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alwaysmej · 10 hours
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Can we all band together and hold hands and smite all the weirdo catholic orbiters that keep trying to call themselves feminists
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A female falcon was equipped with a satellite tracking system in South Africa before migrating to Finland. Image shows tracker data. In just 42 days, she flew over 10.000 km, at an incredible average of 230 km per day and nearly in a straight line.    
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alwaysmej · 10 hours
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Isnt it weird that hotel rooms provide toilet paper, tissues, shampoo, conditioner, lotion, soap, and ive even seen some provide make removal wipes, but I’ve never seen a single one provide pads or tampons?
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I've been trying to quit porn (it is after all disgustingly evil lol) but I always relapse for whatever reason. I wish I had better discipline about breaking bad habits, and it's very difficult to talk about. Maybe I should make a blog...
Reading testimonials of abuse (physical, sexual, mental, financial, drug use, etc.) from women who've escaped the industry really helped me quit.
There have also been countless cases of men taking secret videos/photos, or videos/photos that their sex partners believed would remain private, and uploading them without consent, sometimes even posing as the woman online.
There's genuinely no way of knowing if the women (and men in gay porn, especially the younger ones) were there willingly, whether they experienced abuses that forced them into it, etc.
Sasha Grey is a former globally famous "pornstar" who was known for being in violent and extreme porn, who always claimed publicly that she loved it and was doing it to explore her own sexuality. I remember men using her as "proof" that there's nothing wrong with porn because the women in the industry are there happily and willingly. However, when she exited the industry, she revealed that she'd had an abusive boyfriend who'd forced her into it, who'd made her do continually more extreme porn because it meant more money. He was effectively a pimp. Even now that information is out there, men comment vile things on everything she says and does and will never let her forget what happened to her so long as she has a public persona.
If a woman in the porn industry so much as implies that she was abused or is unhappy, she can be blacklisted, and once you've been in the porn industry, finding other employment is extremely difficult. I recall a news story about a woman who started an Onlyfans account during the pandemic (iirc she barely made any money), and once she was able to apply for other jobs, was turned down from TACO BELL of all places, with them citing her Onlyfans as the reason.
I unfortunately don't have much in the way of advice on quitting for someone who is struggling with repeated relapses, but I know there are women on radblr that have overcome porn addiction or are still struggling with it. There's community for you here, if you do choose to make a blog.
I have an anti porn tag you can look through and there are many blogs that focus on anti porn and anti sex industry information and activism.
@antiporn-activist is one that's been around for quite awhile and if you're not already following her, I recommend it.
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alwaysmej · 10 hours
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I'm so glad i never expect anything from men
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alwaysmej · 10 hours
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capitalism killed my parasocial best friend, shane madej. may he rest in peace.
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alwaysmej · 10 hours
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pissing each other off as foreplay
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Courage the Cowardly Dog (1999-2002) [x]
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alwaysmej · 11 hours
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all these podcasts and think pieces about the epidemic of lonely men… baby that’s called natural selection
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windows home screen throwing out a rather intense scenario today
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alwaysmej · 11 hours
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buying books & reading books..two different hobbies.
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alwaysmej · 11 hours
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hm. i feel terrified of everything. surely large ice coffee will ease this terror. surely
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"May 1 Without Nazis!!!
Down with Prices! Up with Wages!!"
Mural in Mülheim, Germany
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alwaysmej · 11 hours
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Also, on the topic of drag queens - they prance around dressed as women, but the money they earn from it doesn’t actually benefit they women they imitate in any way. Look at the famous drag queens - who do they employ as assistants? Men. Who do they buy their costumes from? Men. Who do they hire as backing dancers? Men. Violet Chachki created a digital show over lockdown with credits a minute long and there wasn’t a single woman involved. He didn’t hire a female choreographer or a female camera person or even a female coffee-getter.
They’re men, they’re male oriented, and they have male class consciousness.
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alwaysmej · 11 hours
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i love inside jokes. yeah this insane set of words is something only me and like 3 other people can understand. yes it sends me into a fit of insane laughter when i hear about it
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