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sorikkung · 2 years

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I don't mind, I just like talking to you anyways and this is a good excuse 🙃 first things first I'm in my mom's place, so I'm almost 100km away from where I live and I thought would be a good idea to open up Tinder and see if I could match with some interesting people now so basically I have two gossips about my midnight Tinder matches.

First one was with this really sweet guy that lives in my city. He's a hella sportist and even participates on jiu-jitsu championships. You know those quiet math guys that don't usually talk much but they are very talkative when it comes to his interests and this hard shell is only to protect a big warm heart? Is him. And the fact that it only took me a a couple of DAYS to get so close of him bothered and scared me a lot. Right now, we're in a video call and he keeps saying that I'm pretty and that he's falling in love with me and I can see, by the way he looks at me, that it trully might have something going on.

I don't know, I feel a little scared about it, not gonna lie, but I assume I'm intrigued as well as I want to try out and see where it goes but is all so unsure...

This second gossip is about some friends of mine from here. They used to date for a long time, I met them with already two years of relationship on their backs so, this year they would be like, 6 years together. As I said, I was at Tinder and I saw this profile with a picture I've seen before. I went to this friend Insta and the picture was there, same name, age, place, everything was the same. I was gagged but, anyway, brushed it off because it might be a fake profile or maybe they were seeking for someone to spicy up their relationship, I don't know, I was trying to create an excuse for why was him there that wasn't because he was cheating.

Obviously, I swiped right on him because, if he was really cheating, he would know I saw him and I knew what he was doing. But that left me really unsettled, so I went to Insta again. I checked both his and hers profiles and they weren't following each other anymore, all their cute photos with texts celebrating their birthdays were also gone... Was like they were never together. I even checked her TikTok videos and, apparently, she had returned to her parents house after a year living with him.

They had broke up and I heard about it from Tinder 🤡

To add up: he just text me today, while I was in call with this new guy and legit asked about a hook-up. Like a good slut, I said he could pass by with drinks and drugs and we would party and kiss like good friends do 🙃 so I guess this will have more scenes to come. And I hope I can kiss her as a friend too, they're both hot

this is so wild lmFAOooo mainly the second part but damn look at you go??? mfs fallin in love w you n shit??? goals???? i keep telling myself ill never stoop as low as to download tinder bc too many straight people but honestly all the lgbt focused dating apps be kinda dry i might as well 😭😭 doesnt help that i usually leave convos on read bc they bore me easily or just take too much effort... oof. but i digress. why are you so scared of where things are going w your tinder match? lmfao right now as in as you type this?? does he know youre gossiping abt him to a random australian online 😭😭

as for the second part at least theres no cheating, but if you kiss them separately when they seem to have broken up on bad enough terms to wipe it all i feel like thatd cause drama... but if youre not super close w them and just wanna shitstir, im not gonna deter you lmFAOoo live ur hoe life bestie. wish that were me (i say, with like 37 bitches in my dms i ghosted bc i ran out of things to say to them and they didnt interest me enough to ask to meet SDFGSDFKHSDFH)

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illicitlimerence-writes · 2 years

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first | p. gasly

pairing: pierre gasly x reader word count: 2.6k words prompt: letter k: kiss. from this christmas alphabet prompt list. warnings: language, family, not proofread bc i've been awake for 23 hours. a/n: day eleven, i think. i am so sorry if you're name is bella, i just picked a random name!

my masterlist/ christmas alphabet masterlist

"pierre! mon ami, my best friend in the whole entire world!" the boy i've liked for as long as i can remember. you exclaimed as pierre opened the door to his apartment. you opened your arms dramatically, fake smiling from ear to ear.

"what do you want?" he asked as he narrowed his eyes at you, you dropped the act, your arms falling to your sides.

"i need to ask for a teeny, tiny favor," you said as you out the pads of your thumb and index finger together. he let you in, his back against the closed door.

"what kind of favor?" he questioned as he crossed his arms over his chest. you covered your face with your hands as you plopped down on one of the chairs in his living room.

"so you know bella, right?" you began, peeking through your fingers as you watched him sit next to you, rolling his eyes at the mention of your annoying cousin.

"yeah," he said as he furrowed his eyebrows, you removed your hands from your face, resting them on your stomach as your fingers played together.

"so... the other day, she kept asking me about you-" you began but he interrupted you.

"oh, no," he grunted.

"hold on. so, she was asking about you, if you're single, taken, whatever. and i, being the best friend that i am, told her you had a girlfriend so she could leave the subject in peace," you explained, moving your hands as you spoke.

"but she didn't?" he guessed, you nodded.

"she didn't," you repeated. "instead, she wanted to know more about her, she kept pestering about why i didn't tell her sooner, you know how she is," he nodded. "and then, my aunt and my mom walked in. and chaos began." you paused, throwing your head back. "bella told them, and they got all excited and then they began asking about you and your girlfriend. i'd just like to point out that my family loves you so much, they were all so happy to find out about your fake girlfriend," you smiled, but he noticed how it didn't reach your eyes.

"what did you do?" he asked, raising an eyebrow, just like before, you huffed before confessing.

"please don't hate me."

"never,"

"you might want to rethink that after i tell you what happens next," you pointed out. "okay, so, suddenly, my whole family's in the living room with me, and they're all asking about her. what she does for a living, how you met, how you asked her out, how long you've been together," you rambled. "and you know how i get under pressure,"

"you panic,"

"i panicked!" you repeated. "and i didn't even realize it until it was too late..."

"what?"

"that i started telling them... our story."

"i don't follow,"

"neither did they, until i slipped up and my mom noticed."

"(y/n)... what-"

"i told them i was your girlfriend!" you interrupted him.

"oh,"

"please don't hate me," you rubbed the sides of your forehead.

"i don't hate you,"

"god, i knew you were gonna ha- what?" you turned to him.

"i don't hate you." he shook his head side to side, reaching for your hand. "it's fine, a little white lie never hurt nobody," he shrugged his shoulders.

"they want you to spend christmas with us," you blurted out, watching his face fall.

