A while ago I was reading this The Dark Knight fanfiction about the Joker kidnapping Lois Lane (it was really good!) and he had this nickname for her, "Queen of Tarts/Sweet Tart". I can't help but feel the second one could something one of your versions of Dabi might say too. Also, you know what's an underrated nickname? "Sweetness". I never see it anywhere and it's so cute! I'd die if Dabi used that one. <3 <3

ooooh!!!! i really like sweet tart, i think that’s super cute n i could definitely see one of my versions of dabi using it as a nickname (perhaps condescendingly so??? :o hehe) almost in a sickly sweet voice, yeah <3 could definitely see 1950s!dabi using it!!! aaah sweetness makes me 😣 because this gross sketchy middle-aged man calls me that and it makes me want to peel off my skin ._. if i didn’t otherwise have that association with it i’d probably think it was cute too!!

you’ve talked about bmb!reader’s fashion but what about touya-nii reader? is it similar to bmb reader? also how are their personalities different from each other? LMAO THIS IS THE SAME ANON THAT ASKED ABOUT BMB READER’s fashion n shit

OH HEHEHE HELLO BB WELCOME BACK <333 omg these are fantastic questions aaaah anon thank u for asking them!!!

tw: discussion of very toxic/unhealthy relationship

touya-nii's reader's fashion: it is very very similar to bmb reader's fashion, but a little less extravagant (so more toned down, basically) and exclusively in shades of whites, pinks, and purples. very soft and almost doll-like/angelic dresses that are just a hint too short to be considered fully modest (much like those mini-mod dresses from the 60s!! mid thigh type length). she never wears pants. it's like an unspoken rule touya has for her; absolutely no pants allowed. but other than that i'd say that the cut of dresses touya-nii's reader wears are very similar to those that bmb reader wears.

how are their personalities different from each other?

touya-nii's reader thrives on praise and validation. she is so unhealthily obsessed and in love with touya that her main goal and purpose in life is to serve him; to hold him together when he needs it, to cheer him up when he needs it, to be a good, great, the best girl for him. she does everything touya says without resistance (tho sometimes she can get a lil playful, but it's never serious) and only pushes back against him when she feels like their 'love' is in jeopardy (ie finally standing up to him at the party in part two, fucking tomura in part three, etc). that's when her shred of autonomy surfaces, because she'll be damned if she's gonna let him slip away from her, too (match made in heaven, huh?). other than that, she is happy to serve him. she has been conditioned to be this way; her soft and people pleasing nature taken advantage of and her need for praise grossly manipulated to keep her under touya's thumb, to the point where she now finds her own self-worth in pleasing him. in all ways, she has become merely an extension of him; she looks to him for guidance on everything and clings to him.

bmb's reader is more headstrong and opinionated than touya-nii's reader (and that's saying something, because she's still fairly submissive!), and thrives on attention. she enjoys being doted on, she loves being taken care of and is more than content to let Daddy make most decisions for her (not all, but most). in plain terms, she's lazy; and she's happy to allow tomura to make all of these decisions for her. this is perhaps where they differ the most; bmb's reader has actively chosen to give up most of her autonomy to tomura because she likes having those decisions made for her, whereas touya-nii's reader was more manipulated (+ exploited) and conditioned into liking it. bmb reader also genuinely enjoys being treated like a princess; and tomura loves having that extreme control over her, so it works out quite well. and she's much more of a brat than touya-nii's reader is, and is prone to throwing tantrums or making impulsive decisions when she doesn't get what she wants!!

hi clari!! any chance we’re getting a boyfriend reveal? and i totally don’t mean this in a “ooh i want to know about you and be a prying little bitch” i mean this in a “all of my partners including my current one are dabis doppelgängers and i want to know if i’m the only one” way. like ????? it’s becoming a problem at this point and i don’t even do it on purpose. anyway! pretty please?

hi anon!! <3 a boyfriend reveal!? ehehe what do you mean by that? like you want to see what he looks like??? no anon, you will not, as he is definitely not comfortable with that in any way! if you want to know about his appearance, though, i can give you the basic details: he has green eyes & blonde curly hair! my best friend actually thinks he looks like keigo LMAO. she was like ‘nah i can’t find keigo attractive because he looks like your man and it’s weird’ hahaha <3

none of my boyfriends have been dabi doppelgängers in any way!!

ahhhh!!! pussy spanking!!! yayy!!!!! i love it so muchh (*ﾉдﾉ) its literally one of my favorite things ever oh my gosh clariiii you’re doing gods work ilyyyy<33

- micro anon

EHEHEHE micro anon bb <33333 i'm so glad to hear it!!! ilysm i hope u enjoyed that piece <3 i'm totally obsessed and in love with the relationship dynamic between those three n i can't wait to explore it more!!!

