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the bisexual (i don't feel differently abt men and women) to ace pipeline
And the cis (i don't really care abt my gender) to agender pipeline
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fightmaster❤️🔥
go listen to bloodshed baby you won't regret it
#and more!#wallpapers#erfightmaster#er fightmaster#fightmaster#bloodshed baby#violence#cowboy tumbleweed#hot shame#bad man#greys anatomy#kai bartley
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fightmaster❤️🔥
go listen to bloodshed baby you won't regret it
#i made more#wallpapers#erfightmaster#er fightmaster#fightmaster#bloodshed baby#violence#cowboy tumbleweed#noctis#hot shame#bad man#greys anatomy#kai bartley
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What is aesthetic attraction? Read to find out more!
This is part 6 of a multiple parts series where we’re exploring a multitude of different types of attractions! I hope you’ll enjoy ☺️
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fightmaster❤️🔥
go listen to bloodshed baby you won't regret it
#wallpapers#erfightmaster#er fightmaster#fightmaster#bloodshed baby#violence#cowboy tumbleweed#greys anatomy#kai bartley#noctis
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new season of queer came out and I had no idea. BUT BUT BUT there's something special to me about seeing a 38 year old woman saying with confidence that she is a biromantic demisexual and having it not be seen as over the top or silly but being treated with respect and love and encouragement.
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Did I just hear somebody call themselves "biromantic demisexual" and started crying? Absolutely.
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I am asexual, aromantic, and agender. I have made precisely one decision in my life, and that decision was "no".
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Don't get it twisted. I don't hate being Aroace I hate allo/amatonormativity making me feel like I've morally failed in some way. Don't put words in my mouth.
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The bisexual to aroace pipeline is pretty much having the right idea and coming to the wrong conclusion. Yeah buddy you're not straight and you're also not gay. No not like that though, the other way around
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The response to "ace people are just virgins who can't get laid!" Shouldn't be "ace people can still have sex!" but instead " being a virgin isn't a bad thing."
The response to "aro people are just heartless freaks!" Shouldn't be "aro people can still feel love!" And instead be "not feeling love or other emotions doesn't make you a bad person."
Instead of pushing the idea that aspec people can be "normal like allos" we should instead be trying to normalize aspec experiences. Yes aspec people can be normal because aspec identities are normal. Some aros fall in love. some aces have sex. but they should not be the only valid aspec experiences. We should not use these experiences to make the aspec identity more palatable to amatonormativity and allos.
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my mom tells me it's my fault i don't have friends. that my standards are too high. no one could ever live up to them. you just hate everyone. no one is ever good enough for you. you just don't like people. you'll be alone forever.
all i ever asked was respect. the most basic thing someone could ask for. my standards are as low as they can get. and i like to think i will find my people one day. and i am learning to love being alone.
i have been shamed for this my whole life. so fuck you mom. i deserve respect and i will not settle for less.
#i have settled#in the past#and that is so much worse#worst relationships of my life came from settling#why is respect too much to ask for#how could you believe that
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i am non binary. i am agender. i get my period and everything that comes with it. i was raised as a girl, i have experienced all of the bullshit that comes with that. i am tired of feminists only ever talking to women.
i went to a book thing yesterday, and bought a book about and against beauty standards and fatphobia. the author is a fat woman ive followed online for ages, so i was excited. she was really nice.
but in her book (and her talk) she is only ever addressing women. or girls. im not. but everything she talked about is still part of my life. i should not be excluded from conversations about periods or feminism or misogyny or body hair or beauty standards or whatever.
#im sure this has been talked about to death#but im so tired#she's usually really inclusive so this was extra annoying#before the talk she signed my book#and asked for my name#and then immediately assumed i was non binary#which#she was right#but still#then during the talk she saw me#when she used some gendered word or other#and corrected herself with something more gender neutral#i appreciate greatly#but maybe use the neutral all the time#im sure i was not the only non binary person there#or the only one reading her book#i am reading it right now and she fucking#has a whole page about including the queer community in the talk and fights and whatnot#and yet she still only ever talks to girls#this is just me ranting#had not done that before#nonbinary
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people making comments where ‘gay’ or ‘lesbian’ are used as insults or to make fun of someone and then following it with “not that there’s anything wrong with that” is the equivalent of a white person making racist comments and then justifying it with “I have a black friend.”
if you truly support the queer community, don’t perpetuate hateful beliefs by encouraging an environment where being queer is used to ridicule and ostracize others. even if you meant it as a harmless joke, there are people in the room who see your behavior as enablement for them to be hateful and homophobic and to write it off as a “joke.”
bad behavior is bad behavior. doing something in a playful manner does not erase the consequences of your actions.
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Part of being neurodivergent is constantly getting mocked and teased for wearing out easier than neurotypicals. Where they can fit several different activities into a day, I'm exhausted before I've even finished the first one.
It's because so much work goes into masking. Talking to people in general, let alone when I don't actually want to, is exhausting in itself. Even the brightness of the sky can be overstimulating at times, and that's before I've done my shopping or done what I need to do, where there's too much talking and excessively loud music and workers who are often pressured into getting into your space before you've even walked several metres through the door.
What is considered background noise to some people is all I hear. I can't openly stim or do the things that make these jobs bearable because I'll get those looks from people that remind me that I'm not actually welcome unless I can be "normal".
I have to remember the script that I've created in my head for when I talk to the person I'm seeing. If they stray from what I had planned, I then have to create a new script on the spot without them realising that I'm on the verge of an anxiety attack because it's not going as I had hoped.
I have to make sure my facial expressions don't slip into what's natural, because it looks like i'm bored/disinterested. I have to make sure I'm making eye contact on occasions even when I don't want to because it's seen as disrespectful/impolite. Nobody wants to accommodate my needs more than they absolutely have to, but I spend every hour of every day - sometimes even in my own home - accommodating the people around me.
So yeah, small things can be exhausting.
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Me: “I can’t be autistic, I don’t have sensory issues.”
Also Me-
- The person who told me to try freezing grapes is my enemy.
- *Physically gagging from trying to eat a freeze dried strawberry*
- “I can’t sleep, my shirt is on.”
- This yogurt had pieces of fruit in it so I will let it spoil in the back of my fridge and die of starvation before I eat it.
- If anyone touches me right now I will become a safety hazard
- *Throwing myself off of furniture*
- Something is crinkling SOMEWHERE in the next room and if I don’t find it and destroy it I will never sleep again.
- This person’s headlights were too bright for 0.5 seconds and now I will have a migraine for the next 4 hours.
- My hands are wet MY HANDS ARE WET MAKE IT STOP
- What do you mean these clothes are dry? They’re clearly still damp, how do you not feel it? They’re still damp!
- These two rocks rubbed against each other and made a noise and I think I may have broken a tooth from clenching my jaw so hard
- If I am forced to wear jeans for more than 0.3 seconds upon entering my home I’m going to start crying
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neurotypicals that love to talk about how self-aware they are, will always be funny to me. you're so self aware but you can't tell you're making me uncomfortable by repeatedly trying to touch me when I've moved back and VERBALLY said I don't like being touched
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