"oh,"

"oh, indeed, mon ami,"

you were a wreck. your hands were shaking so badly that you decided to skip the eyeliner. you heard the rest of your family arriving at your parents' house, who were hosting this year, to celebrate christmas. when you received a text from pierre, telling you he was about five minutes away, you took three deep breaths, counted to ten and walked downstairs.

you said hi to everyone, spending a bit more time catching up with your cool aunt and cousins, faking a smile for those you didn't get along with. you crossed your leg over the other, talking to one of your cousins who you hadn't seen in a long time, until you felt someone sitting beside you on the large sofa.

"so, (y/n), where's pierre?" you hated the way bella pronounced his name, it sounded like she was purring.

"on his way," you simply said without looking at her, resisting the urge to roll your eyes.

"sure, sure," she raised an eyebrow. "so, tell me, when did you even start dating?" there was no doubt in your mind that she was doubting your story.

"not that long ago," you answered vaguely.

"and why didn't you tell anyone?"

"leave her alone, bella," your other cousin intervened.

"what? i'm just asking what everyone's thinking," she lifted a shoulder.

"then maybe you should shut up," he said, leaving her speechless. she got up and left, you gave your cousin a grateful smile, feeling your phone buzzing in your hand.

you left the busy room, going to the bathroom so you could listen to pierre.

"hey," you answered.

"i am looking for a parking spot," he said, "can you come out? i need your help with some things,"

"what did you do?" you asked, in the same tone he'd used with you weeks ago.

"it's christmas, i couldn't come empty-handed." you opened the door once you heard him turn off the car. slipping away unnoticed.

"looking good, (y/l/n)," he said as you approached him. you twirled around as you stopped in front of him. his smile was wide, eyes roaming over your figure.

"you don't look too bad yourself," you answered, leaning your weight on one leg.

"merci, ma belle," he leaned in to kiss your cheek. staying there a few seconds more, you felt him tucking a strand of hair behind your ear. "your family's looking through the window," he whispered. and you whined, resting your forehead on his chest.

"oh, my god. i'm so sorry i dragged you into this mess," you scratched your forehead.

"more like you dragged yourself into this mess,"

"don't make me feel worse,"

"it's fine, we'll be fine," he said, grabbing your face in his hands, pinching your cheeks. "the key is to not stir too far away from the truth," he said. "you just have to act like you used to with one of your-" he said, until he froze and wrapped his arms around your frame, "i'm sorry. i didn't-"

"it's fine," you muttered from your spot in his chest.

the thing was, you'd never had a relationship before, hadn't even given your first kiss yet. and pierre knew that, which was why he decided, at that moment, to make it as real for you as he could, as real as he wanted it to be.

"i think your mom just passed out," he said, he still had a perfect view of the window.

"i don't want to go in," you whispered, lifting your head from his chest.

"let's go, the sooner we do this, the sooner it's over," he placed a kiss on top of your head.

he lifted himself from the side of the car, where he was leaning. reluctantly you unwrapped yourself from him. "let's do this, if you need me, you just squeeze my hand three times, and i'll do the same if i need you,"

you gathered the bottles of wine that pierre brought, he took some from you, grabbing your hand with his free one. you watched your family fleeting the scene, the curtains shifting from the movement.

"ready?" he asked.

"no,"

pierre's fingers were holding yours tightly, reassuring you that he was there for you if you needed him. you squeezed his hand like he said, and he immediately shifted the subject from you two to your grandma's new knitting project. you leaned your head in his shoulder as he asked more questions about her hobby and seemed genuinely interested as she spoke.

"come on, everyone! dinner's ready!" your mother called and everyone rushed to the dining room. pierre stood up first, when everyone had left the living room, and he offered his hands to you.

"let's go," he said, you slipped your hands in his as he pulled you up a little too hard, making you collide against his chest, your faces only inches apart.

your breath hitched as you stood close enough to notice the tiny red veins in his cheeks, the little bit of gray in his eyes. his eyes roamed your face, you watched his eyes switching from your own eyes to the lower side of your face, was there something on your mouth?

"hey, lovebirds, dinner's getting cold!" one of your uncles yelled as the rest chuckled.

"i'm so sorry," you shook your head side to side slightly, but pierre wrapped an arm around you, smiling.

"it's fine. i've known them for so long, i know how to handle them. we'll be fine."

you were not fine. at all.

everyone kept asking questions about your relationship. how you realized your feelings were more than platonic, who made the first move, where you saw yourselves in the future.

pierre was doing an amazing job at keeping his cool and answering everything as honestly and consistently as he could, and you tried your best to remember every detail of the made-up story he told. until the questions were being directed at you.

"(y/n), this is such good news why didn't you tell us?" your aunt said, you could tell that she meant well, but it caught you off guard since all the attention was on pierre.

"yes! you know pierre is almost part of the family, we're all so happy that you two are finally together?" your mom said.

"finally?" the word slipped out of your mouth without you noticing.

"well, yes, since the moment you first introduced pierre we all knew that someday it would turn into something more. it was meant to be," she finished.

you didn't answer, focusing instead on the plate in front of you, you pushed around the food with your fork. more people began talking, your eyes shifted from one to another, all of a sudden you felt too overwhelmed by all the loud voices all at once.

a soft touch on your thigh was everything you could focus on. pierre's fingers gripped your thigh, you place your hand on top of his, thankful that the dinner table covered your actions. he let go of your thigh, turning his hand as you immediately slipped your fingers between his, squeezing his hand three times.

"well, i can only speak for myself, but i think that from the first moment we met i knew that (y/n) would be in my life for a long time." pierre interrupted everyone, catching everyone's attention, your eyes on your joined hands. "i've always been grateful to have her by my side, whether as a friend or... something more," his eyes flew to you briefly. "she means so much to me that... i guess when i realized my feelings for her were deeper, i never said anything because i was afraid those feelings weren't reciprocated." you didn't mean to grip his hand at that moment, causing him to look at you instantly.

your eyes were filled with tears, his face changed to worry as he scanned your face.

"are you alright?" he said, you gave him a small smile, letting go of his hand.