Clari!!! I’m so very curious why Touya-nii called out for Shouto when he OD’s. I know it happens before the snowman and me story, but in that one Touya wanted to kill him. So I’m just wondering why Touya choses to call for Shouto as opposed to reader (or even natsuo!)

hi sweetpea!! <33 i explained the rationale behind touya’s “shou,” (and then) “shouto,” right here my luv!! <333

(I think you spelled noncon wrong in the tags on your previous post so it won’t be filtered properly for people who have that tag blocked!)

omg i did!! thank you so much for catching that so quickly anon and letting me know immediately!!! i really appreciate it!! <333 oh my heart is so full of love for you <3 i fixed it!!

that's amazing that youre planning to publish!! feel free not to answer if not comfortable but was it originally you wanted to write for the bnha fandom or was it an original idea and you wrote in the form of fanfiction? also whenever you do publish will you tell us because I'd love to get a copy and to be able to read any of your work <33

also again just want to say how amazing it is that your wrote this and are are almost done, congrats to you that is a big accomplishment especially since you started it in April 😯 so like wow!!

aaaah thank you so much!!!! <33 no, the idea itself is heavily inspired by the events of bnha itself!!! tomura is inheriting a family business instead of a quirk, the idea of the family business being a medical conglomerate specializing in drugs and performing human experiments came from nomus, AFO in the series gives me MAJOR don corleone vibes haha (and you can definitely see a lot of the godfather in bmb as well, modified for white collar organized crime), keigo is infiltrating a white collar crime organization instead of the league, etc. so it came to me in the form of fanfiction first!! i'd actually say that out of all of my AUs, bmb is the one that pulls from the source material the most.

oh my gosh anon babie ABSOLUTELY of course i will let you all know!!! 100%!!! it means the whole UNIVERSE to me that you're here supporting my work and that you'd like to support it in the future!!! seriously, from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much <33333

& thank you!!! i'm super super excited to finish and for you guys to FINALLY have the whole story!!! i have about a million additional pieces of bmb content planned, as well!! NO NOOOO hehehe i meant i started part four in april!!! i began writing bmb as a whole in september of last year!! <3

hii clari<3 it’s been AGES omg do u remember me hehe it’s bunny anon ☺️ how have u been?! I missed u so much!!! though I haven’t been able to go on tumblr often I went on your blog (and your blog only) or re-read ur answers for my past asks every now and then!! going on ur blog is literally my therapy and my happy place, and it has been that way ever since I discovered your blog <33 so thank u so so much for that!

Lil life updateee I’m in uni now, in America which is very far away from my home country!! finally doing film major stuff hehe so it’s v nice, but at the same time it kinda fucks up my mental health at times </3 okok so my college rant under this!!!being soo far away from all my family and friends (and a country I’ve lived my whole life in) isn’t the easiest thing but honestly I think my actual struggles r based on the college part :( starting all my relationships from scratch&handling crazy amount of workload is toughh. I constantly feel the pressure to build a deep, close or comfortable friendship even though I know it takes time. I also think I have fomo&I constantly pressure myself cuz it feels like I have to know many ppl, go to parties every week and “have fun” but it doesn’t seem to be the case for me yet ;( I know it hasn’t even been 2 months so I should go easy on myself but my brain and mind seems to work separately </3 My brain knows things like these take time & a lot of ppl are going thru the same thing & everyone’s life goes on a diff pace & no one’s gonna judge if I’m going to parties and having fun in college or not… but my mind keeps pressuring me for no reason 😢

sorry for the long rantttt ahh it’s just that you’re so so sweet, make me feel truly comfortable sharing these vulnerable stuff & give amazing advice 🥺 I appreciate u so so much clari!! also wanted to share that our past film talks nd ur passion for film also inspire me and motivate me to do well in class <333 love u so much nd hope u’re doing great angel <3 -🐰

oh my gosh bunnie babie i missed you so much!!!!!! it’s so wonderful to hear from you again!!! SSSHHHHHHH STOP THAT’S SO PRECIOUS MY WHOLE HEART IS MELTING MY RIBCAGE AAAAH <33333 i’m so so so happy to har that, but i’m so sorry you’re having a bit of a tough time :(( let’s get into it under the cut <3

oh sweetpea, first year of uni can be rough!!! it was rough for me and i didn’t even move out of my home country, so i can only imagine the toll it’s taking on you!

my advice is to try and balance your mental health and your school work (a LOT easier said than done, i know, but you can do it!!). babie, if you don’t like going out to parties every weekend, or they’re totally draining and exhausting you, then don’t go! look around for events happening in the city and clubs happening on your campus that embody things you ENJOY doing, and spend your time going to those instead. you’ll still make meaningful connections through these, too!! university campuses often have a ton of events and clubs going on literally all the time, so start looking around!

