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#read their texts and the things they find rude are weird even by neurotypical standards so i dont know how to talk to them
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........maybe lead with that, grandma.....
#also possibly include more information#did they say when they were exposed?#are we talking like exposed this week? last week? yesterday?#i need to weigh the risks now grandma#on one hand i hope they were exposed last week and just tested now as a precaution#but on the other hand i kind of hope that's not what happened cuz that means they decided going on a trip was#still a good idea#but also that means theyre going to a restaurant during a time when sitting outside is not advisable due to the heat#and potentially exposing people when the tests may just not be picking it up yet#like im going to assume since theres 5 of them (hopefully only 4 tho. i dont wanna see bob) and they hopefully all got tested#and all the tests came back negative theyre /probably/ safe to be arounf#BUT I DONT KNOW THAT#BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT GIVE ME SUFFICIENT INFORMATION#like yes i should just text my cousin and ask some clarifying questions but i have anxiety around doing that#because when ive done that in the past people got mad at me cuz apparently thats rude to some people#and while i dont think my cousin would think that her grandparents dont respect her or her sisters privacy at all and sometimes#read their texts and the things they find rude are weird even by neurotypical standards so i dont know how to talk to them#(or in this case talk to my cousin and risk them reading my messages and getting offended somehow)#fuckin rich neurotypical catholics#its like i have to play fuckin chess just to talk to these peoplw#and im awful at chess#and if i do go do i wear my headphones to block out background noise in the restaurant????#that would likely help but i get the feeling everyones gonna wanna comment on it and question it cuz they do that with everything i do#and no one except grandma and MAYBE grandpa know im autistic and i while i dont care who knows#i also dont wanna risk getting interrogated about it in an Applebee's
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