te-sodaa
『 Dekoda 』
⊹【 Hi! My name is Dekoda - (People close to me call me Jinx) - You can also call me Soda 】⊹《 I’m nonbinary so They/Them pronouns please 》｡ °「 Asexual and panromantic 」｡ °.♡‧ Dating @mama-mayako, @donutsarefantastic and @lavenderarrangementz‧♡
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Me trying to get into Cookie Run Kingdom
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Mukuro Ikusaba. The sixteenth student, lying hidden somewhere in this school. The one they call the Ultimate Despair. Watch out for her.
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“Welp guess I’m a problem”
“Yes”
@te-sodaa We are Tommy and Tubbo now
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Bro this stream is fucking me up
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Im getting a chicken bone to draw on your car window 😡
Stop being american, it's not cute.. 👁🗨👁🗨
Oh my fucking god who took my nails out of my mouth 👿
Im gonna jump off a moving bus into the river 😋
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what r my vibes...
i made this instead of doing my homework
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It’s mental health awareness month! How to support someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder.
If they disclose to you that they have DID:
DO:
• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.
• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.
• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.
Helpful things to say or ask:
• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?
• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”
• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”
• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”
• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”
DON’T:
• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.
• Ask them what their trauma is.
• Call them crazy.
• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)
• Bombard them with questions.
• Demand proof.
• Force then to switch as evidence.
• React in an unkind or rude way.
• Minimize or invalidate them.
• Tell them DID isn’t real.
• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.
• Demand any answers from them.
Unhelpful things to say or ask:
• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”
• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”
• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”
• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”
• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”
• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”
• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”
• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”
• “Tell me your triggers.”
If they’re switching or dissociating:
DO:
• Be patient with them.
• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.
• Politely ask who’s fronting.
• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.
• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.
DON’T:
• Snap or clap in their face.
• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.
• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.
• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.
• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.
• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 
DID is a highly stigmatized disorder. People fear disclosing this disorder to their loved ones, because their safety could be compromised. They trusted you enough to tell you. It is your job to create a space of love, acceptance, and respect for them.
🖤 Delphine
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@ people who don't celebrate christmas and are currently having christmas shoved down their throats
i hope whatever holiday you celebrate is fun and well!! and if you don’t celebrate any holidays this time of year, i hope your day is nice anyways!
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Haha
I am not okay
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Me, in less than an hour: Joins a server, stops a fight, and gets admin
Me right after: Hey what if I got myself banned
I think I just destroyed an entire conversation just by saying what the definition of a joke is
And got admin for doing it
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I think I just destroyed an entire conversation just by saying what the definition of a joke is
And got admin for doing it
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You should do an Leon one 👁👁
I might! Probably not today though
#since it will probably be a while before i get to this#ill tag you when i make it#soda answers#sodas friends#this is probably gonna be the only one ill do#thats like#asked for#idk why i always lose motivation#when something is requested#i probably would have made an edit blog#if that didn't happen
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I made another one
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*burger king foot lettuces into your asks* Im fucking britknee now bitch
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