i’m not going to tell you school isn’t important; my schoolwork and my grades and my education as a whole was extremely extremely important to me and i get the sense that it matters a lot to you too. and that’s good, that’s okay! i gleaned a lot of validation from my schoolwork and genuinely enjoyed my assignments, so i get it. thus, education matters, yes, but not at the expense of your mental health. school will always be there; it isn’t going anywhere, you know? but your mental health is something that must be dealt with immediately before it gets worse. you don’t deserve to suffer!!!

on the topic of balancing mental health/life and school: making realistic to-do lists, keeping a schedule, and offering myself rewards was what worked the best for me!! so, for example, i would make a ‘deal’ of sorts with myself: i’d be like okay, let’s read these three articles, or write three paragraphs of that essay, and then i can spend the rest of the night watching a movie/hanging out with friends etc and it worked quite well for me!! so maybe that might be a strategy you want to try!! <3

on the topic of friends + relationships: let those friendships and connections form organically; they’ll be much deeper that way. focus on fostering meaningful connections with people you click with. these could be people in your classes, in school clubs, your roommates, at parties (if you WANT to go; you do not have to. i didn’t!), at events around the city etc. personally, i made all of my uni friends through my classes and our film club on campus!! and let me tell you something: on my way to my first film club meaning, i was so nervous i nearly threw up. i almost turned around, but my mom called me and persuaded me to at least show up. as someone who suffers from severe social anxiety, it was downright terrifying, but i’m so glad i did it! and proud of myself, too!! i made a handful of really incredible, talented friends whom i still love and cherish today (one of them actually just messaged me to gush about dabi and then invite me to a little anime watch party he hosts every week). my point is: there are sooooooo many different ways to meet people and make new friends; parties are only ONE of those ways, and they’re not for everyone, and that’s okay.

you said america isn’t your home country, are you fluent in another language? if so, my city had this really cool program where you teach others languages (and they teach you one, too!) and i know a few of my friends made friends through that as well.so maybe that’s an option! if your city hosts a lot of film events at indie theatres, you could also check those out, too!!

look around and see what’s going on, and above all just take it one day at a time. i promise there’s no rush here and you’re 100% right, you should try to be easier on yourself!! be kind to yourself my sweet bunny babie, this is a lot to handle!! it must be very overwhelming! it’s okay if you have to take it a little slower! do whatever is best for you <3 and whenever your mind starts being mean to you and telling you lies, just tell it to shut the fuck up, because you KNOW it isn’t true (and tell it clari says stfu too and stop tormenting bunny >:( hehe <3)

i hope this helps a little, sweetpea!! thank you so much for your kind words, they warmed me right to the core of my soul!! it’s absolutely lovely just hearing from you again, even if the situation is icky >.< i love you so much and you’ll be in my thoughts!! this is a MASSIVE life transition for you, try to be a little kinder to yourself, precious bunny <3 you’re doing so well and i’m so proud of you!!!

I binge read your shit around October or November? Maybe later idk, last year and I can’t remember which piece of yours this was (like the title/name) but I have such a crystal clear image of Dabi’s shaking hands fumbling with the tiny bag of white stuff with reader in the car on their way to the cabin for the family trip and idk. I don’t usually have those well put together images by most writings and I just wanted to say I appreciate your writing and how well you can write. Idk if that’s coming out right? I just appreciate the hours and energy it took to dedicate yourself to each piece you’ve written. Much love, your nerd anon 🤓 <3

WAAAAAAHHHH NERD ANON BABIE <33333 oh my gosh!!!! so you've been here for nearly the entirety thus far as well!!! that's so incredible and mind blowing to me, wowowow!! thank you so, so much for sticking with me and reading my stuff sweetpea, it means so very much to me <333

OH OH UR THINKING OF TOUYA-NII PART TWO (all she want is payback for the way i always play that shit) during the wedding, right after they finish the photos!!!

it is absolutely coming out right, and i thank you from the very bottom of my heart <3 thank you for sharing such kind words with me!!! i appreciate you more than words could ever tell you, sweetpea <3 i do put my whole heart and soul into everything i write, simply because it all means so much to me, but it's so lovely to hear that you appreciate it, too <33333

Omg Clari-bee, I can't wait for your Dark Academia!AU now, I read a DA novel recently and it was okay, but I thought, "I wonder how good this genre can be in the hands of a really good writer?" so I guess I'll get my answer soon. <3

WAAAAAAAAH oh my gosh oh my gosh, you flatter me so so so much, wow!!! thank you for such a massive compliment!! yes yes, i really hope to finish that fic, most likely in the new year as it seems oct-dec will be taken up by bmb and tag you're it ehehe <33 which novel was it, if you don't mind me asking???

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i’m so sorry bb i just have to post these and tell you how much they made me GIGGLE AAAAAAH <333

they seriously filled me with so much warmth and i just aaaaaaaah hehehehehe i love you too <33333