On this week's episode of: 90-Day Fiancé, S4-E11, "The Tongue Has No Bone, but It Cuts Deep."
On this week's episode of: 90-Day Fiancé, S4-E11 "The Tongue Has No Bone, but It Cuts Deep."
This week 90-day The Other way was all about co-co-nut’s and excuses-like-butts, everybody’s got one.
This week's 90-Day Other-Way episode starts out with Mrs. Debbie and Oussama heading to his parents’ house.
Debbie learns that Oussama is expecting her to give them all the details of her stay and really to explain to HIS mother most of their relationship.
Oussama warns her his mom doesn't talk much but, not to worry, he assures her has told his mom his wife-to-be is American, and of-course, that he loves her (Debbie).Debbie knows better, she realizes that Oussama is dumping all the responsibility on her, as well is probably hiding something, regardless in true Mrs. Debbie fashion, she strokes his ego the whole bumpy road home.
Oussama and Debbie arrive to Oussama’s beautiful family home. The couple are met with hugs and smiles, oddly enough Oussama tells Debbie she shall not meet his parents without a smile, so she bore one too.The group comprised of Oussama and his mom and dad, sister and Debbie. he family spoke some English which helped Debbie bond a lot and they seemed very pleasant. The mom was polite but her body language spoke a thousand words.
Cut scene to the forever un-dry. Dripping with awkward passive aggressive confrontation is Risky-Rishi and Jealous-JenJen asks why Rishi sends these types of photo to women, referencing the highly filtered, flirty and fleshy flex he sent her friend.
Rishi tried to explain it away that the photo was “for everyone” and in the same conversation he also says it was a joke. Well which is it Rishi?!
Clearly the joke’s on Jen because she’s still there at this point in the season. Rishi also offer’s his phone as is we don’t all know he wouldn’t have offered if he hadn’t recently deleted his bad-business.Jen points out she literally cannot reads any of it, as it’s all in Hindi. Jen is questioning a lot about Rishi right now, so what is she waiting for?
It seems like she wants her friends to say what she can’t.Is anyone else feeling like Jen and Jenny will be 90-years-old before they realize their Indian-hunks are a hunk-of-junk?
Randi and Myra are headed to represent Jen in what appears is going to be a 3 on 1 battle. Rishi turns from a guru to a goof. He somehow became a teen boy again, seemingly clueless about how internet communications work and what it means to send a woman a sexy-shirtless-selfie. The friends are easy on Rishi which was somewhat shocking. Thank Skanda he didn’t send Randi the eggplant emojie or he’d have some baba ganoush in his pants after this toothsome-two confront him on his half-naked shenanigans.
Myra and Randi arrive in India, and Jen meets them for a fun ride home in an Indian auto rickshaw. The three get spat at by a passing bus, but no worries to the three they literally laughed off the disgust.
Let’s hope they have the same shake-it-off attitude when Rishi spoons them a load of his excuses and imitated willful ignorance, as we all know he’s just a perfectly tan wolf in yoga pants.
Jen, Myra and Randi get to Jen’s apartment and have a little laugh at the “burglar bars” and also the bathroom accommodations, we would expect no less. Honestly Jen’s place is the most modern and clean apartment in India we’ve seen on 90-day yet! Maybe Myra and Randi should catch up on prior episodes? It could DEFINITELY be worse.
Jen explains that an astrologer told Rishi what date to reveal their love, and the three have another laugh, scoffing at the cultural belief in the astrologer’s advice.
Again they need to watch back on Jenny and Sumit, this is not the first time we’ve heard the astrologer being the cultural norm for relationship advice.
Believe it or not, gotta respect their culture. What is not clear is the culture of lying to woman, if anything is to be revealed in tonight’s episode it’s Rishi’s ability to withstand Jen’s forces-of-friends.
The group meets for a meal, and we think this is the best look Jen has sported yet!
Rishi had so many excuses, at first he was playing with her, then he said he thought she was joking with him, then se said he felt she was inappropriate so he blocked Randi.Not sure what she did that was inappropriate, Rishi is the only one who sent half naked photos, but ok Rishi, we see you.
Jen learns at this group meal that Rishi’s parents have tried 2-3 times with different woman to get him into an arranged marriage over the last few years. Jen becomes overwhelmed and excuses herself leaving Rishi alone with the two friends.
Daniele and Yohan also brace for impact and play kick-the-coconut before Daniele leaves to plan a surprise get-together for Yohan’s birthday.
Daniele gets more validation in her whimsical ‘witchcraft’ when she and Yohan kicks an eggshell covered coconut around the house in order to “create a peaceful perimeter” around her home. You know, instead of picking a mate that’s even remotely compatible.
We think Daniele is adorable! What’s not cute is how she puts up with Yohan’s giant child-like non-manhood which is clearly demonstrated every episode.We are beginning to find her head-in-the-sand attitude less-and-less cute as the season has gone by. This man is clearly not with her for the right reasons, and some say money troubles are to blame on why she has seemingly fled to the Dominican Republic. Could rising debt here in the States be why she is putting up with her Columbian boy-giant? Couldn’t she have left the States without putting herself through so much trouble?
