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artistlara · 5 days

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"No one remembered my birthday-" Well, but did YOU tell anyone it was coming up and you wanted to celebrate it with them?

"I wish someone would see through it when I tell people I'm fine-" Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how you're doing?

"I am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-" Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?

"I am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-" Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?

"No one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-" Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?

"I miss my friend but they haven't texted me-" Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?

Sometimes people are mean, uncaring assholes, in which case you get to be mad. But sometimes you just need to communicate better. Try communication before you assume someone doesn't care!

#🍵rb #important

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artistlara · 26 days

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I'M BEING ATTACKED (booped multiple times in a row by multiple ppl) WAIT

#I'M NO LONGER ON MY LAPTOP. IT'S SO MUCH MORE SLOWER TO BOOP ON MOBILE EHAJRHAJDAJHF #🍵the introvert wants to speak

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artistlara · 27 days

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I SURRENDER.

@artistlara

BRING IT ON.

#YOU MENACE /POS #I CAN'T COMPETE ANY LONGER YOU WIN AJHSDGEJHDGAHSD #🍵rb #🌼stan

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artistlara · 1 month

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#🍵rb #important

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artistlara · 1 month

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Btw when someone says "don't talk to me like that, I don't know you" the normal thing to do is apologize for the perceived overfamiliarity and correct the behavior. Just in case anyone was wondering

#🍵rb #important

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artistlara · 2 months

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evil art style thing from a while ago

#HEY. RESPECTFULLY. WHAT THE HELL. /pos #OHHMYGOSJ THIS SURPRISED THE HELL OUT OF ME OMG #YOU DID SO WELL???? RAD IS THAT YOU STILL????? /rhe /lh #< referring to if you drew it. which I know you did. but the evil art style has me mind blown #GOSHHHH THE CONTRAST IS INSANEEEEE #I LOVE IT. I REALLY DO. 10/10 YOU DID AMAZING WITH THIS #🌿others creation #🌼stan #also respectfully. gives your quirrel a kiss on the hand #hollow knight #hk quirrel

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artistlara · 2 months

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As someone who has been living with severe suicidal ideation my entire life I wanna tell you all something, you don’t have to stay alive for yourself. People will say it’s a bad idea to live for external things because they’re temporary, and it’s true living for yourself is ideal but if you’re not to that point yet that’s ok too.

I’ve lived for my dog for the past 4 years, before that I lived for my snakes, before that I lived for my cat. You can live for whatever needs you and whatever matters to you. Live for your best friend, live for your plants, live for your pets, live for your animal crossing town. Live for whatever keeps you alive and the day will come when you can live for yourself.

#🍵rb #important #tw suicidal ideation #< jic #but anyway as someone who relates hard to this post (I'm doing a lot better now btw) bc there was a time where I rlly had no want to live-#-for myself. I lived for my friends. I lived for my family. I lived so I didn't have to make anyone cry and go through that grief of losing-#-someone they love. I lived for my cats. I lived for the sunsets and sunrises I've yet to see. I lived for the food #and slowly enough- life felt a little more bearable and I started living for myself. I start living to fight for my life #spiting the downward spiral I used to be in #but that's just my 2 cents bc this post right here ^ is very true and real

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artistlara · 2 months

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