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Icon description: A person with dark purple hair and skin, glowing yellow eyes and markings on their cheeks. They wear a wear a cloak and have a magenta aura glowing around them. Banner: a night sky of blue and purple, with pink and white sparkles as stars ||Call me Fran| | no pronouns | | English & Español | | Chilean | | 22 | Please blacklist: NSFT and "suggestive" if you want to avoid this content (it is only text and jokes btw). If you need me to tag something or write an image description don't hesitate to ask c: I have a lot of fandom sideblogs on my pinned post whoops
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"Trans and nonbinary" is phrased this way to include nonbinary people who don't consider themselves trans.
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#Nuance: depends on the person#Some like it for themselves others don't. I don't particularly think one should be held as The TRUE Gender Neutral One#But overall I like the e ending
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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!
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so a few things
my brother and i have our rooms facing each other
he recently got a mood light installed and he can change the color
his favorite color is purple
which would normally be. FINE but every time i walk to my room its just been this
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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it would be one thing if it was just the horrors but it's all the little horrorcitos también
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it would be one thing if it was just the horrors but it's all the little horrorcitos también
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we talk a lot about ohhhh what if my calling is to be the greatest mammoth hunter ever and I'm wasting my talents in the modern era but we never think about what if Thog from 30,000 BCE was the only person ever born who could get a sub-7min Donkey Kong Country any%, and he never got the chance. what about thog
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@cryptidwithacopiccollection
get fran'd
omg that's my good friend fran ??? can u say hi to fran from me
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so even if you haven't been writing, have u been holding onto any ideas? concepts you want to work on?
Ah! thanks for writing to me! I took a long time to answer and I apologize but I wasn't too sure what to say.
Ah.. I guess in terms of writing I used to have some original things going on. Mostly, I had OCs that I never speak of that I wanted to develop to explore some concepts. I don't... have anything concrete plotwise, but I do remember the themes.
Back then I was very interested in the concepts of generativity (the desire of people as they grow old to pass on some kind of legacy or teaching to the next generations) and ways to do so that don't involve family in the birth sense, but also AREN'T found family either.
So for instance, I had this one character who is a middle aged woman that doesn't have a family fall back on, and is also very ace/aro. And she doesn't want that to change, per se, but still wants to pass on stuff in some other way. Still wants to do something for a community even if she feels like she can't get close to them in the traditional way.
Or... I had this one character who's like, a kindergarten teacher, and she has a partner that is super supportive but they either don't or can't have their own children. And yet still she wants to have an impact on her students, and in a way finds joy through her work.
And a few more OCs, with other themes around them.
I feel like right now I'm not the person in the right mindset to write something that takes more than a day haha. I think I'm more of a a shorter stories person. In that front I guess I try to make short pieces here and there. A few verses, a drabble, and so on.
And well, fandom stuff. But those are different beasts.
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Reblogging would be a great help, but don’t feel pressured to
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So we all know that Tumblr is US-centric. But to what degree? (and can we skew the results of this poll by posting it at a time where they should be asleep?)
Reblog to increase sample size!
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if u cant describe ur own stuff on tumblr u can still help ur visually impaired followers with 2 quick things:
look in the notes to see if someone already wrote a description. a lot of the time, someone already has
if theres no description in the notes or u cant write ur own, please tag the post as undescribed, so we can avoid inaccessible posts!
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So we all know that Tumblr is US-centric. But to what degree? (and can we skew the results of this poll by posting it at a time where they should be asleep?)
Reblog to increase sample size!
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they used to make smackable technology. you used to be able to hit your tv when it didn't work good.
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They should invent ayudantes that don't fucking suck
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reblog to give the person you reblogged from the strength to complete The Task™
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reblog to give the person you reblogged from the strength to complete The Task™
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