"excuse me," you said as you stood up and walked to your old bedroom.

why did this affect you so much? why was your heart aching at the thought of pierre having actual feelings for you? why had you gotten yourself into this mess? why were you freaking out in your childhood bedroom, with your whole family downstairs waiting for you?

"(y/n)? ma belle, are you okay? is it alright if i come in?" pierre asked, knocking lightly on your door. you waited a few seconds, trying to calm yourself down before opening the door.

he walked in, placing his hands on your upper arms.

"i'm sorry. i- i don't know why-" you shook your head as you chuckled humorlessly. you walked away from him, running a hand through your hair.

"(y/n), did i make you feel uncomfortable with what i said? i didn't mean to, i-"

"uncomfortable? you think that you... with that perfect speech about how you pretended to want me- i-" you cut yourself off, couldn't even finish one sentence without getting a new, frenzied thought in your head.

"what?"

"fuck, you didn't make me uncomfortable, it just..." you stopped yourself as you gathered your breath.

"come here, sit," he said as he guided you to the bed. "talk to me," he whispered.

"you know i've never had... any type of romantic experience. and tonight you- you've been perfect. charming my family, defending me from my irritating cousins, and just being the best boyf- fake boyfriend," you corrected yourself, your eyes widening as you almost slipped up. "you made me feel wanted," you admitted, looking to the old carpet floor. "and it- it's so complicated now, because i know you're just doing this for the mess i created and you probably don't mean any of that and now i'll feel even worse knowing that the first time someone made me feel special was just... pretend," you rambled, talking fast as you let your thoughts out.

you waited for him to reply, say something, do something other than stare at you with his perfect blue eyes with that soft look on them.

"and now i've ruined it. i'm sorry i don't- i'll go down there and tell them all the truth. you can leave, i don't want to drag you into a bigger mess." you stood up, leaving him sitting on your bed. you opened the door, mentally preparing yourself for the whirlwind of emotions coming up.

a hand wrapped around your arm, turning you around and pulling you into a hard chest.

"it wasn't pretend," he simply said, just like before, your faces were extremely close.

"what?"

"what i said down there, it wasn't fake. here i go, i guess." he smiled to himself. "you know how they kept asking how i knew that what i felt was something more than platonic?" you nodded. "that day never came, because i've liked you from the moment we met. i've made my peace with just being friends a long time ago. but then you walked into my apartment, looking adorable with that small frown on your forehead, asking me to be your boyfriend."

"fake boyfriend," you corrected.

"it wasn't fake to me," he said. "and now you know it." he whispered. you opened your mouth to say something but he interrupted you, "before you say anything, can i just say that it's been a great honor being your first fake boyfriend, and hopefully the last, as well."

"how about the first real one?" you asked. he froze in place.

"what?"

"how would you like to me by first, official boyfriend?" you looked into his eyes.

"it'd be a dream come true, mon ange. there's nothing i wish more than to make you the happiest person on earth,"

"are you for real?" you asked, looking down to where his fingers were laced through yours, his thumb rubbing on the back of your hand. he didn't speak, rather leaned in and softly pressed his lips on yours, therefore claiming your first kiss as his.

he guided you, held your head at the right angle, and let you set a pace you were comfortable with.

your eyes remained closed seconds after the first kiss ended, letting him pepper your entire face and neck with feather-light touches from his lips. you felt his hands holding your waist, pulling you close to his chest. you let his warmth embrace you, relishing and wishing this moment never had to end.

"you were my first kiss,"

"and hopefully your last," he grinned.

"we'll see about that, you'll have to work hard, i have high standards," you raised an eyebrow.

"oh, really?"

"yeah. did i ever tell you about that time my best friend pretended to be my boyfriend to save me from eternal embarrassment? that man is a saint, i tell you. what do you have to offer?"

"how about a lifetime of unconditional love, adventures, and complete devotion?"

"deal."

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xnchxntmxnt · 3 years

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Hey this is for your matchups which again yayyy congrats on nearly 200!! Anyways for my matchup:

1-3) My nickname is Em, she/her and idm who you pair me with

4) I'd describe myself as shy at first then once you get to know me I'll open up, an overthinker and I like to be organized

My hobbies are writing, I really love it alot, I also like to draw if I get time and I love music alot too

In a partner I'd look for someone who makes me laugh and who's patient

For dealbreakers it's pretty general but I couldn't be with someone who doesn't consider other ppl's feelings

5) I don't have an aesthetic but I like pastel aesthetics but then I also like dark aesthetics and light academia so it's a mix I guess

6) Colours to describe me would be teal blue and silver, well according to you anyways

7) Right now I'd say my favourite song is Tru Luv Street by Awfultune or Fight Night Champion by Cyberbully Mom Club

8) Idk about a specific genre but some artists I like rn are: Awfultune, Carpetgarden, Cavetown, Clem Turner, Cyberbully Mom Club, Girl in Red, Joji, Lorde, Matt Maltese and Twenty One Pilots (sorry that's alot)

9) Ooh and I wanted to include that my favourite book is Radio Silence by Alice Oseman

Thank you in advance and also ily, you deserve all the love and more!! <3

EM MY BELOVED I HAVE DONE IT

@sugasfanfics this was so fun wtf like-- ugh i love this

ANYWAY i know i already kinda spilled the beans but im gonna match you with....

✧𝐴𝑘𝑎𝑎𝑠ℎ𝑖 𝐾𝑒𝑖𝑗𝑖✧

AGASHIII

and no it's not just because you're already in love w him i have good reasoning behind this because i said so anyWAY

✧𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑀𝑒𝑡✧

how you met, for in case you cant see my fancy text

Cafe

C a f e

But like

A cafe specifically for nerds

This is just my like 2nd dream job okay but like hear me out

They have coffee & tea & a bookshelf full of old books and a chalkboard

You can write all over the chalkboard

You write super tiny and just let a little mini vent out in the corner because you’re stressed out and need to get everything off your chest

BUT you come back the next day and there’s a little note in the same little corner

Your message is gone

But instead is a little note from someone

“If you ever need to talk to someone, let me know”

And an Instagram username

So you give it a shot and you’re like why not talk to this random person Y’know maybe make a new friend if anything just thank them for the offer

