Donation Post Sick Pet Please Help

We just lost our old cranky girl cat Ollie on March 31, 2023, and in trying to make her comfortable and then having to put her to sleep we used what little bit of money we had saved up. Now Pumpkin needs to get his kidneys flushed to have any chance to save them.

Please help us extend his life and make him more comfortable

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i used to think gender fluidity was something i’d leave behind eventually. for awhile i thought i was totally done feeling all that stuff. but even tho i dont ever use the word genderfluid to describe myself, i think i need to be more open to those feelings

there’s some great posts going around about how gender euphoria is probably a better indicator of gender identity than gender dysphoria. i dont actually experience gender dysphoria alllllllll the time and i dont feel any real desire to be particularly masculine or feminine. but i know when ppl call me by my actual name or when my boyfriend touches me in a way nobody would touch a man, i feel a great sense of beauty and joy, like everything is right in the world and love just flows thru me. some days i look in the mirror at my unshaven face and my board shoulders and weird gangly body and i think “damn, i look like shit” and a big part of that’s gender dysphoria. but some other days i see the same fuckin person in the mirror and im like “wow i look cool as hell, the stubble brings a certain panache to my lopsided smile, makes me look mysterious” like i actually feel gender euphoria from looking masculine. and most days arent boy days but those days make me happy in that same pure, beautiful way. i think i’ve always felt this way and i dont think it’ll stop occasionally happening. and thats not really a bad thing

i think this stuff would be really hard for most ppl to really understand, especially most cis ppl. idk if ur cis and u can relate leave a comment like subscribe. ive just spent so much fuckin time decoding these emotional responses its cool to see things snapping into place a little bit