Ok post is continuing to break containment so like. If you do not like this kink and it makes you personally feel icky, then I would suggest just blocking me. Because you are very much entitled to feeling that way and being skeptical of people with this kink, but interacting with me to say that is maybe just not the way to go idk. If this is making sense. I might just see if I can turn off reblogs on that post tbh.

Ok this post is breaking containment now so I just wanna say

1. If you are fat and read this and have a hard time believing that anyone is genuinely attracted to your body, I’m very sorry that you have been made to feel that way. You are beautiful and deserving of love and so so attractive because you are a person. I’m so so sorry that people in your life and society as a whole have hurt you and disrespected you and made you feel less than what and who you are.

2. My intentions are never to reduce anyone to a kink or to fetishize a whole group of people without regard for them as individuals. I know that there are many people with this kink who DO act that way, but I hope my posts never come off like that. It’s just something that I find attractive in the same way that I also find veiny hands to be attractive, or people taller than me to be attractive. It’s an attribute that I prefer but it is never the only thing about someone and it is never something to reduce someone to.

Also, this OG post was written about someone in my life who I have feelings for who is very insecure, and while it is laced with me being a freak, it’s mainly about the fact that I wish he could see himself from my eyes and understand that he IS desirable when he thinks that he isn’t. It was a way of saying “I wish he could see how he drives me crazy because I want him to know that he is not only lovable but incredibly hot and sexy FOR the reasons that he’s insecure about, not DESPITE them.” Just for added context <3

Anyways with that said, I love y’all lots <3 hope everyone is having a nice day

Having this kink is so funny because You will have a crush on someone and think they are soooooo fucking hot and they will stand there and tell you that they are insecure about their body and you will have to do the equivalent of locking your brain in a straitjacket to formulate a response that sounds supportive and socially acceptable when the reality is that you would commit atrocities just to kiss their stomach ONCE. That, if given the opportunity, you would worship them like they were royalty. And you would do this in both a non-kinky way because you love them and think they are beautiful and wish that they could see themself the way you see them but also in the kinky way where it feels like there’s a feral dog inside of you that wants to sink it’s teeth into the softness of them and never let go. You have to stand there and think to yourself “you have no idea the things I would do to you. You have no idea just how desirable you are.” And it’s honestly unbearable !!!!!

I’m not actually gonna do this for obvious reasons but how funny would it be if I just dropped selfies on this account. Like what are the odds that anyone here knows me irl. That would be crazy.

This fucking guy is putting me thru intense psychological warfare by looking me directly in the eyes and going “I’m getting softer, I really shouldn’t have any hot chocolate or anything. But I want it.” And then I have to BE NORMAL ABOUT IT while I make him hot chocolate anyway because I know he wants it. And then I have to be normal when he takes one sip and CLOSES HIS EYES BECAUSE HE LIKES IT SO MUCH and then finishes the cup in like 2 minutes. And I have to be normal about how embarrassed he gets when he wants to eat or drink things that are “unhealthy.” And I have to be normal when he’s eating in front of me and goes “sorry, I’m eating like a pig.” AND I HAVE TO BE NORMAL ABOUT IT!!!!! and the worst part is that all of his responses are because he’s insecure and that KILLS ME because he is so cute and I like him so much and it turns my brain into a battleground of wanting him to love himself because he deserves to (and everyone deserves to love themself and their body!!!!!) and also wanting to absolutely fucking ravage him from a purely kink fueled side of it. But I digress…..

Having this kink is so funny because You will have a crush on someone and think they are soooooo fucking hot and they will stand there and tell you that they are insecure about their body and you will have to do the equivalent of locking your brain in a straitjacket to formulate a response that sounds supportive and socially acceptable when the reality is that you would commit atrocities just to kiss their stomach ONCE. That, if given the opportunity, you would worship them like they were royalty. And you would do this in both a non-kinky way because you love them and think they are beautiful and wish that they could see themself the way you see them but also in the kinky way where it feels like there’s a feral dog inside of you that wants to sink it’s teeth into the softness of them and never let go. You have to stand there and think to yourself “you have no idea the things I would do to you. You have no idea just how desirable you are.” And it’s honestly unbearable !!!!!

Having this kink is so funny because You will have a crush on someone and think they are soooooo fucking hot and they will stand there and tell you that they are insecure about their body and you will have to do the equivalent of locking your brain in a straitjacket to formulate a response that sounds supportive and socially acceptable when the reality is that you would commit atrocities just to kiss their stomach ONCE. That, if given the opportunity, you would worship them like they were royalty. And you would do this in both a non-kinky way because you love them and think they are beautiful and wish that they could see themself the way you see them but also in the kinky way where it feels like there’s a feral dog inside of you that wants to sink it’s teeth into the softness of them and never let go. You have to stand there and think to yourself “you have no idea the things I would do to you. You have no idea just how desirable you are.” And it’s honestly unbearable !!!!!

