I recognize that this isn't necessarily a race in which I have a horse so I apologize in advance for like daring to open my mouth but I find this whole. God for lack of a better term "femboy discourse" to basically be another rerun of "no version of trans identity that isn't exactly like mine is bad actually." Like okay I realize that your specific gender identity "has nothing to do with men" and it would be extremely improper and offensive for someone to group you in with "cis femboys" on that account, but you cannot just apply that across the board. Look at how nonbinary this website is. That's never going to be a uniform fit