You message him and start talking (and low key stalk his page just to see what he’s like, or maybe that’s just me being a snoop) and he’s actually really cool! So you guys meet up and get coffee and actually start talking all the time it’s really sweet

✧𝐺𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑙 𝐻𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑐𝑎𝑛𝑜𝑛𝑠✧

general headcanons

When i think of akaashi, I think of stars

When i think of you, i think of picnics and for some reason, water

Like the ocean

SO EVEN IF ITS NOT THE OCEAN

Your ‘spot’ is by this lake where he took you on a date one time

Maybe for an anniversary or something

But you guys did a little picnic dinner thing and were out when the sun went down so sat and stared at the stars

You buried a rock there and both of you like to stand on that spot where the rock is when youre there with the other

Or send the other a picture like “hiii baby look what i found” w your shoe in the picture

Bokuto is your #1 shipper high key

Like he thinks you two are so cute

He loves you so much too like

He and akaashi are kinda a package deal so like if ur dating akaashi ur dating bokuto just with less kissing (bokuto likes to kiss your cheek or forehead) (after making sure this was ok with akaashi of course) (ur his girlfriend of course)

But anyway just bokuto

He’s so sweet

And so clueless

You two will be walking together and then he’ll just walk up behind you and sling his arms over your shoulders

If youre holding hands w akaashi? He’ll put his hand over both of yours

God now i wanna write a fic but anyway

Bo is just the sweetest and is akaashi’s #1 hype man when he’s worried about a date

He’s ur #2 bc im ur #1 sorry to tell u

Bo totally tried to coin the platonic soulmates thing i love you kou but gtfo my em

Im arguing with fictional characters

ANYWAY

When akaashi is stressed he likes to wrap his arms around you and lay his head against your neck

He’ll never admit it out loud because he thinks its weird but he thinks you smell nice

When he’s starting to overthink too much + spiral he just will grab you and hug you until all the bad thoughts go away

When he thinks to of course

When he doesn’t, there are times you gotta find him and calm him down

Which he loves so much

Sit him down on the floor so he feels more grounded and hold his hand (or hook pinkies that's so cute i jhbflebf) (not the time spencer gtfo)

That way ur not crowding him but you’re still there y'know

And sometimes he’ll talk, sometimes you need to talk him down, sometimes you just sit in silence

Eventually he will lean forward into you and hug you because he doesn't want to talk, but he wants you to know he’s okay

Rub his back, kiss his head, you’ll both be okay

He’s really good with you too

When you’re stressed out he might push a couple buttons but he means well

He just wants to know who made his star upset (he calls you his star or darling convince me otherwise)

So he pushes buttons until you finally talk about it because obviously it’s bothering you why wouldn't you talk about it?? He just wants to fix it??

Sometimes this gets more irritating, sometimes it helps, it depends on the day

But even if you do get into an argument, expect to hear from him before the end of the night apologizing because he feels so bad for arguing with you that he doesn’t even care what the argument was about he just wants to make sure you still love him

I think im getting off topic but tbh this part is always just me rambling lol

Another thing I think of when I think of akaashi is rain. I don't know why but i do

You have to at least know OF the notebook & the rain scene to get this

I don't know the book lol i just know this much and i'm a dork so we’re using it & some quotes just a heads up

But just imagine its pouring and you’re bored and text him like “i wish i could see you but its raining & we didn't really make plans & i don't want you to get caught in the rain anywhere”

This mfer

RUNS ALL THE WAY TO UR HOUSE

JUST SHOWS UP

OUT OF NO WHERE

And being the freakin

book nerd he is

He texts you and goes “I wrote you 365 letters.”

And then just “(come to the door and I’ll finish the quote)”

So you bolt to the front door

And there he is

Soaking wet & smiling like an idiot

“I wrote to you everyday for a year.”

To which you start laughing and barley are able to make out a “it wasn’t over’ (which is the beginning of the next quote) before kissing him

And this jerk pulls you out in the rain with him because WHAT is more romantic than kissing in the rain

Nothing

Anyway he ends up with a cold but you give him some of the clothes you probably stole from him to get into dry clothes and you cuddle under the covers with tea

After you smack him (playfully of course) because “you IDIOT keiji it's pouring out here!!” “I wanted to see you too so i ran over” “you're impossible”

Anyway yeah #emkaashiotp

✧𝐴 𝐷𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝐼𝑑𝑒𝑎✧

a date idea

Bookstore

I'm really good at naming places aren't i

Anyway

Bookstore date

But do something fun where the two of you have to go through an aisle and find a random page and read it in the like

How do i explain this

Make it sound suuuuper sexual without it actually being that way and not laugh

Whoever loses buys lunch

Lets just say you lose a lot dear im sorry (he insists on buying anyway, sometimes he wins that argument)

You’re smiley :) (guys her smile is so cute ebflbejfb em ILY)

Oh also doesn’t matter if he bought lunch or not he always gets you something

Whether it be that book you decided you couldn't get this time or a little trinket that reminded him of you, or sometimes it’s just ice cream

It’s all very sweet (hahaha pun)

He always walks you home and gives you a little kiss when he drops you off

Doesn’t leave till you’re inside & he knows you’re good

You make him promise to text you when he gets home

Which he does, without fail

✧𝑍𝑜𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑐 𝐶𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦✧

zodiac compatibility

Sagittariuses are very intelligent, fair-minded & honest, similar to a Libra’s cleverness & rationale. Because of this similarity, trust is a huge thing in these relationships. It can be all or nothing, but finding balance is important to keep both people happy. Luckily, Libras are very good at this. From everything I’ve seen, these signs together have a very high compatibility and can have a very long-withstanding and healthy relationship.

✧𝐴𝑒𝑠𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑡𝑖𝑐✧

aesthetic

✧𝑃𝑙𝑎𝑦𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡✧

playlist

House of Gold - Twenty-One Pilots

Lvr Boy - awfultune

A Shitty Love Song - Jye

Darling Get Up - awfultune

Something Just Like This - Alex Goot

✧𝑅𝑢𝑛𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑈𝑝✧

runners up

Nishinoya Yuu, Sugawara Koushi

#//ᴍᴀᴛᴄʜᴜᴘꜱ

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sirene312 · 3 years

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i'm back at home

This have to be the first time that the reason I disappeared here was not because I lost my internet, I don't even know how to start the nightmare that these last two-three months have been. What happened to me it's something so horrendous that i need to get this out of my chest now that i have the chance so i don't have to think about this whole experience ever again. sorry in advance but this is going to be a long post.

