Like, I can cook and I do cook multiple nights a week but it's just never going to be something to express my love other than the expression of love being that I did this thing for you that I really dislike and that took a lot out of me because I love you. It used to be a minor point of shame for me that I feel this way about cooking and feeding, but kink is about doing stuff that you enjoy. You don't have to put yourself into boxes or roles that you don't enjoy just because those boxes or roles exist. You are still a good feeder or encourager even if you don't like cooking or can't cook or aren't able to take in the role of providing food for someone else ❤️

time to be nosy again

I once heard the phrase “she engulfed him” rather than “he penetrated her.” and that changed my life forever

framing pussy as something small and passive and receptive is fun but limiting. like yeah yeah tight wet pussy getting pounded. whatever. love that. im also here for fat cunt smothering and clamping down violently around fingers and dicks like industrial machinery & i highly recommend you get into it too

Thank you feedism community for allowing such a live and flowing conversation of fat liberation and stuff. Thank you to everyone who boosts these conversations and get involved and aren't just here to get their rocks off and leave. You've done so much for how people live and see themselves :) Thank you for creating a space where I don't feel silly about sharing posts about fatness in society.

yes great point! make your home accessible!! for your partner, AND yourself!

having a mid/superfat partner has helped me realize that I never even made accommodations for myself as a fat person too. ❤️ I installed a bidet when I met him, and its made me see the ways I’ve denied myself accessibility. next I should really get towels that can actually close around my body! 😅 there’ll be no shame in this fat household!!

Pro tip: if you date fat folks, you should have bath sheets, not regular lil’ towels.

i hate when i see something that at the surface looks like something i’d be interested in, say a wg fic or a message on a dating app, but on closer inspection it’s written by someone who actually thinks that being fat, and fat people, are bad. Like the author thinks there is nothing worse than being fat, nothing could possibly be more humiliating, etc. and that’s what they like about this whole thing.

not that having different opinions from me is wrong but it’s hard for me to comprehend that view. Like, you DONT find fat bellies aesthetically pleasing, fat people inherently attractive?? Then what are we doing here? Oh you are projecting your hangups onto me as a fat person in service to your humiliation fantasy? and expect me to be cool with that???

Or something like that.

how i sleep knowing that there is nothing wrong with me for having a kink and having a kink is a perfectly normal experience and acknowledging and participating in my kink in healthy ways is good for me and kinks are wonderful things

okay i hate to do this but i had to make another trip to the urgent care and the budget is real tight at the end of the month. anything will help, my venmo is @/NexusRasp or my paypal link is here

Lion King 1 and 1/2

LMAO 🤣 I’ll take any excuse to rewatch that masterpiece of a film

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kink be damned, one thing about feeders is that they’re the most hospitable people you’ll ever meet

Lol did I watch this summary video tonight? Nooo

men over 300lbs. that's it. that's the post.

I theorize the reason "bottoms" appear more prevalent than "tops" on these types of spaces is that it is simply easier to be funny about being a bottom than about being a top without sounding like a sex offender

"uuuuu 🥺 pls cock me aaaaaaaa *runs into wall like Wile E Coyote running into his own tunnel painting*" easy as shit comedy

"I want to put my DICK in someone" whoa dude calm down, take it easy

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