The other day I got a message from a lady that had the wrong number, she thought she was messaging a friend to thank them for the wine they sent her instead she ended up messaging me so I kindly told her that she had the wrong number. The next day she ended up messaging me back saying she was sorry and then we ended up having an hour or so-long conversation about our lives, what we do for work, she told me how she’s originally from Shanghai but has been here in America for over ten years now and runs her own successful business up in New York with great friends.
I told her I’m originally from New York and I asked her if she runs into any rude people due to being Asian and a non-Asian-American at that to which she told me she’s had an amazing time so far and we’ve even plan to have coffee if I ever make it up to New York.
The whole reason I’m making this random post is to show that you never know what good person or good people you might meet today or tomorrow or next week, etc but that there just are good people out there and one of them just might randomly message you by an accident lol
Our conversation was very nice and she really made my morning. So if you ever feel like someone might be having a bad day try being that someone to make their day better by striking up a conversation
I don’t know this person but I am very happy for them
"I cannot tell you the complete, fundamental shift that I have felt in the year since having surgery. I knew that I wanted top surgery for a decade; it's the longest I've ever thought about doing anything. The place where I went, I had that clinic's website open on my laptop for five years. It was this impossible mountain: I want that, but I'm never gonna get it. No one's gonna let me, blah, blah, blah. To have that be in the past now... I stand differently, I walk differently, I carry myself differently. It feels different in my body than it ever has. I have just never been happier. I've never been more centered. I've never felt more stable and present and alive. It's the best thing I've ever done for myself. It’s taught me a lot. The recovery process taught me about rest, accepting help, and caring for my body as something connected to me rather than separate from me, that I’m in opposition to: This is mine and I want to take care of it. I feel good in it and good about it. Part of cis people's fear around gender-affirming surgery is the fear of surgery at all — 'Oh, my God, but that's painful and scary!' My reaction to that is, 'No, no, you misunderstood. It was painful before. Your worry has kicked in at the wrong time. The right time to be concerned was about the pain I was in before this. I'm great now.' Everybody else's concern for me has been on a delay. There's no need to be concerned anymore. That's so freeing."
@lgbtqcreators creator meme: [7/8] lgbtq+ celebs — LIV HEWSON
shut up shut up shut UP every single person in my 3rd grade friend group turned out to be queer (except for one, the token straight guy) and there were EIGHT of us. queer people find each other, even if they don’t know they’re queer.