I hate twilight’s writing and it has way too many problematic things to count but let’s be clear for a second:

Jacob was objectively the best choice for Bella. Period.

He was a genuinely kind boy, he and Bella had a good, believable friendship, Bella fell in love with him because of HIM and not some magical predator quirks that lured her in (like with Edward), Jacob never controlled Bella, never stalked Bella, never fantasised about killing her and draining her of blood, etc.

“B-b-but when he imprinted on her daughter—🤓“ that was character assassination. The author took the best thing that happened to this franchise and murdered it right in front of our eyes. S.M couldn’t keep her own character’s consistent but it‘s not Jacob’s fault.