Before you read this I want you to keep in mind that I live in a south american country falling apart with many problems (here's a translated thread (x) of the things happening on in my country. here’s the original with images (x) caution some images are distressing) where crazy things like this happen with impunity because literally nothing here works and that includes justice.

My dad passed away suddenly at the end of August, my brother and I went to his house that is on the other side of the city, and when we got there, apparently there were some “friends” living with him: a man, a woman and a child. At the time, since I was distracted by being utterly devastated and my mind was clouded with pain i didn't realize what this could mean, after all my dad had many many friends, but still i thought it was a little weird since we talked to my dad frequently on the phone and he never told us about these randos.

After the funeral, since we still needed to do more legal stuff and wanted to save to give him a proper grave/tombstone we decided to stay and live at my dad’s house (now ours by law) for a few weeks until we took care of everything. and this is where the nightmare starts.

We asked these "friends” of his when they would leave and go back to their place and they never gave us a clear answer, they were very evasive and never told us why they didn't want to go to their own home... and you know why? because they didn't have one. They were squatters. Here they are called “invaders” and you can read in these news articles (x) how they act (x), in our case these squatters were non violent but they did make our lives hell, because since we couldn't get them out we had to live with them or we would have lost our dad’s house and everything inside.

In this stupid country if the squatters got into your home in a non violent way, you can't just force them to get out. Yes, you read that right. That is why we didn't went to the police, we knew they weren't going to do anything, they only do something if you have money, have contacts in the police, or a bunch of people make a fuss and attract media attention.

The only thing we could do legally was go to la Fiscalía (I don't know what's the equivalent in English the persecution I think?) and file a complaint and some other paperwork, all that legal process can take years and meanwhile, the squatters can live there as they please and you can’t get inside your home again or get your things out...God...as you can imagine that was definitely not an option.

After much thought we decided to sacrifice some of the money we had and got a lawyer for advice in what to do, and she said that while she searched for another legal way to get them out asap, we had to live in the house and don't ever leave it unoccupied, always my brother or I had to be there, because otherwise the squatters could change the locks and then there would not be anything we could do to get back in. I didn't want to do that but we had no other choice. Nothing could have prepared us to the things we would have to endure there.

Here are some the horrible things they did while we were living there:

They rearranged everything inside the house. We just lost our dad and I couldn't even keep the memory of how his house was decorated and how his things looked the way he had them. they moved around every little thing. it stills hurts, they had not right.

They STOLE many things of my dad. They were only old things with very little value, but to me, their sentimental value was incalculable. like for example imagine that favorite chipped coffee mug your mom loves, or your grandpa reading glasses, or that comfy cardigan your granny likes to use when knitting, now imagine that a random stranger took them without permission and is using them as they please, worse because your loved one is no longer here and that is the only thing you had left of them. Now you have an idea of how sad and indignant i felt.

They never wore masks or didn't even wash their hands, they didn't care they were putting us all at risk with their lack of hygienic measures, in fact mocked us because we were super clean and wore masks when they were near us.

The woman pretended to have a serious medical condition and would threaten to report us for attempted murder if we spoke to her in any way that she wouldn't like because getting “upset” triggered her “condition”. Which is ironic since I’m the one with a heart condition and she could have jeopardize my health with all the stress she and her husband were subjecting me everyday.

They turned all the neighbors against us! that evil woman would pretend to have “fits” of “her disease” right on the street were the neighbors would witness it to gain sympathy and later tell them that we caused her that, they believed her and everyone on our street hated us, and even all of them signed a bullshit letter to have us evicted from our own house and to let them keep the house. Good thing that wasn't legal and the government office ignored that ridiculous letter.

They used everything inside the house without permission, like our refrigerator, the kitchen appliances, the washing machine, the stereo, our water and food, our frigging clean bed sheets, it was like that was their home and WE were the intruders. that made me so so mad.

They psychologically tormented us. They took advantage of our emotionally fragile state to do and say things to get us so upset so we would leave the house for good. And they almost got it, my mental health was a mess, grieving and dealing with this was too much but our mom convinced us to stay, she said our dad wouldn't have wanted us to lose our house to these damn thieves.

and speaking of theft...they even tried to steal OUR DOG. The kid one day said “this is now my dog! our new dog, my mom said so!” and i was like wHAT NO! but i just said something like “but we love him we’ll be very sad and lonely if he's not by our side” bc i didn't want to upset the kid. She was very sweet and innocent, she and I actually got along well and played sometimes (she gave me drawings that i still have and i gave her some paper crafts and my childhood toys) it was not her fault that her parents were evil. That horrible man wasn't even her father, he treated her bad, god I hated how he yelled at her and made her cry she was just a little child, i wish i could have had the power to do something.

At this point you must be thinking, why the hell were you acting like a doormat?? why did you allowed them to treat you like this!! why didn't you do something!? oh believe me I was very vocal in my discontent and didn't give them an inch, but the thing is there was little we could do, if we tried to talk to them they ignored us at best, police were not going to help (we at one point did end up going to the police station just to get told what we already knew: that they couldn't do anything), and even when one day i snapped and i told them to leave us alone and not touch our things, they just brushed me off. They knew if things escalated and violence of any kind were used against them we could be in legal trouble (same applied to them, that's why they never physically attacked us). We were alone in this battle, didn't have the support of anyone. What else we could do? our hands were tied.

We had to endure all this shit non stopping every day we were there. I was saving all my limited phone data for important things like calls and messages to my mom and my lawyer, so my only source of entertainment was the cable TV, I can't believe that what kept me sane was watching old reruns of Cupcake Wars and home improvement shows.