Going crazy at the thought of telling him to stretch his arms above his head and lean himself forward a little against a wall so that his shirt pulls up and his belly can hang forward a little with his lean. But especially making him do this after he stuffs himself full. His soft tummy hanging out for me to see, knowing that he feels vulnerable with his arms above his head like that, unable to swat me away when I position myself below him and start to rub his belly. The noises he would make as I gently pat his stomach and watch it jiggle. How red his face would get and how he would begin to shake when I start to kiss his lower belly and bite right at the softest parts. Making him stand there and take all the praise and admiration I’m about to pile onto him. Showing him just how much I adore him and how beautiful he is.

Having almost 4k followers here is so insane to me because 1. my main account which is 11 years old only has like 1.9k and 2. I only made this blog so I could post my silly little horny thoughts in a nice and categorized way for myself to be able to look back at whenever I wanted so it’s just crazy to me that so many of y’all are here and actually LIKE the shit I’m yappin about <3

4am inbox answering because I finally have the sudden motivation to post on here for a second let’s gooooo

your blog is so good. thank you for your service o7

I TRY MY BEST THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! o7

My BF is into feeding and I never really considered it before dating him. (I like being sexually full like stuffed with toys, and I've been able to transfer that to being feeding full as well which he loves)(also I'm sensitive enough to orgasm from belly rubs and I swear when he found that out he almost went like full anime nosebleed. He accused me of lying even tho I didn't even know about his kink when I told him that lmao)

He was so scared to tell me about his kink bc he didn't want me to think he fetishized fat people. Honestly I love that he has this kink bc it is so easy to accommodate. Like I just send a morning vid of tummy jiggles or a cute pic of my torso and face like, "ough so stuffed 🥺 wish someone was here to rub my belly" and he just fucking combusts. It's so easy.

Anyway I saw your post about being grey ace, and I think my BF is in that area too. From his description, I would say he's demi, but he's elected to not use that term so I will respect that. I just find it interesting that I've heard of a number of people in the feeding community who are ace or aro and I wonder if that's a coincidence or not. Like my BF often doesn't "get off" he will just dote on me and feel satisfied from my release.

Anyway, I thought I had more of a point when I started writing this but have since forgotten. Sorry for like. Over sharing in your inbox. I'm not sure if this was weird to do or not honestly. Your blog is the first feederism blog I stumbled across so I'm kinda using it to research™.

Sorry again for over sharing you can delete this if you want. have a good rest of your day ✌️

I read this when it first got send to my inbox and I think it’s so sweet and cool so I’m SO sorry for answering it so late. It’s really nice to hear abt others experiences with relationships and navigating sexuality and kinks and such like that, especially hearing about a partner doing research into a kink that they may not be super familiar in or like, things like that. Makes me super happy to read :) so sorry again for the later answer but I hope you’re doing great <3

saw your post saying that you're on a little bit of a dilf kick... have you heard of the band tally hall? they had a few songs that got popular on tiktok and their music is fantastic. worth checking out if you haven't before; they've gotten more of a fanbase in recent years but they're still criminally underrated. anyways, i’m down horrendous for the keyboardist and thought you might appreciate. his name is andrew horowitz. he's an amazing musician and also the hottest man alive…

your writing is awesome, btw. love your blog.

Omg yes!! Funny enough one of my ex’s introduced me to Tally Hall back in 2018 or so. Love their music and HELLOOOOO to their keyboardist he’s cute as hell.

Thanks so much for the sweet ask :)

Would you ever consider finishing that one Jsch/att fic you started a while back? I’d love to see the ending :)

Honestly MAYBE!!!! I still have ideas rattling around my head for that. I haven’t written anything for awhile but I do wanna add on to the things I have posted eventually

Life has been nothing but suffering and situations recently but the universe was like “sure we’ll give you one good thing” and let me witness my coworker reaching for something on a shelf and his shirt pulled up so far and I got just. A full view of his stomach. Felt all my neurons fire simultaneously and then immediately short circuit my whole brain. Only thoughts that could get thru were “I need to bite him” and “soft tummy touch NOW” so you know. At least there’s that !!!

My eyes go blank as I enter an ovulation horny fugue state that makes me text my coworker

Still sorry been getting my ass kicked by Being Busy my brain says I cannot talk to the people in my phone rn but I’ve read thru my asks and I wanna answer them when I have the energy to do it 🙏 forgive the mental illness

I have asks and such to answer SORRY SORRY I am so bad at Answering Things idk why but I’m like no….the time isn’t right yet I cannot answer now……I must wait for the Right Time to answer

Fuck thanksgiving on the whole but I hope y’all hotties are eatin GOOD tonite…..don’t stop till you pop a button <3

Prev I hope you don’t mind me reblogging this but this is SO TRUE and voices a lot of the frustrations I have towards acephobia as well

I also identify as grey ace, and that feeling of being both “sort of acceptable” because sex COULD be on the table, and both invalid because that’s not how allo ppl view ace people, is SO difficult to deal with.

Also happy ace week everyone!!! I love ace people so much we are so resilient.

Being asexual is like yeah I’m ace. Except for my one intense kink that my asexuality doesn’t apply to.