Praying for the day we stop using "femme" to mean "not those icky cishet men". My hot take is that if you want your event or group to be a safe space for women, trans people, and other queer people your goal should be to create an atmosphere and culture of respect and support, not use weird vague definitions to wink wink nudge nudge keep out genders you arbitrarily decide are unwelcome
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