But the more time passed the more this situation was unbearable and we were not doing well, this distressed my mom so much that she decided to pack a small suitcase and go stay there with us, we didn't want her to do that because she is an elderly woman and her health could be at risk but she didn't care and just show up one evening and let me tell you, after months of not seeing her when she walked through that door i was so happy and relieved and emotional that i started crying two seconds flat and we just hug her for a long time. Damn these people for causing us to be apart when we needed our mom the most.

Now with our mom there I think they felt threatened and so those pathetic fools went so far as to make a false document where it said that they were “our tenants” so they could be protected by law and could stay there “legally” for at least a year or two. That stupid stunt would be their downfall.

We were cited to go to a govt office that deals with rent and housing problems where they were going to present that bogus document, the office needed for all parts to be present there, so my bro, our lawyer and I got there and later the squatters and their kid since they were using the scarce public transport. My mom stayed back at the house alone. I don't know if it was luck or divine intervention (or karma in their case) that the woman in charge couldn't make it and the audience got postponed for the following month, our lawyer was fuming she didn't want those horrible people to spend another whole month at our house, she called my mom and told her to lock all doors and don't let anyone in, we quickly got into the lawyer’s car and got to the house first before the squatters and we put a huge padlock on the door! That way they wouldn't be able to get in, they only had keys (that were originally our spare keys that they stole) to the front door.

I can't even begin to describe how nerve wracking was all this, but for the first time i felt hopeful because finally things were in our favor, now if those squatters tried to get inside of our private property by force they could get in serious trouble. How the turntables bitch!

And that's how we could GET THEM OUT AT LAST.

When they realized they couldn't do anything more than pace furiously on the sidewalk they left (the woman tried having one of her “fits” to get people’s attention but since it started to rain she quickly gave up ha!). We thought they were going to stay in any of the neighbor's houses but they left to who knows where. A few days later we changed the locks and we got our uncle to go stay and live in the house while we finish sorting the legal papers. The only thing i felt sorry was for the kid but we later learned that the squatters found another house to take over the very same day we locked them out, so i know at least that poor little girl is not sleeping on the streets. I feel sad every time i think of her, this is not how a child should be living bc of her deplorable parents. i wish i could have had the chance to say goodbye to her in better terms.

I still can't believe all this happened to us when all we wanted was to get through grieving our dad and give him a better grave with some flowers. Hopefully we can finally finish saving and get that done now that we don't have to stress 24/7 over people wanting to make our lives hell.

I would have liked for this insanely horrible experience to end with them receiving punishment for what the did to us, but by this country standards when dealing with this kind of situation we were very lucky, this was the best outcome many people has told us, and honestly I'm just happy that it's over and I'm back at my home with my family and I’m sleeping on my own bed again.

Last but not least I want to thank everyone that took the time during these months to send me their lovely messages and their condolences, and were very supportive and understanding of my situation, although now is when I'm able to read them, they have made me very happy thank you so much for all your kindness.

and now to end on a high note here's Tomy our sweet dog, that belong to us and we get to keep because he’s ours :)

#personal #since i got here all i have been doing is sleep i feel so tired i guess that's how my body is dealing with the aftermath of all this

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Heyy sorry for replying like 4 days later💌 ahah but thank you for the message and new years wishes! It saddens that you were alone, there could be some solution for y'all to spend the evening together, why the heck would your mom leave you on such a day.. you seem not to be bothered I mean I don't see into it but I wish I could be there w you as I didn't really enjoy it that much, just ate sm food, felt bad about it and watched tv. It was weird without my sister. And I think she loves him way too much, it's been six years of them being in a relationship and she loves him too much, plus she's that type that can't stay mad for too long and indecisive as well, makes her super easy to get manipulated. I could tell her to leave him, she'd agree and then he'd tell her to come back the same day and she'd agree as well, she was trying to stay mad and try to broke up but he was crying and begging telling her he can't imagine having family with anyone else.. Then she would tell me how bad she feels and that it will be the last chance. Not to mention she kicked her out of their flat in the middle of the night last year, he'd steal her keys when she forgets to buy some food, break her things. He got pretty rich during their relationship and now he is prob thinking it's her duty to do everything else ... I don't know what to think anymore I just don't get invested in it. But he got these two sides to him, I got to say I can't stop liking him because I never got to see that other ugly side and we like each other a lot I think it's also because we're both water signs and get each other.

It's nice hearing you got to meet ur therapist again so you feel back on the track and more positive I guess? I can't really tell if it helps you in that way as I'd need one myself. My anxiety got so bad as I don't leave my house that often, I spend like 30 minutes deciding to step out, planning thing ahead even going for a walk, I feel good afterwards but it's so limiting and drives me crazy. :/ Plus my dad got some back pain and I want to visit him in another town and can't bring myself to go, I think I'll go tomorrow if I don't change my mind 10000 times till then. btw this is so random but how is your english so good? I'm not native speaker as well, I've always been pretty good at it I also enjoyed learning russian.. sending hugs <3🥰

hey my love <3 also sorry that i’m replying so late!! first of all, it really wasn’t a big deal being alone on new years! i’m happy when i can just follow my routine and don’t have to do anything that will cause a flare up and i didn’t want to ruin it for my mom so it’s fine!! <3 i really hope your sister can overcome it one day bc this type of person probably won’t change :/ the good moments can never outweigh the bad :( i’ll send both of you virtual strength to overcome it. as for my therapist, i’m really glad she’s back!! even tho i’m sad we only get to see each other once a week now, it’s better than nothing. and the anxiety thing, i really really really get it. i can promise you the only way to not feel scared anymore is to do it over and over again until it feels natural. it will probably not feel good in the beginning but you WILL get better with time and practice. and a therapist would help a lot ofc! did you visit your dad that day? if not i’m still proud of you for trying <3 you can start over every day. as for my english, i’m from germany and it’s taught here from 5th grade on, sometimes even earlier! i also grew up on the internet1, didn’t leave the house and didn’t have friends so i was always online and HAD to learn it. ive been on stan twitter since i was 12/13 😭 and i also just really like languages!! what about you? your english is very good as well!! <3 i hope you’re having a good day today 💌