With such a crumbling foundation of respect for each other, it’s just a matter of time before Daniele’s witchy-brew explodes in her teeny-tiny little face.Clearly there is something keeping her riding this dead-pony, we have some thoughts, but would love to hear from you and why you think she stays, comments below!
Tonight is Yohan’s birthday and Daniele has promised her son-husband a romantic dinner, what he doesn’t know is she is planning a surprise birthday party… but wait, do they even have Chuck E. Cheeze in the D.R.?
Daniele and Yohan arrive to the location to find his whole family. He says he’s surprised and asks who’s idea this all was. When Daniele tells him it was her, he seems annoyed.He then makes a toast and thanks ‘god’ another year of life and that he wants to thank his family for being there.
His family is quick to remind him he forgot the main person who made the night happen, his WIFE!
When they jokingly remind him where his gratitude should be he makes a dismissive comment that he already thanked her, which he did not.
Instead of saying something like “yes, thank you so much to my wife” he just grunts and begins eating again like the brainless rhino’s butthole of a man he is.
Daniele calmly tells him how she feels after excusing herself from the table, and he has the nerve to blame her, but what did you expect him to do? Thank her?
This trans-relationship is clearly the strongest of them all this season. Gabe and Isabel visit an attorney, and Gabe finds the wedding to his dream girl could be a pipe-dream or at least massively delayed.
Gabe’s birth certificate isn’t updated and his birth certificate needs to match his identification documents or the legal union cannot commence per Columbian laws.
This woman has been patient and understanding, and her inclusive and loving family is still willing to accept Gabe into the family which makes this birth certificate problem the only barrier now to their union.
The problem is all Gabe, he didn’t keep evidence of his transition to change his birth certificate to male, and Isabel is visibly annoyed with Gabe’s lack of preparation.
The female birth certificate not matching all of Gabe’s other paperwork that says male makes it where he can’t get the marriage license processed, and thus will have no visa to stay longer.
Also, has anyone else noticed that in this episode, impressively fluent Gabe seems like he barely understands and speaks the language, is stress causing him some language-amnesia?
Is he just being humble about his fluency, because these are sensitive topic and he doesn’t want to say or understand something incorrectly? One thing is for sure, Isabel’s patience may be running thin with his sometimes chaotic fly-by-the-seam choices. Could trouble in paradise be brewing?
Gabe reveals to Isabel after the cool-down following the lawyer’s office visit, that he hasn’t told his parents about the engagement which further stresses Isabel out.Gabe is then driven to the airport by Isabel and the two part ways, Gabe is very worried he won’t be let back in due to his paperwork. Gabe seems so responsible at times so we understand Isabel’s frustration in his ill preparedness.
We want this couple to work out so bad! They seem so loving, let’s hope this separation is temporary because these-two are too-cute!
Some say this mistake is scripted, some are just disappointed in Gabe’s prior research of what he’d need to get married. What are your thoughts on Gabe and his birth certificate snafoo?
Kris rushing back to the US with a somewhat shaky reasoning, is finding a very shaky relationship with her new bride.
Kris and Jeymi have been separate for 3 months now and today they meet over video chat and Jayme drops a BOMB!
It’s been a MONTH since she has even video called with her wife, and all while Jeymi battles a potentially life-threatening virus.
Viewers can’t help but notice that Kris has both of her arms covered in a conspicuous spot (around her arm just below her elbows) and viewers suspect her inner armsis being hidden due to possible drug track marks from injections.
If you are as confused as we were, on why this is a suspicion, well we looked back and found that internet sleuths claim Kris was buying opiates at the pharmacy in Columbia. Her constant complaints of pain and that she needed to come back to get her meds has some shaking their heads in disbelief, and frankly saying some very cruel things. If this actually true (and it's hopefully not) we truly hope that Kris gets the help she needs to get well. For all the people speculating, please be kind, if this is a real addiction for her let's lift her up and get her the help she needs.
While Jeymi pours her heart out, Kris makes the excuse she hasn’t video called because she was “working” all of the time. When Jeymi seeks validation and reassurance Kris gets in a huff and then blames Jeymi.
She turns on the gas, tells Jeymi THIS is why she didn’t want to talk to her, abandons the video call on the laptop and walks away instead of just giving Jeymi the reassurance she deserves.
Before Kris runs away she illustrates she is resentful that she is working and Jeymi is not and claims that she is pressure washing, mowing lawns etc… Jeymi is tearful with Kris and Kris just looks at her stoic, then becomes agitated and stonewalls Jeymi by walking away mid convo.
Could this couple be headed to separation? It does appear their differences and Kris propensity to a chaotic lifestyle may be too much for the couple to burden this early on.We are already reading the rumblings of rumors that this couple is indeed splitsville, but we’ll just have to watch to find out!
Nicole and Mahmoud were not shown in this episode but by the looks of it they will be featured in the next episode.
We can’t wait to see what drama awaits them next.Come read our next review of 90-day Fiancé for the honest scoop, right here on baby-neon!
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