no offense but why is 80% of this site unnecessarily mean and aggressive like have some empathy and recognize that you don’t know the full context of a post/person perhaps
Lesbians who develop feelings for their friends are not gross or disgusting. Your feelings are normal and there is nothing predatory about them. You are not inherently dangerous because of your sexuality. You are free to develop crushes and fall in love, it is a normal part of life and you are valid.