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ohhhh. maybe... i don't know... all the numbers. yes let's go with all 100 of them

i sincerely hate you and these took forever to answer so you better read ‘em all!!!!!!!! but also thx bc some of these were v nice and fun to answer

1: when you have cereal, do you have more milk than cereal or more cereal than milk? more cereal than milk bc i came for the cereal, not the milk

2: do you like the feeling of cold air on your cheeks on a wintery day? if i’m in a good mood, yes. if i’m in a bad mood…. not at all

3: what random objects do you use to bookmark your books? reciepts usually but i very much prefer actual bookmarks; specifically those with a magnet

4: how do you take your coffee/tea? with honey or sugar and lots of milk

5: are you self-conscious of your smile? i sincerely feel confused about how to smile properly??? so i guess a bit. like i can’t smile on order. i did as a kid but if i did it that way now, ppl would Wonder

6: do you keep plants? i had a cactus a while ago called robert plant but he died. my mum is currently keeping some plants in my room tho and i decorated one with some plastic dinosaurs but they are definitely not my responsiblity. i mean, robert plant died

7: do you name your plants? if you read the sixth answer, you would know that yes i do

8: what artistic medium do you use to express your feelings? writing i guess. idk it’s usually Metaphorically my feelings but i do make attempts to keep a diary sometimes. it doesn’t go well for long

9: do you like singing/humming to yourself? not really

10: do you sleep on your back, side, or stomach? i really really really like sleeping on my side. i’m currently forced to sleep on my back and i do not like it

11: what’s an inner joke you have with your friends? if one shouts sir yes sir then the other one has to shout I CAN’T HEAR YOU PUSSY #tbt @13000ants

12: what’s your favorite planet? tatooine which makes no sense

13: what’s something that made you smile today? leif gw persson was on tv

14: if you were to live with your best friend in an old flat in a big city, what would it look like? there would be books everywhere

15: go google a weird space fact and tell us what it is! neutron stars can spin at a rate of 600 rotations per second

16: what’s your favorite pasta dish? um. macaroni and cheese or pasta salad. NO WAIT milk-stewed macaroni

17: what color do you really want to dye your hair? tbh i’m content with my hair colour

18: tell us about something dumb/funny you did that has since gone down in history between you and your friends and is always brought up. that one time i thought sydney was in asia #tbt @weeplittlelannister

19: do you keep a journal? what do you write/draw/ in it? i do! idk i have one more diary-like, one with lists and drawings and shit… but also a calendar with is also somewhat a bullet journal

20: what’s your favorite eye color? what kind of q….. lmao oscar isaac’s

21: talk about your favorite bag, the one that’s been to hell and back with you and that you love to pieces. my mum gave me aleather messenger box, like a post office bag or whatever and I Love It. it’s tbh never big enough to fit everything but it tries

22: are you a morning person? no

23: what’s your favorite thing to do on lazy days where you have 0 obligations? read

24: is there someone out there you would trust with every single one of your secrets? i was gonna say my grandfather but then i realised there is no way he wwon’t end up telling my grandmother ausifsafa. idk. my stuffed elephant

25: what’s the weirdest place you’ve ever broken into? me and william once broke into this storage room where we live. he stole one of those long light bulbs and hit me in the head with it. it hurt

26: what are the shoes you’ve had for forever and wear with every single outfit? just normal chuck taylors. off-brand tho of course lmao

27: what’s your favorite bubblegum flavor? mint or y’know…. bubblegum

28: sunrise or sunset? both

29: what’s something really cute that one of your friends does and is totally endearing? i know this says friends but listen. when @sneutrinos talks about physics or physicists he admires… his eyes are like Glittering and it’s endearing as fuck. makes me want to listen (or watch lmao) him talk about it for hours

30: think of it: have you ever been truly scared? yes

31: what is your opinion of socks? do you like wearing weird socks? do you sleep with socks? do you confine yourself to white sock hell? really, just talk about socks. the best way to describe my socks and usage of them is that my nurse the other week when i was getting dressed to go home was like “oh! you’re wearing mismatched for rock the socks day (a day to uplift/celebrate down’s syndrome) and i was like “i guess….. but this is also just how i wear my socks” i very rarely end up having matching socks?? it just??? never happens even if i try

32: tell us a story of something that happened to you after 3AM when you were with friends. lmao idk if this was after 3am but i remember that one time me and @kkruel were ranting about his dorm neighbour showering at like midnight but literally just shrugged it off when the ceiling caved in saihfoasp

33: what’s your fave pastry? pastry is such a loose term though??? there is so much to choose from??? but i’m like really feeling muffins lately

34: tell us about the stuffed animal you kept as a kid. what is it called? what does it look like? do you still keep it? i had a bunch but let’s talk about the one stuffed dog i got when i was like six and is still like brand-new because i was terrified of ruining it so i just…. occasionally gave it a pet. nothing more

35: do you like stationary and pretty pens and so on? do you use them often? i do, i do. i prefer certain pens, even if the ink’s only black, and i tend to use them more than pencils.

36: which band’s sound would fit your mood right now? nirvana unplugged would fit so much i had to go listen to it

37: do you like keeping your room messy or clean? i mean i like when it’s clean but i don’t mind if it’s messy… as long as it isn’t Messy

38: tell us about your pet peeves! flour

39: what color do you wear the most? um probably blue or black

40: think of a piece of jewelry you own: what’s it’s story? does it have any meaning to you? i honestly don’t really own any jewelry. i do have a watch that i use sometimes but it doesn’t really have a meaning other than that my mum bought it for me during one of our trips to uppsala. so i guess it does mean something after all lmao

41: what’s the last book you remember really, really loving? i really loved nimona. it was hilarious and amazing

42: do you have a favorite coffee shop? describe it! idk i really like espresso house because they have really good chocolate muffins but it’s always crowded and overpriced. wayne’s also has good muffins and are usually a bit cheaper, a bit less crowded

43: who was the last person you gazed at the stars with? i guess micah and his dad lmao

44: when was the last time you remember feeling completely serene and at peace with everything? um probably last tuesday

45: do you trust your instincts a lot? i mean i guess?

