’t been taught. they haven’t been taught because we just found out, and we just found out because, honestly, research into women’s health has been extremely lacking, historically.. women are just small, weak men with breasts and uteruses, right? WRONG.
every system, every organ, every cell in a woman’s body moves to a complex symphony of hormonal signaling that is circadian (cycling once a day), mensual (once a month), and seasonal (once a year). this beautiful dance is directed by the endocrine system, which consists of glands. the high chieftesses of these glands are the incredibly sensitive gonads, the ovaries.
these almond-sized glands are so delicate that they will go dormant at the first sign that the outside world may be a less than optimal environment in which to birth and raise a baby. and only now, in the last decade or so, are we finally starting to understand the devastation that is wrought on a developing girl’s health when this happens.
back in the 80’s, when endurance sports were starting to go mainstream, the saying among elite female endurance athletes was “if your period stops, you’re training enough.” those women are now at the tip of the spear of our emerging knowledge of the long term effects of the “female athlete triad”.
the female athlete triad consists of 1) not eating enough, 2) no menstrual cycle, and 3) low bone density. grouping them together like this is rather misleading, because it makes it sound like these symptoms can occur in any combination. the actual relationship is one of definitive and terrifying cause-and-effect.
when a teenage girl stops eating enough to fill her calorie needs, or deliberately exercises beyond her caloric intake, her ovaries receive signals that there’s a famine afoot, that the outside environment is a hostile place, and they shut down. they fucking shut down! can you imagine a male marathon runner saying “fellas, if your testicles still work, you’re not running enough”?
the ovaries are responsible for releasing estrogen, which most teenage girls probably know is responsible for menstruation, breast development and female fat distribution in puberty. what they probably don’t know, because nobody tells them, is that estrogen is also an incredibly powerful steroid that is the primary hormone, in both sexes, that is responsible for mineralizing growing bones. bones are rapidly expanding in volume during puberty, and if a girl’s estrogen is depleted because her ovaries are on strike, she won’t even be able to maintain the bone density she enjoyed in childhood (and her bones are supposed to be getting significantly denser as she grows!).
if she is ignorant of this, a talented and driven teenage female athlete will write off an estrogen crash with “well i didn’t really want periods, tits and hips anyway, they’d just slow me down”, not realizing that she is inducing permanent osteopenia in herself... because she can’t just remineralize her bones after she’s done growing. once she attains her full adult height and her growth plates fuse, that’s it!
the same women who, in the 80s/90s/00s, were saying “if your period stops, you’re training enough” now suffer from brittle bones. they get multiple compound fractures, shattered bones, just from tripping and falling on a hike. i know many such women. and this is irreversible.
we didn’t, and still don’t, know everything that the ovaries do. how irresponsible we were, to think we could just kneecap our most important glands, with no consequences.
i know some teenage girls follow me, and i want to say this: research nutritional requirements for girls your age, be vigilant about eating enough, and eating a variety of things. take responsibility for your health now: you will thank yourself in 10 years, when you can still stand up straight, when you can fall on a wet floor at work and just laugh it off and move on. you are the only one who has to live with yourself 24 hours a day, and you’ve got to keep yourself safe. you’ve got to.
4K notes ·
View notes
Statistics
We looked inside some of the posts by
cecesunshine
and here's what we found interesting.
Average Info
Notes Per Post
445K
Likes Per Post
276K
Reblog Per Post
169K
Reply Per Post
612
Time Between Posts
23 days
Number of Posts By Type
Text
11
Note
1
Photo
3
Link
1
Video
1
Explore Tagged Posts
Fun Fact
70% of Tumblr users say the Dashboard is their favorite place to spend time online.