46: tell us the worst pun you can think of. my mind is BLANK

47: what food do you think should be banned from the universe? ticks. oh this said FOOD. um. mustard

48: what was your biggest fear as a kid? is it the same today? i can only think of my trauma-based fears and they were usually about water and losing my parents??? i’m not sure i’d say either is the biggest fear now, but i still feel really uncomfortable in muddy water

49: do you like buying CDs and records? what was the last one you bought? p sure the last i bought was highlights from the original french production of les misérables

50: what’s an odd thing you collect? as a kid i used to collect popcorn boxes from the movies? i think i only have lotr ones left

51: think of a person. what song do you associate with them? i associate @conradsricamora with conrad’s cover of ain’t no sunshine

52: what are your favorite memes of the year so far? i like the meme about ted cruz as the zodiac killer but it’s not from this year. uh. i can’t think of a 2017 meme

53: have you ever watched the rocky horror picture show? heathers? beetlejuice? pulp fiction? what do you think of them? i’ve seen beetlejuice and pulp fiction and i love them both. one’s the perfect funny rainy october night movie and the other’s just… wow

54: who’s the last person you saw with a true look of sadness on their face? idk someone on grey’s anatomy. mum’s been watching it a lot lately

55: what’s the most dramatic thing you’ve ever done to prove a point? gosh idk. i hope nothing too Dramatic

56: what are some things you find endearing in people? their love for their hobbies. like when someone is really intensively into something and it’s so Obvious. i love that

57: go listen to bohemian rhapsody. how did it make you feel? did you dramatically reenact the lyrics? it always makes me feel so good. and i mean… yeah…. who doesn’t…

58: who’s the wine mom and who’s the vodka aunt in your group of friends? why? um @itsjustaheartache is the wine mum and @caesarsbuddy is the vodka aunt because…. they just are

59: what’s your favorite myth? um anything to do with swedish trolls tbh

60: do you like poetry? what are some of your faves? tbh i love poetry but i’m a bit picky with it. but i’ll read anything by richard siken

61: what’s the stupidest gift you’ve ever given? the stupidest one you’ve ever received? um my aunt once gave me a cp3o pen for christmas. like that was it. i think it was in the 1 dollar bin

62: do you drink juice in the morning? which kind? no i don’t but if i have to, i prefer orange juice

63: are you fussy about your books and music? do you keep them meticulously organized or kinda leave them be? i really like them organized but i have so many books that i just.. give up a lot

64: what color is the sky where you are right now? it’s late so probably dark, dark blue. perhaps even black

65: is there anyone you haven’t seen in a long time who you’d love to hang out with? all my friends at this point lmao

66: what would your ideal flower crown look like? idk… flowery

67: how do gloomy days where the sky is dark and the world is misty make you feel? like it’s time to travel to middle earth

68: what’s winter like where you live? it’s either really cold and snowy or no snow and probably really rainy

69: what are your favorite board games? dnd or monopoly

70: have you ever used a ouija board? no and i fucking never will

71: what’s your favorite kind of tea? rn it’s my pokémon tea that my dad’s gf got me

72: are you a person who needs to note everything down or else you’ll forget it? lmao i definitely need to write everything down which i’ve failed to do lately and i hate it

73: what are some of your worst habits? procrastination

74: describe a good friend of yours without using their name or gendered pronouns. gay

75: tell us about your pets! one is satan but also the sweetest??? v interesting mix. she is honestly so good. and the other one is chunk in cat form. also p good

76: is there anything you should be doing right now but aren’t? i’m trying to finish my assigned math tasks for today but ashfpsao god damn ebba made me answer all these 100 q’s

77: pink or yellow lemonade? neither? i’m not a big fan of lemonade

78: are you in the minion hateclub or fanclub? i haven’t seen the movies so i was neutral… and at this point i’m neutral evil about it. stop it

79: what’s one of the cutest things someone has ever done for you? john boyega exists so that was a cute thing of his parents to do

80: what color are your bedroom walls? did you choose that color? if so, why? blue at dad’s and like white/cream-ish at mum’s…. bc blue felt most neutral and the other one was already there, so

81: describe one of your friend’s eyes using the most abstract imagery you can think of. sea with a touch of caramel

82: are/were you good in school? lmao

83: what’s some of your favorite album art? um. tbh anything by led zeppelin

84: are you planning on getting tattoos? which ones? i’d want some, sure, but i’m uncertain of what. probably something relating to ryan dunn at least

85: do you read comics? what are your faves? it’s been a while since i had time to but i really love captain america, sweet tooth and…. tbh i’m not picky???

86: do you like concept albums? which ones? i love them. esp if it’s by king diamond. if i have to choose one of his, it’s got to be them or abigail tbh

87: what are some movies you think everyone should watch at least once in their lives? the lord of the rings trilogy and the star wars original trilogy. also artifical intelligence

88: are there any artistic movements you particularly enjoy? resistance

89: are you close to your parents? i mean yeah? in different ways but i’m close to both of them which is v nice

90: talk about your one of you favorite cities. it is really neat with beautiful old buildings and lots of book shops. or at least a bunch of good book shops. also actual shops dedicated to comics or gaming. also a v nice tea shop

91: where do you plan on traveling this year? i’m hoping to move to a new city this autumn, so there’s that

92: are you a person who drowns their pasta in cheese or a person who barely sprinkles a pinch? i don’t get cheese on pasta unless it’s mac and cheese

93: what’s the hairstyle you wear the most? a luke skywalker inspired ‘do

94: who was the last person you know to have a birthday? um some family friend on facebook

95: what are your plans for this weekend? um. study, probably

96: do you install your computer updates really quickly or do you procrastinate on them a lot? i procrastinate. def

97: myer briggs type, zodiac sign, and hogwarts house? infp, leo, hufflepuff

98: when’s the last time you went hiking? did you enjoy it? i don’t remember when it was but i know that i did not enjoy it

99: list some songs that resonate to your soul whenever you hear them. anything by led zeppelin or stromae. a specific song though is the freshman by the verve pipe

100: if you were presented with two buttons, one that allows you to go 5 years into the past, the other 5 years into the future, which one would you press? why? no. no. you do not mess with time ok

#philipsunshea #tag: asks

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